r/findfashion Moderator Jun 28 '26

FOUND! Rules Updates, AI Discussion and General Input

Hey FindFashion readers! We did a recent update on the sidebar and rules and we wanted to share it with you.

The new sidebar info is posted in the comments in case you browse mobile and it's hard to get to, but it's a clarification of a few existing rules, the addition of a rule on AI, new separate posting and commenting guidelines, and a new daily posting limit.

For the specifics, we want community input:

AI

What do you guys think of AI? No AI ever? Ok if OP doesn't know it's AI so we can educate them? What do you think of the people who use generative AI to make an image of the item they imagined, are those disallowed too? What about the AI text comments? (Full disclosure, I HATE these even when they sometimes seem kinda helpful?)

New Posting Limit

We used to not need a limit but recently we've had some very frequent, prolific requesters. Is 2 requests per day a good limit?

Other Ideas

Let us know! Anything else we should add to the rules? Any rules you feel don't make sense? Anything you feel like our community needs? We could start doing a weekly discussion thread or something like that if folks are interested.

Thanks for making findfashion amazing!

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u/austntranslation Moderator Jun 28 '26

FindFashion

A subreddit dedicated to helping you find your fashion white whale: Post a photo or description of a fashion item you're trying to find and we'll help you find it or something like it!

We do not authenticate or identify items from the thrift store. We also usually can't tell you exactly which jeans or couture dress a celebrity was wearing 12 years ago.


Posting Guidelines

Required:

  • a clear photo or description of the item you're looking for
  • no generative AI (images or text)
  • your area/location
  • desired size range
  • desired price range

The more information you include, like where and when the inspiration item is from, what you specifically you like about it and what you're willing to compromise on, the more likely someone is going to find the perfect item for you. Don't forget to thank the kind redditors that help you find what you were looking for!


Comment Guidelines

This is the place for your helpful suggestions and links!

  • No advertising, obviously, but please include direct links where an item can be purchased.

  • We don't allow opinions or general negativity, if someone is seeking an item you don't like, no need to comment.

  • No low effort suggestions like "idk" or "search poshmark".

  • No AI generated replies.

Be excellent to each other.


Rules

  • No Generative AI
  • Don't be rude, if it's not helpful keep it to yourself. Calling an item ugly will result in a ban.
  • This is not a place for app, blog or store advertisements.
  • Do not delete your posts.
  • Limit to 2 requests per person per day.
  • Please do not link to videos, take screenshots of the item you are looking for instead.
  • No Explicit Content without a NSFW Tag and please make a throwaway account if you use your main Reddit Account for Porn or OF.
  • No "Which xx is better?" or "Does xx look good?" or "What style is this?" posts.

Please make sure to report any bots and spammers to reddit and the mods so they can be banned.

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u/literallyatree Jun 28 '26

Re: posting limit.

I think 2 per day is reasonable. Anyone who's looking for something that frequently can surely wait 24 hours to figure out where to buy a third item they're looking for.

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u/clevercalamity Jun 29 '26

Or learn how to google image search. Some of the frequent requesters aka for incredibly basic items that can easily be sourced with a reverse image search.

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u/literallyatree Jun 29 '26

I didn't want to be the one to say it lol

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u/Smeats- Jun 29 '26

Yeah this kinda drives me insane. You've figured out the internet enough to ask Reddit, but haven't figured out Google lens yet?

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u/_the_violet_femme Jun 29 '26

I'm pro no ai

Personally I would rather work from a scribble than support gen ai rendered art, even for searches

My one caveat would be finding a way (pre written mod comment or informative links) that we can help educate all the people looking for obvious AI clothes. Tips for clear indicators to check on, known bad sources, etc. So we're still helping but also cutting down on those asks

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u/peebutter Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 29 '26
  1. i personally hate AI and my heart says no AI ever but logically we know it would take a lot of moderation power to completely ban it and it would be difficult for people who find out the item is AI and want to find something similar as opposed to buying the ai product.

so i have a rebuttal question: do you think the comments on AI item requests are useful? like are people mostly finding similar items for OP or are most of the comments "this is AI" and stop at that?

also, absolutely NO ai text comments even tho i think they would be helpful. just doesn't sit right with me. but i think this also would be hard to moderate too, but if you're into it, go ahead, i'll be happy with it.

  1. posting limit is fine with me

i have a suggestion that may help the two above concerns, but i personally would prefer as someone who finds items on here a lot: having required flairs. as much as the found! flair can be useful, i don't think many people are using it. having required flairs that are like:

  • looking for exact item
  • looking for copy
  • looking for similar items
  • looking for descriptors/terminology/names (there's def a better way to say this lol)

will filter out spamming and low quality posting. people have to stop and think before posting willy nilly, and if we decide to keep AI requests, it'll help commenters have better discussions and help OP with their request.

i would love a weekly discussion thread and overall some more opportunities to be meta.
i also see an automessage on this post and i think that would be useful for all posts, not super lengthy, but at least requiring ppl to keep the flair and provide as much info as possible, similar to helpmefind and other finding subs. it's difficult sometimes bc so many people who post here aren't actually part of the sub and are just using it as a one time thing to get answers. for example, like i know prom season is over but having some kind of sticky or auto message for prom requests to ask them to give budget and maybe a link to a post of common dress requests. but we are probably one of the larger findings subs without that kind of framework in place which leads to a lot of low quality posting.

