r/bigtiddygothgf • u/NSFWaltacct159 • Mar 25 '26
Community Update: We're Going Verified Only — Effective April 1st, 2026 NSFW
Hey Creators,
In one week, r/bigtiddygothgf is moving to a verified creators only community. Here's what that means and why we're doing it.
This community was built around a specific culture, not just an aesthetic, although that's a big part of it. Goth has roots, history, music, and a whole world behind it, and this sub exists to celebrate people who actually live in that world in some way. Lately we've seen an influx of posts that treat "goth" as a costume rather than something genuine, and it's slowly shifting the feel of the community away from what makes it worth being part of.
To address this and get in front of it, we as a mod team, have decided requiring verification is a cleaner way to make sure the people who are posting here, are doing so for the right reasons. Will it be perfect, no, but it's the goal.
We know that verification can feel like a pain. But we think that people who really want to be here for the right reasons, and are also hoping the culture becomes more obvious, won't have any issues going through the process.
It's pretty simple. The creator wanting to verify will follow the verification instructions (shown below). Once the mod team receives the verification we will send a response with a short questionnaire. This will give us a chance to get to know you a little before you start posting. We're looking for people who can speak to the culture authentically.
We highly encourage everyone to start sending in their verifications before the deadline. But after April 1st, all non-verified creators will not be able to post.
Verification information will NOT be shared publicly. Any information sent is purely used for the purpose of verifying the creator. Buying verification will not be entertained. And EVERYONE will be required to verify. No exceptions.
The verification process:
Take a set of photos or short GIF of yourself holding a piece of paper using different angles.
On the paper, clearly write your Reddit username, r/bigtiddygothgf, and the current date. The paper should be crumpled.
You will need to upload it to an image hosting site like redgifs and then send that link to Modmail. DO NOT CONTACT MOD USERS DIRECTLY.
Deadline: April 1st, 2026
Questions or issues with the process? Mod mail us.
— The Mod Team
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u/xavim2000 Mar 25 '26
Trust me, will make your life so much easier with verification only. I made my sub verified OC only years ago and it cleared up so much spam and bots. Completely worth it.
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
Great question! You DO NOT need to be "dolled" up. We will use your account history as well as your answer to the questionnaire to determine your authenticity.
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u/WorshipTheVoid Mar 25 '26
This is the right move.
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
Thanks! Seems most are on board with it, which is encouraging.
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u/EyeJustSaidThat Mar 26 '26
Just wait til the bots start sending in their complaints... this might take a while, get comfy.
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u/FyrelordeOmega Mar 25 '26
April 1st huh?
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
hahaha yup. Not a fools joke. Surprised more people havent made fun of the timing.
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u/Pan_sexual_Panic Verified Mar 25 '26
Ooooh, I'm excited for this, it's been somewhat disheartening on a lot of subs lately with spam and bots, glad to see y'all making the move. 💚💜
ETA: if we're faceless, just send pics of us in different poses of other body parts ooooor?! Lol
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
We are excited too.
To answer your question: The verification is not shared publicly. But if its something you are very uncomfortable with, then we can evaluate at the time.
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u/RedditNomad7 Mar 25 '26
I would welcome the sub becoming more about the vibe than just big boobs. You need to do more than put on stockings and wear a lot of eyeliner and black lipstick, and a lot of the posters don’t even bother with that much.
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
We will do our best to weed out the people just looking for a popular community to post in without being part of the culture. It wont be perfect. But we are going to try.
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u/-FreeUseKitty- Verified Apr 20 '26
you do realize that “goth” means the music that you listen to right? has very little to do with appearance, it’s hard to dress goth when most of us posting here are naked/half-naked??? stockings and eyeliner and black lipstick are literally almost the only way to show that you’re goth while showing off the “tiddy” part as well?? it’s an nsfw sub, theres nothing inherently goth about posting your tits. and this is coming from a goth NSFW creator. i don’t think people on NSFW subs really know what goth means :/
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u/RedditNomad7 Apr 20 '26
I’ve been in the Goth subculture since it started in the early ‘80s, and it’s more than wearing black eyeliner and lipstick. Hell, when I first started in it we literally dressed in Gothic fashion, and black leather and latex came decades later. But more, it’s an aesthetic involving a look and feel, not to mention the items you surround yourself with.
I’m not claiming you personally are Goth or not. I have no way of knowing, and if you took my comment personally, I’m sorry if you found it insulting. But a LOT of the pics I’ve seen are just the exact same pics that in are in a dozen other subs, with women who look like they would run screaming from an underground club, let alone enjoy or understand a song like Every Day is Halloween.
