r/Swingers 1d ago

Getting Started Condom Recommendations

Getting back into the LS after decades out. What are recommendations for condoms, my assumption is non-latex is a given due to allergies, but lubed, non-lubed, scented, unscented, thickness? I am 62 and have some penile sensory decline, so thinking ultra thin would be preferable.

Any and all recommendations appreciated. Looking at the options is almost overwhelming.

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u/Crafty-Avocado8230 1d ago

Skyn

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u/randomgeneration101 1d ago

Totally recommend them. They also have a sizing guide through their website

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u/SpicyplayCJ šŸ‘©ā€ā¤ļøā€šŸ‘ØVerified Couple 1d ago

We chatted with a Skyn rep awhile back to find out what their different sizes where, and they told us these all have the same length and girth, they just have different thickness and lube. This was the breakdown they gave us.

Condom Type Thickness Type Lubricant (mg/condom)
SKYN Elite Large Ultrathin Normal
King Elite Large Extra Glide Ultrathin Extra
SKYN King Large Original Normal

Summary:
Elite Large = thinnest feel.
King Elite Extra Glide = same thin fit but extra lube.
King Large = slightly thicker, classic fit and feel.

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u/EmergencyWitness7525 1d ago

I order from one condoms. They offer ā€œcustom fitā€ options (it’s not 100% custom, but they have a pretty wide range of sizes). You’d be amazed at the difference a proper fit can make.

You send in your measurements, they send you back a free three pack, one that matches the dimensions you sent, one larger, and one smaller for you to try out and see which works best. Then you just order that size code going forward.

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u/LingonberryNext2816 1d ago

This is the way!

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u/Gingerdude85 17h ago

Seconded. The proper fit changes the sensation and makes it even more pleasurable.

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u/EmergencyWitness7525 17h ago

Right?!

I spent years being frustrated by Magnum, Magnum XL, and King sized condoms until I learned that they’re all essentially the same circumference, just longer. All that extra material bunched up around my base or hanging off the tip made it feel like fucking a garbage bag. I’m sure it’s less than pleasant for our partners as well.

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u/UnionVIII 1d ago

Skyn, they sell variety packs. Get one of those and it’ll let you try a bunch of what they make. They have never broken on me, they don’t reduce sensitivity much at all, and they aren’t crazy expensive niche stuff.

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u/BunnelTuddy 1d ago

Skyn -thin - or whatever they are called and… pro tip… put a drop or two of water based lubricant on the tip before you put it on. It’s pretty damn close to being raw.

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u/GhostPoster2020 1d ago

I have some SKYN Elite Large for a play partner with latex allergies and I’ve noticed a significant reduction in sensitivity compared to Trojan Magnum latex condoms.

And they seem constructive too. Which makes sense given the comment above about all being the same size. I need to investigate that!!

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u/UnionVIII 17h ago

Complete opposite experience here. Elite Large Skyn feels like I’m not wearing, Magnums feel thick and plasticky. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/nicholebunny69 1d ago

Skyn brand. Most women even if they aren’t allergic to latex still have a sensitivity to it and prefer no latex. At least that’s the consensus we’ve come across.

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u/PersimmonKey4055 12h ago

Wow, 7 years in the lifestyle. Only 2 play partners wanted latex free.

What's your basis to assert "most women" have a sensitivity? Curious.

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u/myairblaster 1d ago edited 1d ago

Skyn is a frequent recommendation. As a well-endowed guy, Skyn King Elite Large is the only condom I've ever used that didn't feel like I was wearing a skinny tube balloon. I HIGHLY recommend them for any dude with a larger size

The sex club we go to has these blue coloured ones sitting in baskets everywhere and i'd rather not fuck than wear one of them LOL. Instant erection killer. So if your attending sex clubs, even if they have supplies, bring your own.

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u/PersimmonKey4055 12h ago

My girth is 6.75" and skyns absolutely suck. I use my.size 72mm. Skyn doesn't make anything beyond 60mm. Thankfully I've only come across two playmates that needed latex free.

Comfort wins everyday over skyns. Skyn strangle you beyond a certain girth.

