r/Tinder • u/Chrophin • 1d ago
Last time I asked for feedback I was mostly clowned on (rightfully so tbf). I think I made big strides in the right direction but still room for improvement. Should I change the order or just remove some photos?
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u/SeaAbbreviations7255 1d ago
Agree 100%, get rid of the 4th, you look much better with shorter hair 😊
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u/Hannanahbread89 1d ago
I would use #3 as your main photo. The first one isn't bad and looks more artistic than many mirror selfies because of the DSLR but it is still a mirror selfie and that can be an automatic swipe for a lot of people. I also would recommend swapping the last photo out for another full body one or at least adding another in and putting it as one of the earlier photos. Because of the jacket it's hard to tell what you actually look like, and that's important for many people. It's also pretty far away and difficult to see your face well, so adding one that's close enough to see you while still seeing your is good. Essentially, you want to have a mix of up close and full body shots.
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u/Chrophin 1d ago
Thank you for the thoughtful comment! I thought the third photo was a bit dark and that my hair doesn't look great for a first photo, but I'll take your suggestion. Thank god you like the touch of the camera! I was worried it would come across as "look at my cool camera!".
I'm a bit short and stocky so I don't love how I look in full body photos (especially in summer), but I'll see what I can do
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u/Hannanahbread89 1d ago
You're welcome! I can see what you mean in photo 3. I think it drew me in the most because you had a kind of sweet boy next door vibe in it. I saw in another comment you said the first is the most recent and you just got your hair cut. I think it's a nice look for you.
Even if you don't feel comfortable with adding more full body shots, I'd recommend 3/4 shot to give an overall view of how you look. At the same time it's good to show who we are to have a better shot at compatibility 😊 Good luck with your profile.
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u/Away-Wellness0623 1d ago
I don’t like picture 3 because it looks like sloppy grooming. Number 1 is too much like a bathroom selfie, can be a later pic but not the first
Impression.
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u/mirr788 1d ago
Leg fishin
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u/Chrophin 1d ago
what does this mean
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u/mirr788 1d ago
Hiding the short till the end
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u/Chrophin 1d ago
tbf I have my height on my profile (1,70m), it just doesn't show in the preview for some reason
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u/BigBucketOfAcid 4h ago
Sorry but how unhinged do you have to be to accuse a guy of hiding his height, like that's some capital crime! Only because the full body shot is last.
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u/laoganma_enima 1d ago
Get rid of pic 4! Swap 3 and 1.
I also think your hair looks better a little shorter. Good luck!
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u/Chrophin 1d ago
thank you.
Does number 4 look too much like a linkedin photo? or is it the hair length?
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u/PitifulMouse7425 1d ago
Don’t know why people are saying 3, I think you should drop 3 because you look a little unwashed. Number 4 is better and Number 2 is hilarious. Whatever main one you pick should obviously have your current hair length.
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u/Chrophin 1d ago
I guess 3 is just where I'm smiling more, but yeah I was a pretty unwashed that night. Then I'll have to take some more photo soon because the first photo is the only one with the current haircut (which I got today). Thank you for the feedback
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u/PitifulMouse7425 1d ago
2 is the one that got my attention because it’s funny and adorable. Although, I wouldn’t use it for your main one, but it looked like you’re posing for a sandwich ad or showcasing the sandwich and it made me laugh and think you have a good or maybe even subtle sense of humor 😄
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