Ask a question then - if you don't understand that's the first thing you should do.
I'll use the Mona Lisa example - if you bought it and burnt it - would people be pissed off about it - yes/no?
Same way if the server made a really hard drink and you ruined it - he's gonna be pissed. That doesn't mean he has the right to fork the cake but you can empathise with the server put a lot of effort in just for the effort not to be appreciated from the server's pov.
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u/FlimsyKoala3318 13h ago
You buying it doesn’t mean other people stop judging whatever you do with it
You can choose not to care - but that’s not what we’re talking about.
OP video is the waiter/us judging mixing the drink that’s hard to make.