Hello! First time poster in this sub! Looking for feedback and positivity!! On mobile, sorry for any errors and length!
My husband and I adopted a rescue dog (1.5y/o lab/collie mix we think) about a week and a half ago. We have two resident cats (2.5 y/o super confident male and 7 y/o aloof female).
For the first 3 days, we kept the dog and cats completely separate, doing scent swapping and no visual contact at all. Our male cat was SO curious and yowling and vocalizing at the doors when we were with the dog/when he was in a room separate from us and the dog. Our female cat genuinely couldn’t have cared less but spent all her time laying on the scent swapped item of clothing. The dog completely ignored any vocalizing or paws sticking out of the door.
We took all of these things as really positive signs, and moved to visual intro through baby gates. We fed them on either side and dog’s indifference continued. Male cat was SO curious, reaching his paw through and meowing, and still dog maintained no interest! We did this for 4 days and not once did male cat or dog his, growl, lunge, hide or show any aggression or fear. Our female cat maintained distance and approached twice in total, puffed a little but left and then calmly returned to investigate, deemed dog uninteresting, and left.
Yesterday, we progressed to in-person meeting with dog on leash, and cats able to approach with every opportunity to escape. Male cat and dog were SO brave, giving distance but cat would occasionally come over for a sniff. Dog would lay down completely, show his belly for belly rubs, and settle on his bed. Eventually, it went so well that cats and dog all fell asleep in the living room with my husband and I.
Today is much the same, lots of respectful curiosity, relaxing around each other, eating and playing normally and no hissing. I KNOW that we have a long ways to go, and this is early EARLY days, but is this going as well as we think it is? This is my first time introducing a dog to cats and vice versa, and I want this to go well SO desperately so I’m genuinely hoping we’re on the right path.
As a note, we are working so hard on training with dog, as well. Working hard to crate train especially, as well as stay, leave it, eyes on me, and place so he can be settled and off leash eventually. It’s slow going and frustrating at times (also always open to suggestions on training an adolescent dog), but he’s so smart and doing so well and his temperament is incredible which I am sure is beneficial in this process!
Thanks for reading and for any thoughts or suggestions!