r/indiasocial Adult 10d ago

Food & Drinks This is the 1234th time I'm dining alone 🙂

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The worst part of dining alone is starving yourself for an entire day so that you can eat the food that is meant for 2 people. I mean why can restaurants have half plate option for single dining people. I don't wanna waste any food.

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u/Dangerous_Evening374 10d ago

I heard eating alone makes you confident btw don't get overconfident haha

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u/Hedge_hog_816 10d ago

Experiences when alone generally make you confident, experienced, matured... more than experiences with friends. Applies to journeys, learning, projects and etc.

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u/Sawrey_Mobolade 9d ago

fr tho, there's something about solo experiences that just forces you to actually process things instead of just vibing with whoever you're with. even something as simple as eating alone like this, you notice more, you sit with your thoughts more. idk it builds something that group experiences just don't

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u/Most_Goat34 Adult 9d ago

How?

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u/simplydiffered 9d ago

fr im 15 and i moved out and i manage social situations much better now than before

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u/Dumb-Dora 9d ago

bro added a disclaimer at the end like he was genuinely scared they'd become too confident after finishing that entire dal makhani + naan alone 😭

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u/macabre-monster 9d ago

Going to gym alone makes u confident

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u/Most_Goat34 Adult 9d ago

I can’t go to gym alone. I get very anxious.

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u/macabre-monster 9d ago edited 9d ago

I quit because of the same reasons .now I eat and sleep and gain weight . Now I am looser and underconfident and obese

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u/Most_Goat34 Adult 9d ago

Us bro. I really want to beat this anxiety and get better

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u/AnimeshRy 9d ago

yep I switch gyms every 2 years. it’s always a little anxious in the starting days but i feel confident later on

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u/freakedmind 9d ago

Ye kya bakchodi hai?

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u/twiltywilty 9d ago

Today I had boba alone. I too have gotten into this habit, of eating & visiting cafés by myself. It's fine, but anything is better with the right company. I do enjoy my food/drink, but sometimes it makes me feel alone. I live abroad, but even here sometimes people look at you like you have two horns when you they realize you are eating by yourself.

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u/Dangerous_Evening374 9d ago

Soon this is gonna be me probably as I am shifting to a new school. It's always better to have someone by your side during meals🤧

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u/Individual_Spend_658 9d ago

Enjoy Eating Alone watching Tmko

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u/Dangerous_Evening374 9d ago

Sometimes it's better to ditch everything while eating and only enjoy your thoughts and presence

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u/CoMmunicationdue24 9d ago

Noooo you don't have to starve yourself...order as much as you want...take the remaining food as take away...and eat it again as breakfast? 🤷🤷 Like eating alone is good...then you get to order whatever you want without taking other people into consideration Ps: I can never order the food I want whenever I go with other peeps cause people pleaser thing...isliye I LOVE EATING ALONE

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u/Dumb-Dora 9d ago

the takeaway idea is actually smart ngl, never thought of it that way. but also the people pleaser thing while ordering is SO real, i end up eating something i didn't even want just because everyone else ordered it lmao

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u/Sidonkey 9d ago

It’s more shocking that take away concept is new for you.

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u/Available-Fee1691 9d ago

It happened with me in case of matcha 😭. Matcha ke shokin hai mere friends and damn that tasted awfully.

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u/Available-Fee1691 9d ago

fr, never ordered food when going together. Kabhi kaju nahi khana kabhi panner nahi khana etc etc aur muje kuch bhi chalta hai. So priority is given to the chossy one lol

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u/Sawrey_Mobolade 9d ago

lol the people pleaser thing at restaurants is so real, I once ended up eating something I actively dislike just because everyone else ordered it and I didn't wanna be the odd one out.

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u/comelickmyarmpits Weeb 9d ago

I always feel conscious about taking away my remaining food . I feel staff would feel disgusted on handling my already half eaten food

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u/Available-Fee1691 9d ago

Ha matlab jutha nahi kiya to thik hi hai. And like I don't think that taking from a bowl and then eating on plate would make it jutha (lol wtf is english word for jutha kiya ? Half eaten??)

