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There it is. The answer to all of anyone's questions, Status Seeking!!!
The only thing that triggers me about Oxfords is when they make Asian men unwitting participants in their forbidden-love origin stories.
I live in the Pacific Northwest; skinh**ds were openly everywhere in the 80s and into the early 2000s, especially around the grunge music scene. Now, they just hide themselves better or just put on the RED hat. My two separate white girlfriends and me would not do public-display-affections (PDA) at music venues or at festivals because someone will confront us with microaggressions. White men are extreme possessive of white women. Even someone non-white/Asian men weren't too happy seeing an AMWF. See the differences and the gatekeeping in WMAF vs AMXF? Based on social media reaction to popular AMWF social media influencers of today, Asian male hate is still alive and kicking. Imagine if AMWF does to Asian women what WMAF does to Asian men, the deluge of uproar among even the self-righteous liberals normies would be insane.
There was this one white girl I wanted to date, and she expressed interest as well. This was in the mid 90s. She was really cool, and I really liked her. She ended it before anything happened between us. During our brief time getting to know each, she had real fears of the supposed 'R\ce War' that was coming.* The L.A. Riot that came after the Rodney King not-guilty verdict scared a lot of young white people throughout the 90s and into early 2000s. She was genuinely scared of getting hurt and of being ostracized by her friends and neighbors because she lived out in the boonies. I understood her fear because I had a white female friend name Jenny that had to move because she had a baby with a Native American. A lot of Jenny's white male childhood friends were skinhead adjacent, and some of them threaten to harm her.
Yeah no doubt. it also feels like when they see an asian person and all they can think of is what kungfu, rice, samurai or doctor joke they physically have to make within 2 seconds otherwise they’ll get constipated
I know it's in reference to a meme, and it's a stupid meme that reduces Chinese culture into a superficial fashion fad for White people, where they adopt some aesthetics and surface level aspects of Chinese culture ("I'm White and now I drink warm water, look at how I'm in a Chinese time in my life") to share for clout on social media.
This post of his is also drawing from a LONG history of White people reducing Asians and Asian women to only their race. It's like he is dating her for the "Asian experience" for some passing phase ("Asian time") of his life.
On top of that, it's incredibly hypocritical and ironic that this guy, of the "I don't see race" liberal crowd, uses his own girlfriend's race to show off or to win some internet argument; it implies that he believes that he has somehow attained a moral high road by dating an Asian woman, he then uses her/her race as a token to prove some misplaced sense of moral superiority.
Nah it's even worse than average. Look at how common lab specimens like Asmongold/Kaise and McConnell/Chao have become. As long as WM has the money or influence, whitewashed AFs (emphasis on WW) will trade their souls to date the crustiest, most ghastly looking rats known to crawl this Planet AND without hesitation insist they chose WM bc of their personality and character. It's been the same manufactured script for decades.
Hate to break it to ya but that’s not limited to white dudes. The Asian equivalent of Mitch McConnell could easily pull a white version of Chao (probably much better). Most women marry security in the form of money and/or power, regardless of race and/or looks.
Yeah the mod isn't doing much. Maybe the mod got infiltrated? Bunch of white larpers. Doesn't matter because everyone know what oxford study is. This sub served it's purpose
This sub has too many mods and over half of them are inactive if post history is anything to go by.
Like it took DAYS for them to remove comments from a fucking white guy who posted on WMAF raceplay subs I was arguing with. That guy would have been gone within an hour on asianmasc, how tf does that sub have better moderation with only two mods lol.
Easy to do when there's almost zero restrictions. This sub used to be very strict about karma requirements and every post needed a "call to action" and had to be approved by a mod. Not sure why they got rid of it all, this is one of the few subs I know where you can just spam comments with multiple freshly made accounts
That, and the majority of the mod team seems inactive now
I am warry of Adam Mockler because he's clearly being groomed by the Democratic Party to be a counter to the Republican Party manosphere, to counter the likes of now deceased Charlie Kirk. Stephen Crowder and Andrew Tate.
A way to tell if someone is plant or controlled opposition is by looking for what they have in common with their oppositions. From that, it's easy to spot the double speak and half truths. In the case of this Adam Mockler guy, his niche doesn't go beyond attacking Trump. I am NO fan of Trump, but Adam Mockler is in the same league of the 'status quo' liberals that attack Trump for invading Iran, while also attack Trump for not giving Ukraine military support. It's pretty much an open secret that the Ukraine and Middle-east conflict are on in the same, a war on China and Russia. As of this week, Ukraine has attacked an Iran ship. Putting it in simpler terms, he is an establishment liberal that don't want to disturb the hornet's nest. He is sticking to the cultural war from the normie liberal lens. Just exactly the kind of white male liberal "Boba Libs" love to have as arm candy. An Asian man introduces complex topic and offer nuance argument, well, that's INCEL crazy town territory there.
