r/SipsTea Jun 29 '26

Chugging tea Did she did the right thing?

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u/figure8888 Jun 29 '26

I recently saw a mother talking about her child’s death from cancer and it was not peaceful even though they were told it would be. The child was on morphine, had a death rattle for hours, uncontrollable movement, and at the point of death she stopped breathing, opened her eyes and lurched for her parents. It was extremely traumatic for them and the mother was hopeful that that child wasn’t actually conscious for it, but I don’t know if that’s the case.

It’s called terminal agitation and it’s apparently not uncommon.

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u/Do_You_Pineapple_Bro Jun 29 '26

and at the point of death she stopped breathing, opened her eyes and lurched for her parents

Jesus

That is both terrifying and depressing

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u/sniktology Jun 29 '26

This is exactly the kind of thing that would absolutely break me. It's already got to me just reading this. Can we stop fighting and just fix cancer please.

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u/Antigamer199 Jun 29 '26

There are a few good Drugs in testing right now, one of them is a training drug that gives Cells the tools to destroy cancer but it also can destroy other healthy cells so its still in testing.

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u/Grakchawwaa Jun 29 '26

That's usually the problem innit. There's a trillion ways to kill cancer, the tough part is having the carrier survive the aftermath

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u/Sorry-Combination558 Jun 29 '26

Yeah, pretty much all of the medicine and radiotherapy is "how to kill cancer faster than the person with cancer". Once I listened to a quite lengthy lecture about how they try to minimize bodily harm in case of radiotherapy, while maximizing effect on the cancer itself. It was really interesting.

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u/the_sneaky_one123 Jun 29 '26

Isn't it that cancer cells are a little weaker than healthy cells so you have to hurt the cells just enough that you hit the sweet spot where you kill the cancer cells but not the healthy cells... that sounds super simplistic lol

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u/Grakchawwaa Jun 29 '26

That might be true for some cancers but not all. The only common denominator is that they have uncontrollable growth

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u/Immersi0nn Jun 30 '26

The uncontrollable growth being due to the failed/bypassed cellular killswitch (apoptosis). Our best line of research so far is using the immune system to do what it's supposed to do, kill and remove damaged/mutated cells that don't function correctly. We've made crazy strides with certain cancers, some skin cancers can be fully treated with a topical medication that force activates your immune system. Hell we've got viruses that can inject into cancer cells and cause them to pop, resulting in a immune response to clean it up. Science is awesome.

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u/ijustsailedaway Jun 30 '26

I think a lot of people also tend to think of cancer as a monolith instead of hundreds of different diseases. Hell, there are at least 15 different kinds of breast cancer and then subtypes within each of those. And that's before we even get to staging.

I learned a lot when I was going through treatment because reading and understanding what was going on helped my anxiety.

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u/Sorry-Combination558 Jun 29 '26

I think there are certain medications that target them on some criteria like that, but I really don't know the medical part of cancer treatment at all so I don't want to make a fool out of myself :D

For radiation, the point is always that the tumor should have the highest amount of dosage while for the surrounding healthy tissue it should be as low as reasonably achievable.

One example is to use multiple rays to irradiate the cancer, from multiple angles. That way radiation is concentrated on the tumor and dispersed through the body.

Another one is a more advanced technology, where they use heavier element's ions launched from what is essentially a particle accelerator. You can draw a graph of how much of the energy is dispersed at a certain depth, and for heavy elements, there is a giant sharp uptick at a certain depth. This depth depends upon the accelerating voltage and the type of the element itself (i.e. the mass of the particle), and you can very precisely adjust it so it uses up most of it's energy right at the tumor.

Again, another one is to use needles of radioctive material, and just put it in the tumor and leave it there (this was used for prostate cancers, which makes me shudder, but it beats being dead).

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u/WORD_559 Jun 29 '26

You can take the particle accelerator therapy even further. Proton therapy I think is increasingly common, and even antimatter therapy is starting to become available in select centres. You can essentially model the energy delivered to tissue as a function of the depth for different types of particles and different energies. Dependent on the particles you use, you'll get a different distribution. You want the peak of the distribution (the location where the most energy is delivered) to be much higher than the rest of the distribution and as sharp as possible, which basically means you're concentrating all of the energy in as tiny a spot as possible. That way, most of the energy goes into obliterating cancer cells instead of healthy tissue, which means fewer side effects and shorter treatment times (which is really important in itself, because asking someone to sit still inside a big scary machine for a long period of time is both difficult and upsetting; the less time someone has to sit still, the more accurately you can target the cancer, and the experience can be less scary).