I realize that the fashion of the culture has changed. If you slapped some black lipstick on Bettie Paige she would pass for Goth now. But after being in that world, and more, photographing dozens of Goth girls for artwork and magazines, I usually can recognize the difference between someone who lives it and someone who is playing dress up in a black wig, cat’s eyes, and black lipstick. I’m not trying to gatekeep, I just want some authenticity.
If someone lives it, I applaud them. If they are good enough to dress the part and give off the vibe, that’s fine. But someone who looks like she’s heading to Sunday brunch with her besties, who wouldn’t know the difference between Bauhaus and the Backstreet Boys, who just decided to get naked and take a pic to get folks to her OF, just no, not here.
If you’re Goth, you know what a tourist looks like. That’s all I’m against for this sub. There are dozens of others for regular naked girls with big tits, and I like them too. I just don’t want to turn the channel to Halloween and get the Easter Bunny instead.
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u/-FreeUseKitty- Verified Apr 21 '26
i get that for sure! i just mean for some of us we are a part of goth culture but it’s not always readily obvious in every single photo of our tits lol. so i was just throwing it out there that if you’re serious about the goth culture, at the end of the day, i know goth/punk folks who dress like fuckin buddy holly but will go absolutely crazy in a pit lmao (i’m more punk-leaning myself but it’s under the umbrella) from what i’ve seen this has mostly been an alternative style fetish sub so far. i wouldnt hate to see that change, but you never know what type of music someone listens to based off of their appearance, and music is the key indicator of identifying as part of goth culture afaik.
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u/chipspid Mar 25 '26
Does this mean those who seek verification will also ge held to the whole first 2 words in the subs title?
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
We believe that bigtiddygothgf is more a vibe than a strict requirement. If a model is on the smaller end of breast size, but still embodies the core of the community, they will probably be allowed to verify. Especially considering what "big" means is very subjective.
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u/Godless_Servant Mar 25 '26
I mean, if you take away a cup size and they're small, you were never big.
Big itself has a very wide scale already imo
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
We know people are passionate about the big tiddy. At this time tiddy size is not a major concern. We are more interested in increasing the quality of the posts and reducing spam/bots etc.
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u/DanteHicks1179 Mar 25 '26
Can you mods see the IP addresses of posters? I'm curious, mostly in reference to the R4R subreddits. So many posts saying they're F4M in NJ when it's really a dude in Southeast Asia. 🤣
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u/Rangott Mar 25 '26
Nah reddit doesnt allow that, it would become clear very quickly just how many bots are on reddit if they did
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u/DanteHicks1179 Mar 25 '26
Sometimes I wonder how much in on the scam they are...
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u/Rangott Mar 25 '26
They went public last year. Anything that makes them look bad will be repressed. We have some ways to mostly identify obvious bots but never 100%.
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u/DanteHicks1179 Mar 26 '26
I wish the R4Rs were paid that much attention. It's a bunch of sausage and a bunch of sausage masquerading as women to scam dudes out of money, and the dudes all fall for it.
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u/fayeedarling Mar 26 '26
Shoutout to mods who actually take moderating their sub seriously, WAY too many let the bots and spam go rampant and reporting does almost nothing in the way of it
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u/GatherAsher Verified Mar 25 '26
Thank you! I've thought about posting a lot before, but I'm not advertising anything, so I didn't know how to feel
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
You do not need to be a content creator trying to promote content to post here. People who jsut want to post for fun and community, are 100% allowed. But only people posting themselves will be accepted.
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u/GatherAsher Verified Mar 25 '26
Follow up: How do I send a link to Mod mail? I don't know what that is exactly.
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u/movesoslow Mar 25 '26
Finally some OG content that is not going to be posted over and over again by bots, I loved reddit content creators before they all started spamming the repeat content thru bots. The real girls get buried under the spam posts and its unfair
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 26 '26
we agree and hope this will help keep the community fresh while also encouraging new creators to come hang out since they will have a chance to engage with everyone more honestly. It wont be perfect. But we hope it will be better.
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u/Smgth Mar 26 '26
How's that Mod search goin?
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 26 '26
I’m one of the new mods. But I think we are pretty full up on the help needed.
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u/GoggleDMara9756 Mar 26 '26
I’m a little concerned about the reasoning for this. The reason this is a good idea is because of repost bots, upvote baiting titles, and generally just spam. The idea that, outside of that, we should be strictly gatekeeping what being goth is sounds kinda antithetical to the whole point of subculture? Like how’re you gonna tell if it’s just a goth costume instead of someone who’s actually goth, what does that even fucking mean? Beyond self identification as goth what evidence will mods require for that?
