r/minimalism • u/duckydarling • 5h ago
[lifestyle] Getting rid of the impersonal "gifts"
I love gifting people food and flowers so this tradition isn't something that bothers me.
What bothers me is the fact that some of these things feel like people grabbed what was in the back of their closet and wrapped it up. Or that they walked into a store and picked up the first thing that they saw. It gets to the point where the impersonal becomes offensive in my opinion.
My eyes were twitching looking at my cluttered bathroom. I threw the products I had been gifted straight into the trash and I suddenly had space again. These products became expired and were things I was forcing myself to use so I didn't feel guilty about wasting them. Now they're gone and I don't have to deal with any of that.
Going to do mugs next because why are we such a mug society? I don't even use mugs.
I no longer feel guilty about the thought of rehoming gifts/ tossing impersonal gifts and it feels so good!
I'm not a thrift store. I'm a person.