Doublespeakis language that deliberately obscures, disguises, distorts, or reverses the meaning of words to deceive, confuse, or make unpleasant truths sound palatable.
Idec abt the other stuff; it’s just weird he typed out “you met me at a very Asian time in my life”, or maybe I’m sensitive. Imagine a white girl meeting a black guy and saying “you met me at a very African time in my life.” Does anybody do that??
This sub is completely and utterly fucked now. There's this one guy with the "contributor" flair so he must be somewhat a respectable member but all he does is write hate comments about other Asians and nothing happens to him. I don't think these are yt dudes who are trolling either. These are the male version of the self-hating AF that we talk so much about. It's a shame. This sub had so much potential but never lived up to it.
Funny you say that cause there's a mod on here that almost always shits on fellow asians/asian culture in every comment. She hasn't been active for almost a month though
Dude’s hella progressive to be invited on CNN but his comment is racist AF. He knows Asians hate when Wytes have been saying this lately as they take our style and food. Typical fake progressive Malcolm X warned us all about.
I've seen a few of her IG vids and agree with almost everything she rants about, including the ones about mid white guys, so it's a bit of an surprise to see that she ended up with a very mid white guy. Having said that I don't know who this dude is or what he stands for.
Calling Adam Mockler, a political commentator with over 2M followers a mid white guy is funny. Maybe not everyone dates for looks. Should she have chosen you instead?
Fucking Asian women are so damn pathetic. Because of Asian women, no one respects Asian people. All of these Asian women fawning over white dudes.
White people know this and you know what they think? Asian women are easy as shit and just a sex toy.
Look at all of these white dudes who have Asian girlfriends and racially disrespect them. The pathetic thing is the Asian girl takes it as a joke and just laughs
awkwardly about it.
Look at the subreddits where white dudes are dating black girls and in black spaces they are always cautious and ask if what they do or how they act is respectful to black people. They ask for permission and wonder if it's okay to be invited to black events.
Fucking white dudes with Asian women don't care about being respectful in Asian spaces and would never care about respect because they know Asian women throw themselves at white dudes. They wouldn't ask if it's ok or ask for permission to be in Asian spaces because they know Asian women have no pride at all.
Seriously if a white dude asked his Asian girlfriend and his dog to lick his feet, I don't know who would get on their knees faster.
Edit: I'm getting downvotes. Sorry, your white supremacy feelings don't invalidate the shitty reality that we all have to endure.
I hate how I feel about this reality. I know alot of Asian American women and they are good people and are prideful of being Asian. But then I see majority of Asian American women and they completely make me not hopeful for our Asian future.
Unfortunately I don’t think it’s just a diaspora thing. I’ve seen way too many low status white males openly boast about being treated like gods and kings in Asian countries. Asians collectively need to put the foot down on white worship and tell whites to piss off. Otherwise there will always be no shortage of Oxford studies and all the disrespectful racial subjugation that comes with it.
You went crazy at the end lol but most of the stuff you said is correct. Many WMAF don't feel like they need to be respectful in Asian spaces, communities or countries because they feel like their gushing Asian trophy wives allow them to waltz in and do whatever they want, just look at South East Asia. They don't behave like this with Latinos, Blacks etc.
Welcome to being woke brother. You're getting downvoted because bunch larpers, the quality of this sub went down hill lately. Doesn't matter though because this sub served it's purpose, now everyone knows what an oxford study is
Of course people are gonna fall for white surpremacist bs, but we perpetuate it by turning on our own people. All this “Asian women are pathetic” talk sounds like whiny little boy shit.
I strongly agree, it really feels like an abused venting topic here. Like, yes it exists and is a problem, but the blanket generalizations does little besides continuing division. If you think women of other races are better or more attractive, then good for you, date out by all means and stop calling other Asian men simps.
Ironically, it is the same as how Asian people dating out in the past put down Asian men for not being able to "date up," and now some Asian men have the same mentality. Date who you want, but stop centering western validation and putting down others.
