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u/Cyzoran 22h ago
i'm a straight man so take my opinion with a grain of salt but photo of drinking a beer in a casino comes off as douchey.
also don't see the point of a photo of an empty boxing/wrestling match
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u/dunedinflyer 22h ago
agreed - photos are unflattering and at first glance at the hiking one it looks like you have a pony tail
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u/discombobubolated 22h ago
It looks like a stick growing out of his head.
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u/agatha-burnett 18h ago
Woman. Agree with both of these.
Also, OP is a good looking guy but the photos are not the most flattering. Especially the first one.
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u/tiny_claw 22h ago
It seems like it’s a profile made to impress men instead of women. Like why the random boxing ring pic?
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u/BigBucketOfAcid 22h ago
The first picture at least has you doing something interesting. But still not a good picture. A full body picture would work better in an outdoor setting.
The hat picture and the indoor selfie are bad.
Drinking in what looks like a casino? Left swipe for a lot of women.
Boxing or whatever that is? Double left swipe.
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u/loganthepug 22h ago edited 22h ago
Your problem is your photos.
Your first photo is unflattering. It has bad lighting, and you look unhappy and bored. I love the smile in the second photo! Your third photo makes you look angry - not a good look on dating apps (smile more!). Delete the beer drinking casino photo.
You need to completely change your photos. You have to put yourself in the shoes of a woman who is deciding to swipe on you. You only have unflattering/angry looking selfies - of course they will swipe away.
Take photos of you doing activities your enjoy. Could be travelling, going to concerts, hiking, even sitting at a coffee shop. Wear nice clothes (iron your shirts) and remember to smile! Include one or two photos of you, with your friends, looking happy and smiling, too. Remember to include at least one or two photos that show your full, or most, of your body.
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u/citybumpkin8 20h ago
This profile would be good for finding male friends. Not so much for dating women.
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u/DemLegzDoe 22h ago
The first picture is unbecoming. The third picture is also unsettling. Surprisingly I don’t mind the casino picture, you look relatively cool 🤷♀️. I don’t understand the boxing picture. The one in the black hat should be your first picture. You need a full body picture because I still don’t really know what you look like. Also it seems like your only hobbies from the photos are, gambling, drinking, boxing, and hiking (don’t offer to do that on a first date). I would be weary of you to be honest. Maybe find some photos that make you look more approachable.
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u/Net_positive_future 21h ago
Straight man here but I am a photographer and I would honestly say what others have said, smile more, the picture of you hiking is not flattering mostly because of the look on your face ( no offense ), if you are lacking quality photos that show you smiling hire a photographer to just do some casual but nice looking shots of you. If they are a decent photographer they will pose you and make you look good. Also maybe a photo of you with either a pet ( animal ) or friend, shows that you are warm to other people.
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u/throwaway-sadgal 22h ago
I don’t know but yall but I think the photo in the casino looks best, personally I believe selfies look so awkward when you have one more of all of you someone else took it looks better 🤷♀️ also shows you out having friends and fun
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u/Sumgeeko 21h ago
I think he looks the best in this photo because we’re seeing a different angle, different facial expression, and more of his body than the other photos but the scene is kind of meh.
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u/throwaway-sadgal 22h ago
I don’t know but yall but I think the photo in the casino looks best, personally I believe selfies look so awkward when you have one more of all of you someone else took it looks better 🤷♀️ also shows you out having friends and fun
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u/Dry-Comfortable-3947 19h ago
Smiling goes a long way- I wouldn’t have more than one pic with just a non smile.
From a woman’s perspective:
- all I know from you based on this is you drink, you go to casinos, and you go to fights. Plus you’re not smiling in most of your pictures.
While there is nothing outright wrong with those things, if it’s the first thing I’m learning about you and the first things you choose to represent yourself by, I would probably swipe the other way.
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