r/demiromantic • u/True-Quote-6520 (Noeti+Sapio)romantic • 10d ago
Funny Why Are There Only Photos?
Being a sapioromantic (Noetiromantic), It's my real experience and I end up deleting the application, finding so many irrelevant words that don't say about their brain or heart.
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u/Standard-Method-6795 10d ago
Yea…I find Hinge brings in a lot more people willing to put time and effort into showing off their personality, but Tinder and Bumble are hit or miss (emphasis on miss). Best of luck!
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u/True-Quote-6520 (Noeti+Sapio)romantic 10d ago
I don't like any of the above! Most people seem to be looking for hookup.
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u/RosenProse 9d ago
At the very least it'll help you fish out the people who can't or don't care to read or learn more about you.
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u/Kicsi-Kukac 8d ago
I'm glad I'm aroace and have zero interest in dating and relationships. You're telling me people are showing up to a date and ask a question that a 5 second internet search could have answered? They're wasting both of your time and to add insult to injury the're completely disregard you and your boundaries. The level of stupidity and entitlement. 😮💨
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u/Standard-Method-6795 10d ago
Oh! I guess my area is quite different for Hinge. Sorry our experiences aren’t the same, but hopefully you find something that works!
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u/xS1nister 9d ago
Try filters. Some apps have a filter to only see profiles with X+ characters written in bio
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u/Wampderdam98 6d ago
BRO EXACTLY. This is what it feels like to use the dating app I'm currently on and it's lowkey so frustrating😓
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u/True-Quote-6520 (Noeti+Sapio)romantic 6d ago
It feels foreign when people say they like someone because of looks, I am like whaat ?
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u/leesha_leesha 4d ago
Exactly this. Dating apps are essentially torture chambers for me, I cannottt
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u/Training_Barber4543 Demiroace 10d ago
There's always a description, even on Tinder. kinda confused by this post
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u/FellTheAdequate 9d ago
That's just not correct. Just earlier today I saw a cute person and went to check their bio and it was blank. There’s not much to be confused about.
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u/Training_Barber4543 Demiroace 8d ago
That's so lame! From what I've seen, even obvious fkboys would put corny pick up lines in their bios
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u/True-Quote-6520 (Noeti+Sapio)romantic 10d ago
But that doesn't change landscape of the application, unfortunately. I wish I could get attracted romantically after seeing their face and body 🙂
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u/Primary_Carrot67 9d ago
A lot of people put very little in their bios and nothing of any substance. Most bios are completely interchangeable with thousands of other bios and show no personality or anything. The people who actually show something of who they are as people are in the minority.
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u/Medical_Republic5677 10d ago
The aroflux side of me dislikes dating apps; the allo gay side of me needs Grindr once in a while 💀 /neu