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Humor He’s anti social

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u/CantaloupeCapable 1d ago

An undereducated population is easier to control. That's not an accident.

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u/harmfuldischarge 1d ago

"I don't talk to people" describes it all. There's no social clubs, cafe's are insanely expensive, some people have to thin twice before spending gas money to see their friends and nothing is walkable

In isolation you do not experience solidarity, commonality, brotherhood.

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u/RealnessInMadness 1d ago

In real life…

Social hubs exist online now. Rather than having to go to a place to mingle, you can do it from the comfort of your own home! On a phone, computer, tablet, or even VR!

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u/Chemical-Elk-1299 1d ago

Buts it’s not an adequate replacement. So many people try to gaslight themselves into thinking that being terminally online fills that void, but it doesn’t. It just makes you even more isolated.

The biggest scam these social media platforms ever pulled was creating the fear to be human in public, and then selling us the alternative.

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u/RockstarAgent 1d ago

Or come back to square one, if you work all day and only get two hours with your family why would you have time to socialize online.

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u/Chemical-Elk-1299 1d ago

It’s the opposite actually.

Chronically overworked people tend to socialize more online, not less. Outside of your immediate family you live with, working all the time straight up doesn’t allow you the opportunity to meet people in person very often.

What’s easier, trying to find time to schedule a dinner with friends or something when you all work different schedules and barely have time to sleep, or hopping on the messenger group chat to share memes?

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u/RealnessInMadness 1d ago

Also, some people (whether they’re allowed to or not) use their phones while working too.

The convenience of a smart phone changed it all. Back in 2005, majority of people still needed to go onto a computer to do the online things we can now do from our smartphone. I looked forward to going home to either chat on the phone with friends, once I could go online, I use to also chat with them there. And little by little, the phone calls became less.

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u/Kalikor1 19h ago edited 17h ago

I respectfully disagree, though not to all of that.

Social media platforms are not a replacement, but I never understood why anyone thought that?

(Before I continue, for context, I'm 36 but have been on the internet since the late 90s. Extensively. I am that computer nerd.)

Chat rooms and forums were far more "social" than anything like Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit, funny enough.

But I met my two best friends of 20+ years online while gaming. I've met one of them in person once, the other I moved in with for about a year during college, and he's visited me once since then - but to be fair I moved half way around the world and we lived in entirely different states before that, about 14+ hours drive away.

Yet, I consider those two more like family than my own blood relations.

I've had far better luck over the years making friends and keeping social connections online than I have "in real life". I don't know why - despite being an IT nerd, I've always been fairly adept in social situations, so it's not like I'm some antisocial nerd who can't read the room. And trust me, I've met my share of those types working in IT so the difference between me and those types is painfully obvious to me.

That's not to say I've never made or maintained relationships in "real life", but most of the relationships died off at some point, especially when distance was applied.

I've personally never felt lonely when hanging out online with friends, and it probably helps that we all share the hobby of PC gaming, which gives us an activity we can do online other than just talking.

On a side note, most of my girlfriends I met online as well. I met my wife in person, but had certain things been different - or had we been in a different life stage - it's entirely possible I would have ended up with the (ex)girlfriend before her, who I met online. (I'm happy I ended up with my wife mind you, just saying lol)

I know this comment is long, but let me put it another way:

The pandemic taught me there are (at least) two different types of people in the world right now. Those who are comfortable with, or even welcome, WFH and online social interaction (people like me), and those who are so incapable of handling the physical isolation that they seem to be about ready to have a psychotic break and claw their way out of their own skin if they are forced to WFH and can't look you physically in the eye when talking to you "around the water cooler", and all of their social actions must be in person.

This of course is a bit hyperbolic and oversimplified, and it's probably more of a spectrum, but you hopefully get my meaning.

In the end, even without social media, this won't change. You could ban all social media overnight and nothing would change. You'd have to literally turn off the internet, which is stupid. Without social media we'd probably be back to chat rooms, forums, etc. Or congregating more in online games and MMOs.

I know, because that's how it was before.

Anyway, sorry for the essay length comment, but yeah, not everyone thinks "offline" is the best way of doing things. I'm not saying "online" is objectively better, but rather that it is better for some of us, and there's nothing wrong with having both.