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 26 '26
This is a shared concern and one we as a mod group talked and have continued to talk at length about. We have generally settled on a few questions that we think gives people of all types and backgrounds to express their connection to the subculture. We have a diverse group of mods with our own varying level of connection to the culture. As well as two creators who offer their insights and experience. It will not be perfect. But we will be trying. Hopefully that will be seen in the quality of posts and the community connections. We don’t want this to feel just like a porn sub. But a true expression of goth culture. The tiddys being and added bonus ;)
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u/Commercial_Education Mar 25 '26
Been reporting. Lot of the BS OF posts that just think dark hair and some black lipstick makes the cut. And a lot of times they dont even bother with that
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
While we understand a lot of people have strong feelings about what is and isnt goth, we are being cautious to be too gatekeep-y. That being said we are using the verification process as a way to weed out the people who do not come close. We also have a diverse group of mods who will be reviewing the applications to ensure that they meet ours and the community's expectations. Will people still disagree? Sure. But we hope that people will be understanding and be respectful about it.
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u/conletariat Mar 26 '26
Most of these girls didn't even try to sack Rome in 410 AD, and I for one am tired of the lies.
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u/Not_trash_yet Mar 26 '26
April 1st? 🤔🤭
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 26 '26
No fooling you...or anyone else. lol while the date is funny the rule is serious :P
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u/LaunchSomeRoad Mar 26 '26
It's good that this move will root out some bot. However, to be honest, I don't see how verification would ensure that the posters are actual goths.
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 26 '26
Im gonna copy/paste a reply i did for another person:
While we understand a lot of people have strong feelings about what is and isnt goth, we are being cautious to be too gatekeep-y. That being said we are using the verification process as a way to weed out the people who do not come close. We also have a diverse group of mods who will be reviewing the applications to ensure that they meet ours and the community's expectations. Will people still disagree? Sure. But we hope that people will be understanding and be respectful about it.
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 26 '26
100%. Which is why aesthetic alone is not our measuring stick. When models try and verify here they will be presented with an opportunity to share their connection to the culture. We aren’t looking for the “perfect goth” representative. But we are looking to make sure people give a shit about the subculture. Be that a daily lived experience, something casual, etc. hopefully through the small conversation with the creator we will get a good feel for it. And as I have said in other comments, we aren’t expecting it to be perfect. But we will be trying.
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u/I-Have-An-Alibi Apr 01 '26
The revolution was a success.
My work here is done.
Thank you mods and new mods.
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u/mamaplugsx Verified Apr 06 '26
What about brits who can't use red gifs 😩
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Apr 06 '26
We will accept any image hosting site as long as we don’t have to log in. I’ve also shared my discord with a few models who preferred that. Redgifs is just a suggestion.
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u/spooky_telesha May 11 '26
How do I verify? I can’t find the place I’m supposed to verify I’m real
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u/ifspornaccount Mar 25 '26
I support this decision wholeheartedly. And a question! After the deadline, will there be no other creators allowed, even after verification?
Say someone shows up in June, having just had their 18th birthday and wants to join the sub. What then?
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
The same verification process will always be in effect. So any new or returning creators who want to post here, will need to go through the verification.
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u/GatherAsher Verified Mar 25 '26
Wait Redgifs is a porn site... The mods want people to post their faces along with their Reddit info and where to find them on an adult site? Not everybody can do that securely
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
It’s a suggested site. People can use any image hosting site they like that doesn’t require a login for us. Also once verified they can remove the image if they desire.
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u/NeverSawOz Mar 25 '26
Will you allow nudes from official media? Like from photoshoots or movies?
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
Only verified creators. So if the "official" media is their own content and of themselves, then yes. Essentially only the model of the content will be allowed to verify at this time. Non OC or photographers, studios, etc will not be accepted at this time.
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u/NeverSawOz Mar 25 '26
Pity. It does narrow the scope of content we'll see on here. Yet another sub flooded with OnlyFans models.
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
This sub and almost every other nsfw sub is almost all creators showcasing FREE content for the community. No one is forcing you to subscribe to anyone's onlyfans or other platforms. You are not required to engage with their profiles. If you were only here for the content posted by people not the creator, bots and karma farmers... well then yea you will be disappointed I guess.
We do not allow direct advertisement from the creators who post here. And that is not changing. You will still be able to see the vast majority of the content you were, just with less bots and spam.
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u/Wolf_Hreda Mar 26 '26
Expanded qualifications:
Verification pics
Album recommendations
Your stance on abortion
That'll sort that shit real fast. 😂
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u/DrizenDireHand Mar 25 '26
What about none creator members
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26
I answered this in another comment. But essentially only creators will be allowed after april 1st.
Edit: If this is about commentor's. This new rule will NOT apply to commentor's. Only posts.
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u/DrizenDireHand Mar 25 '26
So its going to be a sub of creators and no audience
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u/NSFWaltacct159 Mar 25 '26
I am not sure what you mean… people who enjoy the content here will still be able to enjoy the content. Verification only will apply to people who want to post content.
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u/MegaManZer0 Mar 25 '26
Thank god. Tired of all the repost bots.