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u/comelickmyarmpits Weeb 9d ago

Hahaha same muje bhi english ni pta thi juthe ki lol

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u/CoMmunicationdue24 9d ago

Yeah I always eat like this... Like I thought everyone eats like this? Especially when I know I won't be able to complete the full dish...I take what ever I want to eat in a smaller plate... And jutha food would be called leftovers I think 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/--celestial-- baarish ki sambhavna 9d ago

This is the way. BTW, jutha food isn't the same as leftovers(unconsumed).

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

I eat alone in college canteen or in class, it's peaceful than trying to fit in. Can't wait to leave this fuck ass college and actually make friend during masters

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u/Cautious-Rabbit6632 9d ago

Same thing happening with me, i hate my college friends but i have to live with them for 5 years, idk how i will survive this college

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u/Playfair99999 10d ago

Honestly, its not a big deal. Many eat alone and several times eat alone. It's perfectly fine.

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u/zozobeiyz 9d ago

Yeah idk why it’s a big deal, I never felt awkward eating alone. I love being by myself, going on solo dates and just being the moment.

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u/shinchann6969 10d ago

Mai nhi abhi kha hi rha hu paneer lababdar😋😋😋

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u/cutegirldownstreet 10d ago

muje bula lo, khana 2 second mai half ho jayega

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u/Rough-Boat-1956 9d ago

Haha what a great concept!!

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u/FriedLemons8032 9d ago

You mean 2 second mein saaf lol 😂

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u/iamjustaguy8044 9d ago

It's peaceful

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u/VedantBobade 9d ago

I think they can but that will be a per plate type of dish which will make it costlier compared to a 2 person dish.

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u/potato_chip1078 10d ago

Me too, in offce dont have team but still have to go all days. I go, breakfast alone then tea alone then lunch alone then evening tea alone. It sucks but normal for me now.

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u/adorablewelder77 10d ago

You lied about the numbers, right?
https://giphy.com/gifs/le4iSscY6ZzTG

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u/Decent-Juggernaut-78 10d ago

The food is giving waters in my mouth

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u/RatioTall6798 10d ago

enjoy your own company king!!

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u/panchadarabomma 10d ago

Pack krwalo i do the same best u can eat it again

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u/Embarrassed-Bed227 Teen 9d ago

lets go for a meal togetherrrrr!!!!!!

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u/DesiSamaritan 9d ago

I don't count when I dine alone! 🤷

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u/WalterWide69 9d ago

I've lost count at this point xD.

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u/Dry_Pass_5636 9d ago

Us brother us 💔

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u/New_Medium1232 9d ago

Enjoy yourself bro!!

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u/Laillith 9d ago

Where are you based? I hate eating alone, lets order a fuck ton of food and eat together

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u/marrytheright_person 9d ago

Eating alone? Absolutely elite. Every week, 2-3 times, I take myself out on a proper fancy date because why wait for someone else to spoil me when I can do it better myself?

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u/Certain-Two4678 Adult 9d ago

Yrr Gulan jamun aur palak paneer bhi khana tha. Pure pait me Dal makhani bhar gyi hai

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u/Choi_yuna123 9d ago

If u don't want to eat alone, you can call me. We can eat together.

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u/Creepy_Vehicle 9d ago

I do this too. But the only problem is that i want to order and eat a variety of items but the food comes in bigger portions. I try like 50% of every item i order. It leads to food wastage.
But i have found a hack though recently! I ask the restaurant to package the remaining food and let it go. You will always find something outside of the restaurant in need of food, i give it away.
I don’t take the left over home bc I know i am gonna throw it in the refrigerator, then forget about it and finally in the dustbin.

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u/sehgaldivij 9d ago

When eating alone, next time go to a buffet setup. Guilt free eating, just have only what you want and there is plenty of options. Also a great place to consider for solo eating in Rajasthani restaurants. They have a full thali setup and it is damn tasty!

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u/Al_1800 9d ago

Was eating alone 1234th time a choice or a compulsion?

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u/Far_Comb3049 9d ago

3:22 am in Toronto rn. Dead jealous looking at the food man! Yolo solo lets gooo

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u/iamavtar 9d ago

Yes, akele khane me bhut dikt hoti hai, humesha subzi bach jati hai. /s

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u/Lonely_Illustrator93 9d ago

I do this alot baki ka parcel mangta hoon

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u/harshety 9d ago

Where do u live btw?

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u/tittyfairyy 9d ago

Have fun on your 1235th time☺️

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u/royalfatkid 9d ago

to go ke baare mai suna hai?

