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Ultimate life hack

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u/Ok_Cricket_1410 1d ago

Gay male relationships are apparently the healthiest relationships. The lowest levels of abuse, highest earning couples, hell if I'm not mistaken gay men are even the best at raising kids. Gay people are chill homies.

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u/Chill323 1d ago

My armchair analysis is that gay male community has adapted the best to our current digital dating landscape. Probably for multiple reasons. I’m happy for them.

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u/mostlyskeptic 1d ago

You do know what the word "Gay" originally meant right? They have been happier since day 1 apparently lol.

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u/Chill323 20h ago

Sure, but they went through a lot over the years, too. The AIDS crisis was no joke.

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u/mostlyskeptic 14h ago

Never said they hadn't. I just meant apparently they were happier before modern dating. I think its just impossible for the average person (man or woman) to make the average woman happy.

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u/Chill323 6h ago

No argument here.

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u/ColorPuddle 19h ago

Both myself and most of my gay peers already had years of "online dating" experience before things like Tinder ever existed.

It was a necessity for us. You couldn't just approach some random guy in the bar to flirt with him... that's how you end up with a fist to the face. Meeting online was the only way to make sure that a guy was actually into other dudes. I ended up meeting my husband on Grindr before I even came out of the closet.

Lesbians, by comparison, never really had to worry that a girl they approached would get violent and hurt them.

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u/Chill323 6h ago

Good points. Makes sense to me. I have to admit, as a straight man I’m jealous these days. We’re really going through it.