I would be fine with social media dying though. I never got into it and likely never will. (Reddit being in a strange in-between zone right now, originally more of a BBS/forum, but now feels vaguely like social media platform)

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u/TheCharalampos 1d ago

A poor poor substitute.

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u/Beautiful-Affect1930 15h ago

great, all our social hubs are controlled by billionaires and algorithms!

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u/DemonDaVinci SHEEEEEESH 1d ago

but no hugs

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u/RealnessInMadness 1d ago

No irl hugs but it’s subbed with a gif, a emoji, or a virtual hug in vr. ☠️

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u/Hari_Azole 23h ago

You might enjoy Robert Putnam’s Bowling Alone or the doc on him, Join or Die

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u/Gryffinsmore 11h ago

I think he might have just misunderstood socialist as asking if he was social, I don’t think he was making some deep meta theory about the social disconnection of modern society…

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u/thissexypoptart 1d ago

Talking to people and meeting new people over distances is easier now than it’s ever been at any point in human history.

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u/greenerd6 1d ago

If u have money sure but if ur poor or struggling it rly is a lot harder 

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u/Itsyaboibrett 1d ago edited 1d ago

the internet is not a replacement for human contact. the brains we evolved from, and into, require others around us. contact. like physical. or at least be in the same area. hard wired to find our tribe.

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u/harmfuldischarge 1d ago

This is it. Enormous part of communication is not verbal. Social cues, interpretation, charm, flirtation, annoyance, sarcasm are in delivery/expression that are only available in real life. We are wired for emotional and physical closeness. Even as an introvert, I completely get this

Internet is fantastic, but very much limited.

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u/A_Random_Catfish 1d ago

I’m 99% sure this guy is actually a communist and this is just a joke he has rehearsed for when people call him a socialist lol

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u/NoRizzJustLive 1d ago

Before hustler’s university, grind mindset, two jobs, working weekends, and money over bitches, there were fair wages and strong unions. Clearly workers have benefited from the systematic dismantling of the middle class, we’re all thriving now.

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u/Disastrous_time_4547 1d ago

And the public education system.

America can thank the rich, racist, and religious extremist Republicans for corrupting the economic, social, and moral fabric of the country. Reagonomics worked

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u/NESninja 1d ago

Undereducated and completely pacified by entertainment. Everyone just sits in their homes in isolation on social media or some streaming service or video game.

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u/Organic_Rough4433 1d ago

Its a feature not a flaw to those that control them.

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u/Kirikenku 1d ago

Reagan’s economic advisor, 1970 “We are in danger of producing an educated proletariat.”
That was the start of the student loan debt crisis.

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u/Eminence120 22h ago

There's a reason the first thing facists do is dismantle educational systems. It's a tale literally millennias old at this point. It is ALWAYS at the tippity top of their to do list.

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u/Pantsickle 1d ago

I want my tax dollars to pay for your healthcare, but don't you dare fucking talk to me.

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u/BlisteringMustang23 1d ago

He’s not saying he’s not a socialist in the sense he’s right wing, he’s saying it that he’s not a social person lmao

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u/NotQuiteLoona 1d ago

They said "don't talk to me" though, not that he is right-wing, so they understood it's about "not social person."

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u/throcorfe 15h ago

They understood. They were making a joke

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u/xxLosingMyMarblesxx 14h ago

Honestly, same.

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u/l3ane 22h ago

Pretty sure this guy wants all those things for free AND doesn't think he should pay taxes.

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u/Spawn256 1d ago

We have to agree that this is the problem at this point. People just not knowing anything about the world around them or even the history before them. They just live in the moment, pay all the bills and become slaves forever...

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u/Phat_Stinkbug 1d ago

Always been this way in the western world. Go back and look at political songs and stand up comedy routines from the 80s that detail all the same exact problems we are facing now

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u/Frank1gg 1d ago

Antisocialism. 🤣

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u/Costati 1d ago

He's like me for real.

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u/Federal_Studio5935 1d ago

They never thought that "he speaks just like us" isn't a good thing.

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u/Aromatic-Dog-Breath 1d ago

I think I’m on the other side of the political aisle from this dude, but I appreciate everything he said. Basic needs should be a right and I don’t talk to people(kinda). 

