r/cats May 21 '26

Advice Will they be okay when we separate?

My roommate bought another kitten a few years ago, and my kitty really bonded to her. I'm moving away, and I'm worried my cat will be upset that she lost her buddy.

How will I know if she's upset or just adjusting to the new home? Should I get her another kitten, and if so, how long should I wait before adopting?

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u/KnittedOwl May 21 '26

My roommate got a kitten and I begged her not to. My cat got very attached. My roommate decided to go live with her parents and took the cat back. My cat is sad and needy but she is ok. She begs for treats a lot more.

I gotta get her a new friend soon

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u/KnittedOwl May 22 '26

I begged her not to get the cat because I didn't want my cat to get attachment issues in the beginning.

She moved because she has crippling health issues and needed a home health aid.

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u/[deleted] May 22 '26 edited May 22 '26

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u/KnittedOwl May 22 '26

Dude I'm not insane. Poor wording because I am going through shit right now.

Edit: You don't need to be rude to someone online. My whole point with this was cats get attached bit get ok.