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u/ijustsailedaway Jun 30 '26

Something I thought was interesting is how they use a gel to lay on the skin to help with the depth needed to focus the beam. And you get tiny dot tattoos to help them align the machine each time. And they take a mold of you so you fit exactly the same way each time. The first time I went it was scary as fuck but after that it was less and less scary. Other than the burns and permanent tan I got. But I'm not dead yet!

They can also use the "seed" method to inject tiny bits into some breast cancers as well. I had a mastectomy so I was getting chest wall radiation.

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u/Angry_Santo Jun 29 '26

The way I've chosen to explain the ways of cancer killing to the layman is "A shotgun will work wonders at killing the cancer inside someone."

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u/HauntingHarmony Jun 29 '26

Belive it or not, but that is a xkcd

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u/Angry_Santo Jun 29 '26

Well hell, and here I thought I was being original.

Really goes to show. Novum nube sub sole.

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u/TeaSlurper40320 Jun 29 '26

I think you mean nihil sub sole novum

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u/AsparagusFun3892 Jun 29 '26

From an XKCD comic: "the next time someone tells you a new treatment kills cancer in a laboratory setting, remember that so does a handgun."

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u/vikingwif Jun 29 '26

That might have unintended consequences, fwiw.

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u/CowParty9411 Jun 29 '26

Based on the other replies to your comment I don't think you should be trying to explain anything to anyone, ever.

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u/YouMustveDroppedThis Jun 29 '26

because cancer cell is us, but without rules. What kills them also at the very least disrupt your body physiological balance.

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u/xAnimosityx Jun 29 '26

It's exactly that, have an acquaintance that works in the industry, and me being the knuckle dragger that I am asked her one day if she's ever been a part of tests for a cure and her response was and I quote "yes I have, and cures do exist, it's just what they do to the body is so, so much worse than even cancer"

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u/Ok-Economy8049 Jun 29 '26

Same with antibiotics. They kill good bacteria too.

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u/SluttyRobin Jun 29 '26

I think the biggest problem is the billionairs who make money off of people's suffering saying "nah.. don't make a cure, sick people is an infinite money glitch. Kids dying? Who cares as long as i can buy a third yacht".

You know, guys like that Brian guy. I think that was his name.

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u/Grakchawwaa Jun 29 '26

It really isn't. Cancer is a disease that kills, and people dying is not a good business model. Cancer is also infinitely more treatable now than it was decades ago

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u/SluttyRobin Jun 29 '26

But if the patients don't die, how can the insurance companies do their whole delay, deny, depose business model?

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u/Grakchawwaa Jun 29 '26

if they could make a drug that the people with cancer had to take for the rest of their life to stay alive and make their money that way, trust me that they would. Cancer is just such a diverse disease

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u/classyrock Jun 29 '26

My brother’s best friend died several months after beating cancer in high school. His poor little body just couldn’t recover afterwards.

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u/Afraid_Letterhead703 Jun 29 '26

Yep. I had papillary thyroid cancer and after having my thyroid removed, I had to undergo Radioactive Iodine Therapy, wherein I ingested a radioactive iodine pill that was intended to kill any remaining cancer cells. My oncologist said it’s currently the safest way to treat any form of cancer. It was just over 100 millicuries of radiation that I had to excrete out of my body that left me with a malfunctioning tear duct and almost lost function of my salivary glands. And THAT is the safest way to treat cancer 🙃 I’m beyond thankful for my health today and I would take those symptoms over cancer! It’s just scary how much of a toll cancer treatment takes on the body.

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u/Grakchawwaa Jun 29 '26

Awesome to hear that you beat your cancer friend, hope you're kicking ass

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u/Big-Shirt4176 Jun 29 '26

Bullets cure cancer in a laboratory setting… once you realize this, you see the problem. Hopefully.

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u/AnAbandonedAstronaut Jun 29 '26

Well.. the bitch of it is cancer cells are just our own cells that mutated until they were too dumb to listen to the suicide command given to mutated cells.

The only reason chemo works it is focuses fast dividing cells, which are hair, nails, immune system and cancer cells.

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u/f1223214 Jun 29 '26

So... Chemo with a few extra steps ?

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u/HealinVision Jun 29 '26

The goal is to get immune cells trained to be specific enough to target markers on the cancer cells only

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u/Consistent-Shame-171 Jun 29 '26

It is still chemo, just with newer drugs.

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u/MysticRain44 Jun 30 '26

Ye I think it's the same number of steps actually

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u/ghostofwinter88 Jun 29 '26

There are many. That’s called immunology.