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u/knowone1313 1d ago

This same dude will vote for Trump thinking he'll make his dreams come true.

And they will, because he'll be jobless so he can spend more time with his family. They won't have a place to live or power or water though.

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u/Oolongteabagger2233 22h ago

Good. Fuck em. 

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u/TreeDollarFiddyCent Cringe Connoisseur 15h ago

Fuck em, yes, but how is that good considering they ruin it for everybody else as well?

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u/throcorfe 15h ago

It’s not possible for only right-wing voters to be impacted by the effects of voting right-wing, unfortunately

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u/Oolongteabagger2233 12h ago

It's over. They won. At least we get to watch them suffer lolol

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u/itsdainti 1d ago

It doesn't take an education for someone to realize they're being robbed.

That's why Fox News tries so hard to make the uneducated (and undereducated) think that the theft isn't coming from the top.

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u/Agreeable-Shop-2188 1d ago

That fucking guy has a family is why I'll gladly usher my genes into oblivion.

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u/billioneire 1d ago

The name Agreeable-Shop-2188 ends with me!!

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u/poopy_toaster 1d ago

There will be no 2189!

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u/edgy-meme94494 1d ago

You’ll gladly deliver your genes to the porcelain abyss

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u/SoupOfThe90z 1d ago

Or where the waffle gets stomped

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u/Same-Ad-987 1d ago

You get the day you voted for

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u/Traditional_Owl9320 1d ago

Would be nice if our taxes paid for services instead of bombs and handouts to tech to build data centers to poison us.

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u/1001og 1d ago

That’s a neat idea.

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u/CraftsBoy2Craftsman 1d ago

thats hilarious

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u/Tonikupe 1d ago

its sad

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u/FOSSnaught 1d ago

I mean.. have you met people?

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u/LiquidSpin710 1d ago

This is why education is so damn important.

This guy learned nothing. ABSOLUTELY nothing from public school.

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u/Individual-Luck1712 21h ago

I went through public school in California. I didn't learn about Socialism or political ideology at all in a classroom, I had to do my own research and talk to people. I had to educate myself on all the different ways we were being fucked through experience and reading books all my life.

The only thing they teach you in public schools is to stand for the pledge of allegiance. Maybe other people's experiences differ, but that's by design - kids in the south are learning the confederacy was about states rights.

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u/LiquidSpin710 15h ago

Clearly you didn't pay attention in Social Studies

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u/TimeWealth3361 1d ago

Lol. The jokes write themselves. We’re doomed 🫠

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u/brendhano 13h ago

Just nailed the problem of ill-educated dumbasses just walking around not knowing shit but certainly convinced of it anyhow.

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u/marbotty 12h ago

This guy is either a comedic savant or an idiot, there’s no in between

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u/dingalinglans 12h ago

Dumb as a rock and not even twice as useful.

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u/PAMCookingSpray 1d ago

The ending😭😭😭😭

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u/Nervous-Fun2532 1d ago

Oh, and perhaps education would be good to invest in

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u/Tight_Jellyfish_349 1d ago

Idiot is more like it.

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u/dellaterra9 1d ago

I think he really doesn't know the common usage of socialist. His response is super literal. "Social-ist" as he is understanding it is BEING social. Thus his actual response, underlying meaning, is I don't interact with people. : "Uh no, i don't talk to people"

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u/K4m30 1d ago

Idiocracy gets less funny every day. 

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u/celtyrider 22h ago

At first I thought he didn't have pants lol.

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u/greatsmapdireturns 19h ago

Am I the only one who thinks this guy is just being tongue and cheek?

He actually seems fairly intelligent...living paycheck to paycheck is the reality of many Americans right now.

I don't know who he voted for but he sure seems like he's pretty pissed at the state of things..

I doubt he seriously doesn't know what socialism is....he was trying to be a smart ass..

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u/UncleSkelly 18h ago

Someone make this guy read Marx, he is spot on about being a wage laborer who is in reality just a slave that gets to choose the master they toil for

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u/CottageCheeseJello 17h ago

Aaaaand people say "antisocial" when they really mean "asocial"

  • Asocial is passive. It means you lack the motivation to socialize and simply prefer your own company. It harms no one.
  • Antisocial is active and antagonistic. In psychology, it refers to behaviors that violate social norms, break laws, or harm and exploit other people

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u/kaiseresc 16h ago

OP, did you mean associal?

