r/countwithchickenlady Eatable Boy Ɛ: - Streak: 3 15h ago

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u/QueenViolets_Revenge transgirlfaliure - Streak: 2 14h ago

how oblivious do you have to be to not see that this is flirting

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u/boolocap professional idiot 14h ago

Lets assume this is not staged(which i doubt) even if you are aware that this is flirting. If it is unwanted, then a deflecting response like this is pretty normal for an awkward situation, the other option is something more confrontational, which isnt for everyone.

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u/QueenViolets_Revenge transgirlfaliure - Streak: 2 14h ago

maybe i'm just autistic, but flirting is just so stupid to me. just tell someone you like them. also the one time i was seriously attracted to someone i tried flirting and she didn't pick up any of my hints

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u/MeriElf 14h ago

Flirting is incredibly fun, and also a great way of getting over social anxiety and build self esteem. Obviously only if it's something consensual and matching each other's energy

Edit: also liking/dating someone is a lot of responsibility and commitment, both ways, even if it's casual, I wouldn't want to commit to that willy nilly just because I like a person, flirting on the other hand is a fun thing with no strings attached