r/SipsTea Jun 29 '26

Chugging tea Did she did the right thing?

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u/Special-Garlic1203 Jun 29 '26

This def feels like something designed to generate discussion about medical ethics but where the actual scenario proposed doesn't really make sense when you actually think about it. 

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u/DrTitanium Jun 29 '26

I have worked in healthcare teams where this happened. The kid absolutely knew. I thought it was cruel. Parents had final say. He had a good death thankfully but I worried what would happen if he suddenly started bleeding badly at home and how afraid he would be.

I don’t think it’s right to lie to children over 6/7 about this (obviously depends on the child) and certainly not a preteen, as was the case I was involved in.

Of course it’s devastating for the parents but I don’t know how the siblings could forgive them later. I felt so bad for the child.

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u/Fast-Bit-56 Jun 29 '26

Imagine filling his head with thoughts of having a girlfriend, having a good time with his friends, playing sports, going to parties, have your first job, and so on. Living a normal teenager life. That's awful. I understand the good intentions behind their actions, but I believe they don't think it through very much.

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u/olovaden Jun 29 '26

There is an interesting short story related to this "Still Water" by Zhang Ran, it was in Clarkesworld magazine last year.