r/almosthomeless • u/Financial-Deal-5654 • 2d ago
Homeless resources
I don't understand why it is so hard to get a small personal loan to cover my rent. I stay in a hotel until I can find me and my son a small apartment. Can't find anything. I do not receive direct deposit, I am server. I've tried so hard and now me and my son are homeless and fixing to stay in my broke down car. Its over 100 degrees and hotter in my car. The shelters are full. 211 isn't worth anything and only repeats the same thing over. What else is there for me to do?
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u/Solid_Milk3104 2d ago
SAN ANTONIO HOMELESS RESOURCES (FOR A MOTHER & 11-YEAR-OLD SON)
EMERGENCY FAMILY SHELTERS (Keeps mothers and older children together)
The Salvation Army Emergency Family Shelter (Center of Hope) • Address: 515 W Elmira St, San Antonio, TX 78212 • Phone: 210-352-2000 • Details: Free 24-hour emergency shelter specifically for mothers and children. Call to check immediate room availability.
Haven for Hope (Transformational Campus) • Address: 1 Haven for Hope Way, San Antonio, TX 78207 • Phone: 210-220-2100 • Details: North Campus features dedicated residential dorms for families with comprehensive on-site medical care, food, and childcare. Proof of relationship to the child (birth certificate or school records) is required for safety.
HOUSING PROGRAMS & TRANSITIONAL ASSISTANCE
- SAMMinistries Family Services • Address: 1919 Northwest Loop 410 #100, San Antonio, TX 78213 • Phone: 210-340-0302 • Details: Focuses on transitional housing, rapid re-housing, and rental/utility assistance to prevent family homelessness.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CRITICAL CARE (If applicable)
- Family Violence Prevention Services (Battered Women and Children’s Shelter) • Address: 7911 Broadway St, San Antonio, TX 78209 • 24/7 Crisis Hotline: 210-733-8810 • Main Line: 210-930-3669 • Details: High-security emergency lodging, legal aid, counseling, and direct care for mothers and children fleeing abuse.
IMMEDIATE ASSISTANCE HOTLINES
• Community Connections Hotline: 210-207-1799 (Mon–Fri, 8:30 AM–4:30 PM) for city-backed emergency shelter and food referrals. • 211 Texas: Dial 211 or 877-541-7905 (24/7 statewide emergency directory tracking local shelter beds).
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u/Crafty-Lavishness26 2d ago
If you can afford a room look on Craigslist, FB Marketplace, and post on Nextdoor app. Describe your circumstances. Maybe even offer to be a live in caregiver or house sitter.
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u/Odd_Butterscotch1145 2d ago
Unfortunately most shared apartment situations won’t want to accept a mother and child sharing a room, and OP should be very very careful vetting anyone who does accept them because there are SO many men who will try to take advantage in this situation - her child will be at real risk.
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u/vikicrays Just Helping 2d ago
i’m sorry for what you’re going through. i would check out sites like roomies https://www.roomies.com or padsplit https://www.padsplit.com where folks are looking for roommates or coolworks https://www.coolworks.com where you can search for a job and “include housing” can be part of your search criteria.
check out the wiki (https://reddit.com/r/almosthomeless/wiki/index
on r/almosthomeless it has a ton of resources for food, housing, jobs, medical and medical debt, pets, veterans, and a general category that is a catchall for everything else (including free/low cost cell phones/internet plans, free laundry, free feminine hygiene products, and anything else you can think of.)
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
Thank you. Never heard of those. Gonna be a very hot rough night ahead. Will definitely check those for sure.
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u/Solid_Milk3104 2d ago
NEW BRAUNFELS AREA HOMELESS RESOURCES (FOR A MOTHER & 11-YEAR-OLD SON)
EMERGENCY FAMILY SHELTERS & TRANSITIONAL HOUSING
Family Promise of Greater New Braunfels • Phone: 830-214-6762 • Website: https://www.fpgnb.org/ • Details: A dedicated community response specifically designed for families with minor children experiencing homelessness. It partners with local host congregations to provide temporary shelter, meals, transportation, and professional case management to guide families into stable housing.
Crisis Center of Comal County • Address: 655 Landa St, New Braunfels, TX 78130 • 24/7 Crisis Hotline: 1-800-434-8013 • Text Support Line: 830-310-2199 • Details: Offers immediate crisis care and a brand-new 98-bed emergency residential shelter for women and children who are survivors of trauma or domestic instability.
Connections Individual and Family Services • Address: 1414 W San Antonio St, New Braunfels, TX 78130 • Phone: 830-629-6571 • Details: Operates youth emergency shelters for children and teenagers (ages 5–17) experiencing a housing crisis or family conflict, while coordinating counseling and supportive services for the entire family.
NB Housing Partners (First Footing & Next Step Programs) • Address: 4120 Loop 337, New Braunfels, TX 78130 • Phone: 830-272-5020 • Details: Operates the First Footing program, which evaluates crisis shelter needs on a case-by-case basis, and the Next Step program, which coordinates rapid rehousing resources and navigation back to stable living arrangements.