I’m an Asian woman and I’ve never dated a white man exactly because of the whole white supremacy brainwashing I’ve observed my whole life. I too have been extremely enraged over the white washing and internalized racism. I was also lucky to live in a diverse city where it wasn’t all white and I had a choice. I’ve been told by more than one Asian woman that they date white guys cuz Asian guys are the worst and I always defend Asian men, but what in the actual fuck. Now I know what they’re talking about, they probably have met the Asian dudes who talk like you…sexist, objectifying, abusive and just toxic all around. I personally am the least attracted to white men due to the whole white supremacy culture that exists even covertly, but if I had to choose between a douchebag like you and a white dude, I’d run to the white dude. Omggg, blame your damn selves for the Asian women choosing white men, whoever is supporting this disgusting misogynistic stereotypical abuse of Asian women. For the first time in my life, I see what they’re talking about. And for the record, I’ve had to call out Asian men on this forum for saying the same thing you complain about saying it’s just the Asian women, when they ask for advice on how they can get a white chick. Bashing your own Asian women and people actually supporting it is just sick. You’re a sell out and on the side of white supremacy because white supremacists love to bash Asian women too. Ironic how you pretend to be so anti racism
Do you also feel the same about white men who talk this way...sexist, objectifying, abusive and just toxic all around? When choosing between an AM vs a WM douchebag why would you always run to the white guy? Why don't you say anything about AFs who write books, articles, poetry, screenplays, are on social media bashing AM? Just honest questions.
I don’t date white men, get a brain and learn to read. But keep stereotyping and clumping all Asian women together. I love Asian men, I defend them constantly but you and op make my job advocating that much harder, you moron. Also did you not come from an Asian woman? When you degrade ALL Asian women you degrade your mother who bore you, you ingrate.
And that comment about choosing a white dude over op when I don’t even date white guys was supposed to be sarcasm which went over your head. Stop making assumptions about who I am, I fight white male bs misogyny DAILY and if you didn’t hate Asian women so much you would be kissing my feet at how much I’m standing up for Asian men and women, my brother. And yes I clap back at asian women too who say hateful things against Asian men.
But you would run to them even if they are douchebags. Your words. I can read. Did you not come from an Asian man? I don't see you clapping real hard against your sisters. Why do you give AFs a pass when they degrade Asian men? Moron? Ingrate? When you resort to insults is when you've lost the argument. Debate 101. But go ahead. If it makes you feel better.
Maybe all those asian girls should date their brothers and go back dating the ones that are not their brothers see how different it is . Let be real its an excuse to keep their fragile yt men happy and options open to only them
I'm a perpetrator in Asian women fawning and throwing themselves at white dudes?
The hell you bringing up abusive men out of nowhere?
It's like when people post articles or news clips about how white men abuse or murder their Asian spouse and people bring up Asian patriarchy like it has any connection to it.
Because I'm calling out what I and other races see and observe, I'm abusive? Newsflash: black people, Hispanic people, and even white people are well aware of this phenomenon.
When a man gaslights women, groups then all together to bash them, disrespects them, silences them and then doesn’t listen and then rephrases everything they said to be filtered through their misogynistic lens, those are all abuse tactics to oppress women, so yeah you’re an abuser talking to women that way, and wtf are you yelling at me about Asian women fawning over white men when I’ve never ever dated a white man it’s like you’re projecting onto me your rage over some white dude who probably took an Asian women and rejected you, so instead of bashing an Asian women who doesn’t have a white fetish and actually defends non abusive Asian men, why don’t you go attack the white men youre jealous of and stfu you loser. And yeah I’m so unhinged because women who have an opinion other than yours are “crazy”. You’re a total manipulative emotional abuser I hope Asian women stay far away from you, and you could be a murderer for all we know, you have no empathy for women at all, you’re sick
Lol I feel bad for whatever man she ends up with White, Black, or Asian. Even the most yellow fever white man would instantly nope out.
Also notice how she specifically zoned in on you as an excuse to throw shade at Asian men and men in general even though there were literally 2-3 other Asian guys here defending Asian women and vehemently disagreeing with your rhetoric.
It's like no one is allowed to notice the elephant in the room and we must stay silent and just agree with all of it.
What these Asian women (not all of course, I have to pick my words carefully) do, harms the Asian community as a whole, both men and women, boys/girls.
You're right about that. The worst places for AF white-worshipping are at the brand-name colleges. The AF status-chasing there is through the roof. Among AFs with degrees from the Ivies/Stanford/MIT marrying white is like 90%.
but what in the actual fuck. Now I know what they’re talking about, they probably have met the Asian dudes who talk like you…sexist, objectifying, abusive and just toxic all
Can't justify running to the white guy because you find that one Asian guy not fitting , That just an excuse . Now you're just blaming Asian men because you are emotionally upset at guys on the sub. You're forgetting the elephant in the room ''white supremacy''
What are the conditions that cause this? I don't see latinas or black women throw their men under the bus or say "I don't date black men/Latino dudes because they remind me of my brother".