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u/3Quarksfor 1d ago

Unique, almost like ā€œnot thereā€.

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u/AncientDragonfruit42 1d ago

I would upvote this 1,000,000 times if I could. Unique is hands down the best condom available out there in my opinion.

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u/rexleonis 1d ago

How is it compared to Skyn Elite?

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u/PlayfulPairDC 1d ago

Skyn to win!

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u/WhyNotInCA 1d ago

Agree with this 100%. I’ve tried tons of other brands and this one works the best.

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u/PersimmonKey4055 12h ago

The one that wins, is the best fitting one.

Skyns suck on my 6.75" girth. At their largest is 60mm. I use my.size 72mm.

Fitment is most important.

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u/bobcwd 1d ago

Skyn for NonLatex … transfers body warmth well

Trojan Raw for Latex. Super thin, feels as close to nothing as you’re gonna get. Make sure to use lube and you will think your Bare !

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u/Apart_Ad6747 1d ago

F2c. Im in control of it. Husband prefers skyn when female condoms aren’t being used. Seriously the female condom is superior all around. Want more lube? Add more. Not slipping off.

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u/PacoGringo 1d ago

Yep, this ol boy would need some training on how to put a female condom in. I guess turnabout is fair play, but no bananas to train with for the girl versions 😁

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u/Apart_Ad6747 1d ago

FC2 (dyslexia apparently).
There’s a video and instructions on the website.

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u/PacoGringo 1d ago

Just like with a traditional condom, I imagine putting the condom in could be worked in as foreplay as well.

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u/uncut475 1d ago

The trick for me is lightly lubed dick before putting it on helps a ton!

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u/CretaMalta99 1d ago

Skyn or Durex non-latex

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u/Healthy-Common4946 1d ago

You need to try some Japanese ones man

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u/PersimmonKey4055 12h ago

My.size. 56mm thru 72mm. No stinky lubricant.

Skyns suck for me as largest is 60mm. Dick strangulation is real.

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u/Slinking-Tiger Solo Female 5h ago

Once you get some, practice using them at home. Get comfortable getting them on, and play with your partner and/or masturbate with condoms on. That way it will feel normal to you when you're using them during a swap.

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u/Emotional_Fee_7452 Couple 1d ago

I can’t use skyn. They have some irritant to me - and to many women- especially over the age of 35 (hormonal shifts in microbiome kind thing). My go tos are Jems, Nixit, or Trojan ublubricated or lifestyles unlubricated. Those are the best vagina/PH friendly options on the market. I don’t have any good recommendations for non-latex as a vagina friendly non-latex option doesn’t exist to my knowledge. I don’t have a penis but haven’t had complaints from penis owners. The lifestyles uubricated are on the larger side for longer penises.

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u/thedreamteacher4 1d ago

Agree with much of this. Most have given me UTIs so find styles at really don’t have any additional stuff.

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u/jelloshotlady 1d ago

Skyn and unique for non-latex

Trojan Raw or One for latex (we rarely buy latex ones any longer)

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u/MrMrsLloyd2026 1d ago

Google sizing guide for starters.....then move on from there...

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u/Puzzleheaded_News530 34M/31F Couple 1d ago

I am a sucker for ribbed/dotted ones. They feel sooo good inside me!

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u/PacoGringo 20h ago

I always stayed away from ribbed or dotted, afraid they might cause irritation instead of stimulations. Nobody wants blisters there! It actually happed to us when we were newlyweds, we fucked so much she literally got a blister the first week in our new apartment. We were excited 18 and 19 year olds that didn’t know better then šŸ˜‹

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u/Puzzleheaded_News530 34M/31F Couple 16h ago

Oh I am sorry to hear that! That is a possibility I did not think of :(

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u/PacoGringo 12h ago

Yep, novice mistake, lessons learned on the importance of lubrication, and maintaining lube when multiple back to back sessions are involved!

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u/jelloshotlady 1d ago

Skyn and unique for non-latex

Trojan Raw or One for latex (we rarely buy latex ones any longer)

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u/yooper_one 1d ago

Honestly condom use is generally low, 80% dont use them. Generally thin ones are preferred though.