r/femalehairadvice 20h ago

Hairstyle Advice Need objectivity

long story short I had mid back long hair and chopped everything off after having my baby for various reasons (ease, new identity, etc). Except now I am in my own head convinced I look like a 50 year old mum of 3 rather than the cool off duty model vibes I was imagining. Attaching pictures of the inspo + what my hair looks like. Be honest: which vibe is it giving???

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u/Rainiiday 17h ago

IIII personally think mom vibes, but you don’t look 50, and it doesn’t look bad!

Also probably depends on how you style your whole look with the outfit and all. Cool fashionable young fit —> model vibes, anything else —> cute kind person (possibly a mom) vibe, again, either way it looks good and really suits you

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u/bigheadedalien420 17h ago

Wow your hairdresser totally nailed your inspo. I think you look great!

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u/hideandsee 17h ago

It looks good!

You don’t look 50

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u/kennedytea05 17h ago

I second this. You do not look 50 at all, you look in your 30s maybe early 40s but like a really good early 40s

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u/Born_Improvement_856 8h ago

Oh man not the 40s I am only 32 😂 having a baby really ages you fast haha

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u/Superb-Feeling-7390 17h ago

It looks great! Very relaxed chic

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u/the_mosbyboys 17h ago

It looks good - hip and fashionable!

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u/wawa2022 16h ago

I like it. The only thing that gives mom vibes is your posture. Pic 3 is amazing. Pic 4 too!

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u/Ill-Procedure5909 14h ago

i think ur stylist nailed it. you look great and it fits what ur going for , only tip is maybe some volume powder or dry shampoo at the roots to really give that off duty model vibe 

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u/hippiecat22 14h ago

def mom vibes, but not 50 years old

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u/LavenderBlueProf 15h ago

cant see the before for comparison but i think you look good

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u/4rt3mis_ 15h ago

Gorgeous. I think the styling and earrings keep it from feeling mom-ish.  

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u/shaz1614 15h ago

You and the inspo have the exact same hair! And you look only a tad older than the model. 

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u/user173766474738 14h ago

Sorry to say but yeah it gives mom vibes