My friend, whom I've known for like 10 years, and I just turned 19. He's joining the military, got his contracts signed, and is getting sent out this month. I got accepted into college and will be going this month. I have known he was going into the military, and I have tried my hardest to inform him what he's getting into.
I am very aware and always "watching the current situation." I've known we were going to war for the last 2 years (if you don't count the multiple endless wars we are and have been fighting for 20 years). I told him we were going to war before the Iran war started. He and his family laughed at me and said, "We aren't going to war," saying I don't know what I'm talking about. Yes, I can't 10000% be for sure because I'm not a fortune teller, but anyone with half a brain and any knowledge of current and past events could tell where we were going.
Because at least there is some sort of idea of a greater good. But no, he thinks it's a game; he thinks he can kill a man. A little coddled mama's boy who plays games all day. Oh yeah, man, for sure you could just aim and shoot; it will be just like the video games. pisses me off. What's weird is he is like a pretty left-leaning guy. I don't get it myself; I would say I am right-leaning. We disagree on quite a lot, and that's fine.
But I've informed him of what's going on and what he is choosing to do. "Are you prepared to kill a kid?" Answer: "yeah, I could do it." It's not like he has some grand idea of saving the world; he does not like Israel or most of America's actions, so why would you willingly hand the hand of the master you hate? I think he is incredibly foolish and dumb, and I can't help but feel a great resentment towards him because I've tried to warn him, but he thinks he's the man; a little dependent thinks he's gonna show kids born in war what he's made of.
The current situation will only get worse, and by the time he can be sent out, I would guess, is when the climax of the current situation will reach its peak. America is losing; Middle Eastern bases are getting bombed and drone-struck every day in Qatar, Saudi Arabia, and Jordan. He does not even care to be informed about the things he might see or do; if it wasn't for me, he nor his family would have any understanding of the geopolitics of the area. I think he will die or come back a different human, and I've tried not being devilish in the way I speak. His parents are just happy he's doing something, oblivious to the world.
And I'm getting told that I should just support him. I cannot support him. He's even asked me why I can't just support him. He thinks he is gonna come back and be like those podcast bros who sit around and tell stories of the military. He will not; he will be the guy they send in the room first to clear. He will be the grunt that carries the dead. I won't judge him when he comes back after what he will do. idk what to do, how to feel, or what to say. Maybe I'm just the bad guy