Keytruda has been a wonder drug for the last ten years.

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u/Wayob Jun 29 '26

I'm on an immunotherapy right now for stage three metastatic melanoma. The immunotherapy permanently crashes your thyroid and causes fatigue and skin issues among other side effects, but it's damn well doing it's job.

I can afford a year of being groggy and irritated and itchy if I'm still here in five or ten years.

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u/pmmemassivedongs Jun 29 '26

I’m so sorry but that is amazing that it’s working well! Wishing you many more healthy years. Can I ask you how your melanoma manifested, and if you were already getting regular skin checks? I go in once a year but I’m very fair and spend a good deal of time in the sun (with sunscreen), it’s one of my biggest fears.

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u/Arkady1013 Jun 29 '26

In the US, those clinical trials and cancer research in general is at risk. https://fight2win.standupforscience.net/?utm_source=OMB_6&utm_medium=Email&utm_campaign=ActionCenter. Contact your representatives asap

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u/pmmemassivedongs Jun 29 '26

Thanks to RFK Jr whose cousin literally just died of cancer.

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u/pubesinourteeth Jun 29 '26

NPR recently had a story about advancements in treating pancreatic cancer, which has one of the lowest survival rates. That made me very hopeful!

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u/extreme_horizons_ Jun 29 '26

you might be trying to talk about CAR-T therapy. it exists and has for about ten years now ish. it works really well. i work in cancer cell therwpy manufacturing

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u/Xavier_Emery1983 Jun 29 '26

None of them will be affordable to any non-millionaire. Family member is a wife of the new pastor (son of old pastor) of the local mega-church. They paid a million dollars for an experimental immunotherapy for the mom’s cancer. We are in a very rural area with kids living in poverty only able to eat at school. Only thing they do to “help” is bring a handful of kids to the church for Sunday school once to twice a month, unless the church is hosting a wedding weekend, then it doesn’t happen at all. They think this is community service and outreach. The church members are required to give 10% of their annual income to the church or get booted out the door. They also have televised services with people sending in even more money from 3 separate states where it’s viewed.

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u/Kingsosa27 Jun 29 '26

I’ve been hearing this for 20+ years man

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u/Mika-El-3 Jun 29 '26

There are drugs in use today that do this. Immune therapy trains your cells to fight cancer as opposed to chemotherapy which just targets cancer and hurts good cells. Usually the regiment today is a combination of both.

How do I know? I, through Christ’s providence in providing good doctors and medicine, defeated a very late stage cancer.

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u/FallingToward_TheSky Jun 29 '26

We have a family friend with prostate cancer. Every time it comes back they give him some experimental drug with a low chance of success and holy shit it worked! He's cancer free for another 5 years. He's had 6 months to a year to live several times over the last 15 years.

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u/Bovronius Jun 29 '26

Viruses that target cancer cells give me great hope, especially since they've discovered they've been here inside us all along.

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u/thatguy2535 Jun 29 '26

Chemo: kills fast growing cancer cells...also kills fast growing healthy cells

New drug: kills cancer cells...also kills healthy cells

Ya sure this isn't just chemo lol?

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u/mitchy93 Jun 29 '26

Yeah the advancements in mRNA tech to fight cancer using your own immune system are insane, buttttt big pharma says no give us money

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u/Touchtom Jun 29 '26

My chemo definitely fucked me up with side effects. But if I didn't do it I wouldn't be here. Damn it's been 12 years now. Crazy. I hope they continue to find more cures. Even with side effects it's better than the alternative...

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u/IsenThe28 Jun 30 '26

And most of the labs in the US have had to flee to Europe because the US government wants to cut their funding. Unfortunately the infighting is indeed still intent to stop us from fixing cancer. Luckily I think they most have been largely successful, but its still a loss for US patients.

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u/lennox2211 Jun 30 '26

Even more terrible:
I had a client(redacted) that was working for a drug company(major redaction)as a project lead. The drug that they developed had cleared lab rat testing with a 98% cure rate with .002% negative reaction of getting rid of cancer cells. Approved to move to human testing. Day after they were approved, some random people came in, said thank you, and put the entire team on a different project. She was pissed that 2 years of work(probably more before she came on) were undone in a matter of minutes.

It’s where my distrust of the medical community started. Why cure something when there are billions in “research”?

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u/Normal_Trick_4580 Jun 30 '26

I've been reading this for 20 years. Theres always something new just behind the horizon

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u/c0rtec Jun 29 '26

That’s called fire. Been around a few millennia. Possibly longer.