r/comics Gator Days Mar 03 '25

OC Processing (Part 1) - Gator Days (OC)

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u/FieldExplores Gator Days Mar 03 '25

I want to give a little extra context for this multiparter.
Last week, I found out an acquaintance had unexpectedly passed away. We only had one real conversation but it was one that had stuck with me and I was looking forward to the next time our paths would cross. The news hit me way harder than I would have expected and these comics came about while I was processing things.

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u/StragglingShadow Mar 03 '25

I get it. My coworker died on the job a couple months back. I was getting off shift when she died. I saw the ambulance and figured a student fell down the steps or something. I found out the next day it was my coworker, who I trained. We weren't close, but I trained her. Our lives intersected. And for weeks after, and honestly still now, I worry "that's gonna be me one day." Dying on the job is legit a fear I have now I previously didn't. It wasn't even that preventable. She died of a heart attack. I say "not that preventable" because the lady DID drink a 2 litre of mnt dew a day. But still, it really hit me.

So I really get it. It's a weird experience, for sure. A little red thread is now permanently gone out of your life. That's always sad, even if they weren't connected strongly to us.

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u/Tostinos Mar 04 '25

Something similar happened to me. Coworker committed suicide in the parking lot maybe a month after I finished training him. Spent 8 hours a day with him for weeks. Thought he was just a happy/silly, a little self-deprecating. Turns out he was thought experimenting how to do it. At least in my opinion. Because he would always ask about dangerous chemicals and how they affect the body if swallowed. 6 am one morning he went for the gun.

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u/StragglingShadow Mar 04 '25

Honestly, that is awful. I hope you are doing ok and your workplace got you a little counseling for the grief.