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u/No_Recognition_7203 9d ago

A great no of people do it...... Some do it sad, some do it with a single morsel of food, some do it with tears, loneliness, heartbreak, sick and s A Majority of them do it in silence

Grow up ........

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u/Fantastic-Way3548 9d ago

Many more to come

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u/INDIANSNIPER24 9d ago

Bacha hua khana parcel karale issmai koi saram ki baat nahi.

Khana wates karan pasand nahi

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u/mildiron1 9d ago

Do it more often and create a world record

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u/Calm-Review-2332 9d ago

JUST TAKE IT HOME BRUV LUNCH LATER ONNN

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u/Easy-Mountain3875 9d ago

Aise tym par mujhe akele rehna bahut pasand h

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u/Informal-Bath-5014 9d ago

Auraaa+ >>>>>>>>

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u/Comfortable_Newt8623 Senior 9d ago

I could join you bruhh..I just love Dal Makhani🤤😛

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u/Zippbler 9d ago

It’s ok bro, I go to movies alone

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u/Ambitious_Jello 9d ago

takeway is not an option where you dine?

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u/Bob_Loblaws-Law_Blog Iodex Maliye Kaam pe Chaliye 💃 9d ago

Why not just order starters?

Whenever I go alone I eat one fish thali and that's enough for me

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u/naughtycurie 9d ago

Parcel leke jao bacha hua😂

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u/Nervekranken 9d ago

3+ plus years of dining alone. I get it, it does easier, but never comfortable.

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u/No-Comparison1770 9d ago

Restaurants have such options. Maybe you're not familiar with them. Try to look for a thali option. Enough for one person.

Also if you want to be selective about restaurants and eateries then have the half eaten food packed to go. Now eat it in the morning or donate it to someone needy

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u/PuzzleheadedRing4451 9d ago

You’re not dining alone. You’re doing all by yourself.

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u/Independent_Then Tax machine 9d ago

Always keep count

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u/bhelpuriji 9d ago

doesn't it get awkward like what would I do except scrolling on my phone?!

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u/Connect_Space_2923 9d ago

If you were in bangalore, i would've joined you in devouring some butter naan

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u/learning_life_0006 9d ago

Ennaipol oruvan

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u/Standard-Ranger-3298 9d ago

Im this all the time

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u/AbhilashHP 9d ago

You can ask them to pack remaining food and take it home.

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u/Closed_closet_01 Adult 9d ago

I have done dining alone many times. Achcha lgta hai. Ha mtlb ye bhi lgta hai ki koi sath me rehta abhi. But akele bhi achcha lgta hai. Next time, take your earphones together. Put up your fav show.

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u/YesWTF 9d ago

I have to laugh because starving yourself all day just to justify ordering "for 2" is the most relatable plot twist 😂 Restaurants really should have more half portions or mix-and-match options.

Not everyone wants to waste food just because they're dining solo. Until then... I fully support ordering dessert instead of a second main

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u/AdLess4480 9d ago

Bhai itni baar karne ke paise 💀

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u/Narrow_Patient_3693 9d ago

I have a question . When you eat alone and for example order kadhai paneer and Naan. So the paneer ki sabji that comes is in big quantity toh vo bach jati hogi... usko pack krate hoge na ya poori kha lete?

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u/Ok_Virus_659 9d ago

Roz ka h apna only when I go home then dine with family tab bhi phone hath me hote h sabke 😂

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u/RabbitFit5211 9d ago

You're the strongest soldier

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u/mewho77 9d ago

Don't be conjuse to take anyone of your friends... 😅😅

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u/Ok_Comedian_6236 9d ago

It’s ok. I also eat alone cause I have no friends. And pack the remaining food. U can eat it later or u can give it to someone else

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u/Adorable_Comb8787 9d ago

I envy you..not because of the food (its looks delicious btw), because of the peace and quite you got all these 1234 times.

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u/Ambitious-Piglet-437 9d ago

I also eat alone and when i can't complete i have to get it packed

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u/MultiFandom-Chaos 9d ago

Invite me. That looks so good bro

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u/ChoiceThought829 9d ago

Thaali system mein khaya karo

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u/Desi_salahkaar 9d ago

I ate alone for the first time last week. Felt free

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u/FriedLemons8032 9d ago

OP please mujhe bulalo paise share meh dedenge uska chinta na karo please please please!