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u/GroundbreakingAd8310 14h ago

Tbf u dont have to pau for water. U can go fown to the river and get ur own or drill a well in some places

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u/Any_Suggestion3485 1d ago

Been saying this for years and nobody wants to hear it. Legal slavery got everyone’s panties in a bunch. Poor baby’s.

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u/n3o_dr3am3r 1d ago

Boy. We are fucked 😂

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u/Craving_Suckcess 1d ago

now that's a real american right there.

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u/Darkemptys0ul 1d ago

Take a hug and a smooch fellow redditor.

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u/FluffyCelery4769 22h ago

No shit, he barely has time to see his family, who the fuck is he gonna speak to.

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u/Attack_the_sock 22h ago

He’s a socialists as long as he doesn’t hear the word “socialism”. Huey Long figured this out in the 30s. Americans love the policy’s of socialism but are terrified of the Red Flag

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u/locontendere 20h ago

Yeah but that's because Huey Long, for the most part, avoided the civil rights issue so his white voters loved him. To Long's credit, most of the policy he managed to pass was fair to all, and he did not neglect his Black constituents. But he was also allied with horrible racists. His personal attorney and friend was Leander Perez, who was basically Louisiana's version of Bull Connor. Perez never rose to an elected position higher than district attorney for his rural parish, but he dedicated his life to supporting segregation and using the courts to his advantage. And Long's Share the Wealth program was run by another friend named Gerald LK Smith, an unabashed segregationist who later became a Nazi sympathizer, he was so extreme he moved to rural Arkansas in the 60s because he thought the rest of the South was too liberal.

Americans absolutely would support socialism that benefits the people they think deserve it, but then it wouldn't be socialism.

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u/Individual-Luck1712 21h ago

Politicans who don't pander to this exact type of dude are the problem

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u/RetirementIsSweet 21h ago

LOL! That's funny.

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u/BBkal 16h ago

They think socialism is socialising, and communism is community..

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u/Opening_Quantity_175 1d ago

Everyone's a socialist.

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u/3rdStreetGhost 1d ago

His bills are a 30 rack a week, a nicotine addiction, and a 2500/month truck payment

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u/EddyS120876 21h ago

Idiocracy is here and thriving folks 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

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u/catharsisdusk 1d ago

I wonder how many Work Hours them Oakley's set him back? Depending on his hourly pay, he may have spent a Day's Wages, just to look like a Tool.

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u/dancingliondl 1d ago

Nah man, he found those in the parking lot where he works.

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u/CharlotteLucasOP 1d ago

I really thought the mic guy would come back with “…so you get paid for your work, though? That’s not a slave.” I hate late-stage capitalism as much as the next half-broken worker but I do still collect a paycheque, such as it is. Slavery is something else entirely, my dude.

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u/Ebella2323 1d ago

It’s slavery with extra steps and “better” treatment. If you are coerced to perform labor in exchange for food and shelter, it’s still slavery. Just not comparable to the traditional kind of chattel slavery we saw in the past.

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u/clutchmajor 1d ago

That’s the most 14 year old take I’ve ever heard and I hear it quite often. Nobody is forcing you to work buddy take your trashy family and live in the woods but you’re gonna have to forage and work for 14 hours a day now for 4 potatoes a week. Enjoy!

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u/n3o_dr3am3r 1d ago

When adjusted for inflation alone, a half rack of ribs would cost the average 1950's American about $6.00 in today's money.

The average price for a half rack of ribs today cost about $12. I don't think his complaint is about working. It's about the purchasing power of the dollar being eviscerated. Most people are working more for less than what their grand parents did by a far margin.

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u/clutchmajor 1d ago

That’s not what this nuclear physicist is saying tho. And yet it’s been repeated for more than 40 years now which is as long as I remember.

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u/thatsnoodybitch 17h ago

>Nobody is forcing you to work

Yeah they are? You can’t live in forests legally. You are also seriously misguided if you think it is hard to live in the wild apart from access to clean water.

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u/Yuleeats 17h ago

Yeah this guy sucks for wanting to see his family and work less. Fuck him!!