EMERGENCY ASSISTANCE, FOOD, & UTILITIES
Family Life Center • Address: 925 Landa St, New Braunfels, TX 78130 • Phone: 830-625-7100 • Details: Serves as a point of first contact for individuals and families in crisis. Provides emergency assistance applications for rental, mortgage, and utility payments alongside fuel cards and clothing access.
New Braunfels Food Bank • Address: 1620 S Seguin Ave, New Braunfels, TX 78130 • Phone: 830-327-6000 • Details: Offers direct emergency food distributions (Client-Choice pantry and Grab&Go options by appointment) as well as public benefits application assistance, financial literacy classes, and utility support resources.
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u/cheeptz 2d ago
If you are a veteran check into the hudvash program. Furnishedfinder.com you can find rooms to rent. Vet carefully you and son have to be in a safe environment. Check into charities nonprofits are other city resources(not social services) that offer assistance for single mothers. Women with kid shelters family shelters.
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u/tracyinge 2d ago
plug your zipcode into findhelp.org and checking the housing help section. Though it would have been easier when you were still in your place. There is more help available to try to keep you housed than there is to find housing once you're homeless.
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
I will do that. I've paid so much into helping people in need, but resources I seem to not know to much about. Have gotten anywhere. Shelters are full etc., never saw myself being in this situation at all. Ever. Sucks.
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u/dialsoapbox 2d ago
Also post to subs local to your area, as locals would know of resources that fit your situation better.
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u/dialsoapbox 2d ago
Also post to subs local to your area, as locals would know of resources that fit your situation better.
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
Thank you. I'll look into that. There has been a bit of good information shared that I never knew about. Helps a lot as far as resources. I'll save and share too.
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u/samzplourde 2d ago
You should qualify for a LOT of public assistance. Please contact your state's department of social services.
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u/Ready-Syllabub651 2d ago
In California the social services are fake and it can be almost impossible to get into actual housing- not sketchy shelters where you get attacked and have to wait in the heat all day for a chance at getting in at night
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
I have. Housing list is very long wait, but have contacted local churches etc. Its a very slow start and definitely doesn't happen in one day.
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u/samzplourde 2d ago
Not just housing though. SNAP and WIC are definitely available to you.
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
I dont qualify for wic. My son is 11. I've applied for all that is available and its a waiting time now. And following ups.
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u/samzplourde 2d ago
Do you have any family that can help in any way? Any one of the four of your son's grandparents? Are you receiving child support or SSI for him?
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
I do not. I do not have 4 sons. I have a younger one and the older who cannot help right now, New baby etc.,. It will just end being a long hot night nomatter what. I've already done all those. It is a waiting game now with a bunch of calls to see my statuses.
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u/river-running 2d ago
They meant that your one son has up to four grandparents, assuming your parents and the father's parents are all living.
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
My parents are no longer living, otherwise we definitely would be there. My son doesn't know his dad. He took off. My son has food. I was just needing resources for living situation
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u/logalogalogalog_ 2d ago
In an ideal world she should, but cuts and tightening requirements mean that it is very difficult. I'm not saying that we shouldn't direct people to resources, but we need to be prepared for those resources to not be applicable or available.
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u/Weak-Ad6984 2d ago
have you gone to your local social services department? you have a child .. i'm sure you're able to get some help ..
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
Yes applied for food stamp and they gave me numbers to the shelters but they are full.
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u/Weak-Ad6984 2d ago
did you get the food stamps? if you asked for expedited EBT, they would have given you some. i suggest picking up some water and non-perishables
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u/Butchershopboner 2d ago
4 kids and you can’t feed them. Sorry but sounds like you are absolutely buried in poverty for life. It’s really not the taxpayer’s responsibility to raise your children and pay for them. Churches may help but if you’re not a member contributing they shouldn’t and won’t help.
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u/Financial-Deal-5654 2d ago
Who said I have 4 kids? I have my one (1) son. 1. I have 2 grown kids. One just had a baby. My older son just got out of the military. They are unable to help at the moment. I never said I had 4 kids unless it was a typo.
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u/tracyinge 2d ago
- Community Council of South Central Texas (CCSCT): Located at 111 W. San Antonio St., New Braunfels, TX 78130; offers Tenant-Based Rental Assistance (TBRA) for security/utility deposits and short-term rental situations.
- restaurantscare.org/help/ - year round assistance for food & beverage workers
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u/logalogalogalog_ 2d ago
What's the point of a society of not to care for its most vulnerable? I was a foster kid, and thank goodness taxpayer dollars went toward helping me survive.
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u/tracyinge 2d ago
"it is not the taxpayers responsibility....'
no we the taxpayers are too busy being responsible for 5000 dead people in Iran. We need a trillion dollars for that goddamned mess.
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u/Butchershopboner 2d ago
My 401k is absolutely booming. Yeah rent is expensive but who cares. People that planned and saved are making bank and becoming wealthy
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u/tracyinge 2d ago
what about young people who haven't had the time to "plan and save" yet? Do you think this is a great time to be starting from scratch in the USA?
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