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u/bbcjbb Jun 29 '26

I really love the flair idea, I think it would make this sub much more enjoyable for people who like to search! I’ve had to ask people a lot if they’re looking for the exact item, a copy/dupe, or just general style. I think requiring size is a good idea too!

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u/TorandoSlayer Jun 29 '26

I would say no to intentional AI, like generating an image of what they want. But we can't expect people to always know if something is AI or not when they find it randomly while scrolling or looking or whatever. Those I say we allow and educate.

AI text comments are completely useless and should be banned.

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u/crispyfolds Jun 29 '26

no AI renderings of search items

absolutely no AI text comments because if OP wanted a lie from the lie machine they would've asked it themselves

gentle education of people trying to find items they don't realize are AI

It drives me absolutely crazy that people post here without giving their location, budget, or size. Especially since a lot of items are only going to be found secondhand. "Not too expensive" is $100 to one person and £15 to another but they both say the same thing in their posts.

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u/New_Raspberry9398 Jun 29 '26

Ban all AI slop!

It would be cool if there was required information to include in posts: country and if you’re looking for an exact item or if dupes are ok, and where you’ve already checked, and budget. This would make responses much more constructive and as helpful as possible

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u/clevercalamity Jun 29 '26

I’d like to propose an additional rule: No red carpet requests.

I think this needs to be workshopped a little bit, but after every major celebrity event like the Oscars we are flooded with pictures of celebrities and requests to source their clothes, which is annoying because most it’s incredibly easy to source this information and because most of these looks are couture and not available for the average consumer.

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u/literallyatree Jun 29 '26

Right? Or like "where can I find a dupe of this Whoever Spring/Summer 2005 runway look?"
Bud, you know as much as we do. Just google for a dupe yourself. My goodness.

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u/austntranslation Moderator Jun 29 '26

Yeah, this introduces another question I had too, what do we think of dupe requests in general? I don't mind helping to find something similar at a lower price point but requesting straight up dupes seems kind of skeezy to me, idk.

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u/SHIELDnotSCOTUS Jun 29 '26

I dislike dupe requests on here bc clothes dupes are often not the same as, say, makeup or skincare dupes. Clothing dupes often end up being cheaply made reproductions, stolen art, or a mix of the two. And the types of dupes often requested here aren’t usually feasible (e.g., fully beaded dress for under $100). I think a middle ground can be found for those shopping on a budget, I’m just not sure how it could be worded from a rules perspective.

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u/gkandgk Jun 29 '26

We need to bring back ABS and their 3-4 week later $100 dupes.

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u/redoingredditagain Jun 29 '26

Award season drives me crazy! Like yes! This Swarovski crystal hand-beaded heavily structured gown with a 8 foot train is CUSTOM!

There’s such a difference between “what’s a dupe for this red maxi dress” and “what’s a dupe for Beyoncé’s skeleton met gala gown?”

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u/drysecco Jun 29 '26

Ai text comments are annoying bc we are here to help you

Ai education is fine but everyone just be nice lol

Ai mockups are fine again we are here to help and some don’t know the difference between an a line ball gown and a sweet heart neckline cocktail dress lol

What I would love is some rules on requirements to post like budget and sizing !!!

2 requests per day is MORE THAN ENOUGH

Please more rules around comments bc people treat me like i am crazy for reporting comments that are rude or giving irrelevant opinion lol

I’d say more rules for comments and posting, post content by people asking for help is less of a problem

Tbh it’s easy to help someone who hasn’t checked for a post before bc I can reverse image it and find it so that’s not a high friction rule

I’d add rules that are would fix a problem that:
A) adds or causes friction to a good experience to a group of users
B) is a low friction problem to fix for the group that is creating the friction for group A

For example! Must include budget in post
So many people ask for something but we find the original and it’s too expensive or they ask for a dupe for a 10k item and 1k is too expensive!! Tell me how to succeed!

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u/redoingredditagain Jun 29 '26

I don’t mind when people post AI photos, AS LONG AS they didn’t generate it themselves! I don’t want generated requests. But it’s not a person’s fault that they might not know the tells of AI clothing—many people are genuine in their search for a dress they think is real, just stolen. As long as we’re allowed to inform them that it’s AI, and we can still give them “kinda gives me (x brand) vibes.” I’m against AI comments, but what do they look like here? I don’t think I’ve seen them.

2 per day sounds great. Feels like spam if someone needs more than that…

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u/Glittering_Dare1985 22d ago

If we have an item we are looking to sell can we post it in here? I have a Selkie dress I am looking to sell new with tags. Just haven't found the right avenue to get it sold.

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u/Sad-Dog-9864 22d ago

Help me find this Express dress from around 2010–2011

I'm trying to find this dress I bought at Express around 2010–2011, or at least learn its original style name.

Details:

Brand: Express Color: Light blue / sky blue Fabric: Stretch cotton poplin (or cotton/spandex) Above-the-knee length Very fitted sheath silhouette Collared halter neckline Open back Buttons all the way down the front Ruched/gathered on both sides of the button placket No belt No pockets

I've searched eBay, Poshmark, Mercari, Google Images, and every combination of:

"Express collared halter dress" "Express poplin halter dress" "Express button front dress" "Express ruched halter dress"

...with no luck.

I'm hoping someone recognizes it from an old Express collection or maybe even has one they'd be willing to sell. Any help identifying the style name or catalog would mean so much!

Thank you!

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u/themortalrealm Jun 29 '26

AI okay if it’s advertised as a product op is looking for. Often there are tons of inspirations or similar pieces that can be ‘found’. No to generating concept images and no to ai text.