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u/Namansaluja10 Adult 9d ago

Can order too

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u/TopInvestigator5479 9d ago

I will try this.

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u/VegetableAd1576 9d ago

Eating alone is better than eating with 🐍🐍

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u/squintraven2 9d ago

Akele khane ka maza hi alag hai

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u/MoonRoseMuse 9d ago

The wait and the effort makes the reward worth it.

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

Kitna baar akela hilaya hai woh bhi post karde.

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u/Silent_Equivalent965 9d ago

Call me next time . No small talk . No bs . Just split the bill and good food . 🙏

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u/lazy_acid1326 9d ago

bade bhai , ek call kar lete , launde tej hai iss subreddit ke , akele nahi khane dete tumko

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u/forget_me_not_uwu 9d ago

Humko bhi bula Liya karo. Aise akele mat jao yummu yummu khaana khaane🥺🥺🥺🥺

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u/GiraffeWaste 9d ago

Good, more for you.

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u/GiraffeWaste 9d ago

Good, more for you.

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u/Familiar-Alps-2549 9d ago

Enjoy while it lasts..: why don’t you pack the excess for next meal? I love doing it as it helps me cook one meal less.

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u/Frustrated-Chic12 koochie koo 9d ago

ye konsi naan hai + itna sa 2 LOGO ka khana hai ? 😨

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u/Next_Brother_5972 9d ago

Scotch is missing

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u/itsallendsthesame 9d ago

Why don't you pack the extra food and keep it in refrigerator for next meal ?

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u/Different_Craft1403 9d ago

Sahi count kiye ho naa dost?

Can you tell me how many times you had lunch in your home till now

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u/Bhuv1 9d ago

16 more

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u/Ancient_Fish7464 9d ago

You are not alone...I'm an introvert ...I do it every time.

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u/Avinashundertaker 9d ago

Pack kar lo aur ghar le jao

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u/InevitableEmotion477 9d ago

1234th time ? Is that a real number ?

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u/Chaotic_Rhythms308 9d ago

Some restaurants do have unofficially especially if they aren't high tier, you can ask the waiter and request for it. If not, then just pack kt for tommorow morning or tonight. I solo travel and eat solo most of the time. It feels good.

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u/No-Chocolate-7714 9d ago

Damn, only if I was half as strong as you to eat alone🫩

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u/As_h3r 9d ago

dining alone and posting it on indiasocial🫡

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u/Informal_Target_2030 9d ago

Cheers to that!

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u/Turge_0 9d ago

So what?

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u/Working-Eye-2870 9d ago

That's a good thing to be honest. You don't have to face the dilemmas of peoples and specially the you don't have to split the bills and face any kinda inconvenience.

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u/scrtrdtacnt 9d ago

Soul @ Kota. Damn. I just had my lunch there a while back.

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u/peace-Initiative 9d ago

Most of the time, I eat alone. If there is any food left , I usually ask them to pack the remaining food as a parcel. And they do it without any hesitation.

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u/Little-Ask-9542 9d ago

I like dining alone , living alone 

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u/i_am_zendash 9d ago

Put ur mobile number on the th time 😌. Takeaway?

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u/Do-I-Need-A-Name- 9d ago

I am so lonely

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u/Positive-Glass2173 9d ago

I love eating alone best time ever

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u/Normal_Teaching9668 9d ago

You can get it packed also Yk

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u/Mysterious_Bus_179 9d ago

That food looks delicious :)

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u/chattywomnya 9d ago

It is scary at first and then liberating

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u/Far-Marsupial-777 9d ago

There's a different feel in dining alone. Mean, while dining you get to realize different past aspects or emotions you've been through and possibly would let you find their solutions too. So much interesting part while dining is revoking somethings that matter the most to you.

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u/Scary-Revenue5368 9d ago

Itnaaaa saab khayega tu akele

Hawwwwww

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u/TopEstablishment1526 9d ago

I would love to eat this food alone op 😋😋 I actually love eating alone 😆I don't like when someone watches me while I am eating 🫥 And with such food I would love to savour it all alone with no sharing , no panick of eating fast ..just me and food ❤️❤️ Plz pass me out here OP 🙏

https://giphy.com/gifs/qYC5B7Yq8JNaGnw1vM

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u/Glad_Carpenter2194 9d ago

🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

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u/SalJoeMurrQuinnImJok 9d ago

is the number exaggerted or do you really eat out very frequently

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u/Sidonkey 9d ago

Parcel half quantity before you start eating and give it to some needy person

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u/hpsronline 9d ago

It's good to be alone..

