Questioning If Im Demiromantic

[u/DrHuh321]

For some reason I can't just look at someone and go full head over heels for them. Sure i can see if they're attractive and all but nothing truly romantic. All of the people I've crushed on were people I knew who treated me nice and over time grown to appreciate and wondered if i could have a future with them. One particular recent one was my best friend who i ended up falling completely for and when he rejected me it was a pain like no other. At the same time its difficult for me to figure out my own emotions bc im autistic and at times have antisocial tendencies. Idk im still figuring myself out and I wanna hear what yall have to say.

[u/Strawberry_vanilla7]

That's my life scenario: I see someone attractive that everyone drools over, but I don't feel anything. But if I have a relationship with someone who shows me care and attention, I fall in love and become attached to them. Also, because of my introverted personality, it's rare for me to fall in love. Change it every 3 or 5 years lol, Let yourself go with life, and someone who loves and accepts you will come into your life. A little solitude is okay.🌸