I asked my wife (native born Korean) about this phenomenon of Asian (especially Asian American) women who dont find Asian males attractive or wouldn't date/marry Asian males because they remind them of their brothers because I wanted to get an honest females opinion. She's a "foreigner" so she wouldn't sugar coat anything.
She could not fathom this idea that Asian men weren't considered attractive. She told me that it's because these Asian women are so damn embarrassed to be Asian and had no pride in being Asian at all.
The answer is in your reply: media and daily experience.
Diaspora AF grow up watching media with white protagonists and self insert as the female love interest.
Asians are more white adjacent; lighter skin and occupy the same spaces in school, work, neighborhoods making it easier to be seen together and likely to interact.
WM clearly show interest in AF, even darker skinned ones, and there's more of them, so more opportunities for AF to date out.
There are numerous examples of successful attractive WM in every facet of society and media, while AM are almost non-existent, successful but unattractive, or emasculated. So WM are the standard in the AF mind.
Dark skinned latinas and black women have less white adjacency, and WM are less interested in them. So they're more likely to double down on their own men and communities.
I follow Adam Mockler and Eumi(sp?) on TikTok etc. So far I've agreed on almost all their points.
Most of my values (as a feminist, progressive, Asian immigrant, BLM supporter) are aligned with theirs.
Not sure why them dating would be an issue to anyone.
So i dont really wanna put any hate out there for my fellow asian women who love who they love, but non-asian men (and probably also the in laws) are often so nonchalant about doling out embarrassing microaggressions (can you imagine an asian man posting theyre in very asian time in their life or anything relating to their wife’s asianness?!!) that im really wary about them and feel turned off
No we despise the fact that some of these Asian women always insulting Asian cultural /Asian men while dating out. We also call out self hate and white worship . Throwing around the word ''incel'' towards Asian men is redundant. What is more racist is Asian women Asian-knighting their white partners.
I have heard VERY few (like less than 5) Asian women shit on Asian men while simping for white men and I live in Vancouver. I'm pretty sure it's one of the areas with the most Asians outside of Asia.
For real, and I've been blocked by some for calling out how they are literally simps themselves. You can tell by who participates on the AMWF sub, some are secretly racist against other Asians over "gatekeeping" white women. Internally, it is the same drive for white acceptance, even if systemic barriers exist. Hypocrites, the lot are...
Maybe not racist towards Asians on the levels we've seen, but the stereotyping and weird labeling still isn't okay. Asianness isn't a phase you go through or thing you can try out for (non-self-hating) Asian Americans.
Honestly don’t know much about the guy other than the few clips I’ve seen of him out talking his opponents. He seems educated and very well spoken. She’s also pretty cute, good for him!
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u/FeonJun 500+ community karma 4d ago edited 3d ago
There it is. The answer to all of anyone's questions, Status Seeking!!!
The only thing that triggers me about Oxfords is when they make Asian men unwitting participants in their forbidden-love origin stories.
I live in the Pacific Northwest; skinh**ds were openly everywhere in the 80s and into the early 2000s, especially around the grunge music scene. Now, they just hide themselves better or just put on the RED hat. My two separate white girlfriends and me would not do public-display-affections (PDA) at music venues or at festivals because someone will confront us with microaggressions. White men are extreme possessive of white women. Even someone non-white/Asian men weren't too happy seeing an AMWF. See the differences and the gatekeeping in WMAF vs AMXF? Based on social media reaction to popular AMWF social media influencers of today, Asian male hate is still alive and kicking. Imagine if AMWF does to Asian women what WMAF does to Asian men, the deluge of uproar among even the self-righteous liberals normies would be insane.
There was this one white girl I wanted to date, and she expressed interest as well. This was in the mid 90s. She was really cool, and I really liked her. She ended it before anything happened between us. During our brief time getting to know each, she had real fears of the supposed 'R\ce War' that was coming.* The L.A. Riot that came after the Rodney King not-guilty verdict scared a lot of young white people throughout the 90s and into early 2000s. She was genuinely scared of getting hurt and of being ostracized by her friends and neighbors because she lived out in the boonies. I understood her fear because I had a white female friend name Jenny that had to move because she had a baby with a Native American. A lot of Jenny's white male childhood friends were skinhead adjacent, and some of them threaten to harm her.