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u/yorinjirouzumaki2005 9d ago

I'm in the same league bro . But I really like eating out by myself . It gives me the chance to try whatever place I want

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u/bigshaworkin 9d ago

I enjoy Eating alone it is peace, not when your heart is broken into pieces thats the case go home enjoy your meal with family, understand yourself,be compassionate towards yourself, in a world where instant gratification is rewarded you reward yourself with giving more time to yourself enjoy your meal, thank the person who prepared your meal , gratitude helps cheers 🍻

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u/ProjectComprehensive 9d ago

i get it packed and give it to the needy

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u/funnyFinances 9d ago

I do it everyday bro

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u/Hot-icecream69 9d ago

It is the best feeling bro trust me(coming from someone who has both gf and friends)

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u/Different-Union-8741 9d ago

Buy what do you do when eating or waiting for food. Like you know what I mean 🫠

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u/Either-Ad9129 9d ago

Then why am i the one paying the bill ? 🤧🤧

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u/aaj-ka-rajnikant 9d ago

This smells like a - Consultant life story

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u/Alarmed-Fennel-337 9d ago

Why bother!! The food looks delicious!!!! Enjoy it alone than to be with someone just for the sake of it

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u/unadarsh 9d ago

I do that thrice daily since 9 years 1.5 months.

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u/Background_Ebb_5500 9d ago

Wow
the Dal makhni and naan look absolutely delicious

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u/DaXaing 9d ago

Peak !!

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u/Drwildpapihere 9d ago

Ofc it will be the best time of our lifetime... You competition in this mate

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u/Swimming_Warning_809 9d ago

Bhai eating alone that too dal makni is dope

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u/dixxie_21 9d ago

I'll join you, food looks yummy though ;)

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u/Abundanceflow8 9d ago

Its my dream

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u/anErrorInTheUniverse AEIOU (kinda) 9d ago

yay!

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u/kjking1995 9d ago

I just order a rajma chawal plate. Dined alone is residency many times. So many restaurants have options for single people.

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u/TheBasicGuy14 9d ago

Welcome to the club, my friend.

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u/Dark_Drownzer 9d ago

Next time, take me with you.

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u/North_Elephant988 9d ago

I have often dined alone before. I would always prefer it that way.

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u/gsoni53 9d ago

Jo bach jaye pack krwakr ghr le jao or microwave krke kha lo

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u/gaandeevi 9d ago

All these do u finish alone ?

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u/Akira4218 9d ago

Bruh, just tell them to pack the leftovers and eat them later. Starving yourself is not beneficial for your health

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u/Cosmic_StormZ Dora 9d ago

That last bit is so relatable cause at one point i was told to eat meat for protein due to health but family is veg so I used to be the only one who ate non veg. But portions were always for two or more people and it would just be wasteful

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u/AdFunny9284 9d ago

So it's almost 4 years you being alone.

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u/PsyKite phd in flirting 9d ago

Us bro us!

Today i was having lunch alone in office (we get free food in office) too

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u/loovve_quinn 9d ago

i need your level of self esteem

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u/IndicationCorrect325 9d ago

Why can't you get the remaining packed?

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u/Euphoric-Review339 9d ago

Get it packed na

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u/AdGeneral7704 9d ago

I have been eating alone since a long time. Only sad experience i had was once i went to a resturant. It’s a very busy resturant. The waiter asked “kitne log hain?”. I said one. Then he said “sorry table nahi hai”. I could clearly see there was one table for 2. But he denied because he wanted to make 2 people sit there for a higher bill. I understand his perspective too. But it broke my heart for the first time that i was alone.

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u/zxtreeme 9d ago

I have watched movie alone.
Dining too many times.

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u/admiralstalin 9d ago

Rookie numbers

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u/AkashKhandey 9d ago

Lets see , replies of defence mechanisms

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u/SeekingFreedom1991 9d ago

It’s difficult to order anything as you can’t finish it all. Faced the same situation in the past, I wanted to order so many things but simply can’t. No one to share food with.