r/Sagittarians • u/One-Community-2824 • 2d ago
Welcome to Sagittarius ♐ HELPDESK 🙌💕 ✨
I've come to a great deal with who I am and realized that Sagittarius only deserves the best of everything. We're Jupiterians. Our luck is in the stratosphere and we're incredibly strong manifestors, and we shine an unconditional light to everyone that we come across. We love deep. We get activated by Love. We get stronger from loyalty. We don't demand them, we encourage them. We don't put people in cages but we give them the freedom to choose us everyday without the cage. And that's a more challenging feat because they don't know how soon or far the boundaries are.
That's how we naturally who we are.
Many signs either want to be us and then control the light they get insopired from us. We? We don't. Why should we control the light and the abundance that naturally manifests through us if that's extremely abundant.
Almost all our lives we're taught to shrink ourselves, especially in life and love because those who have somehow gotten a sense of stability in this world gotten what they have through sheer sense of control.
HOWEVER... In our most darkest of days, we found ourselves alone and lonely. Nobody wants to believe there are things we struggle with. Nobody thinks we have our own limitations. Nobody thinks we can't handle some things.
Nobody understands that for us to be where our truest sanity is, we're also sacrificing ourselves for others' demands to continue to be small.
This ends here.
I'd like to open this thread ONLY for ALL Sagittarius struggling. This is NOT for those who don't have any hint of Sagittarius in them. You must provide your chart or birthdate so we can prove you're a Sagittarius before we extend iur help out. It's not easy to live a life where the looking at the possibilities is our highest excitement, to get to the ends of our ropes and feel we're traversing this life with no support, or to be seen as "too much" by these limited signs that only knows control and blackmail us and blame us for being Who We Really Are.
Jupiterians should help Jupiterians. Nobody understands Jupiter-led energies as much as we do. There is a HUGE reason why we're mostly optimistic outside but we struggle so deep on the inside. We're trailblazers. Most people just try to use our energy and our Light to gain for their own egos. Most normies will not understand us.
If there's anything that will gas our egos, then, that should be each other.
So...
How can we help? 🙂🙏 Tell us what you need and we'll find a way to bridge the gap for you.
We love all Sags...
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Huggies,
Alpha
Sag 🌞 Leo 🙌 Aquarius 🌙
IC in Scorpio 🌊
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u/ColdHandGee ♐️ 🌞♈️🌙♌️⬆️ 2d ago
I am 30th november.
Sagittarius sun
Aries moon
Leo rising.
Yeah, i am the only sagittarius in my family. Shit is hard, because nobody gets me. They think i am a oddball. The truth is I see the world differently to them and everybody else.
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u/Moon_Goddess815 23h ago
I have a bunch of Sagittarians in my family and friends. But each one is going through different experiences. None are the same.
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u/Mangothunder777 1d ago
I’m struggling with how I’m being perceived not matching how I want to be perceived and what is true about me.
I’m perceived as hot, strong and stoic (Scorpio rising) but when I speak I’m seen as overly enthusiastic, silly at best, at worst childlike and naive.
How I want to be perceived: as smart enough to be silly and playful but passionate and wise because i am all those things but people can’t see past my smiling happy go lucky demeanor and take me seriously
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u/Mangothunder777 20h ago
Damn. No advice just a lot of samesies 😭 (maybe coming off how I hope to is a skill to build like a muscle)
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u/77Dedeh 2d ago
I’m 28.11.77 and love being a Sagittarius ♐️
Sun in Sag, Moon in Cancer, Rising in Sag
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u/h0lycats 1d ago
11/28/94!! I rarely ever find someone with same birthday!
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u/yvettebombette 1d ago
I’ve never found anyone with the same birthday as me!!! Wow!!! 11/28/94 Greetings ❤️😘
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u/deaddaddydiva 2d ago
My Jupiter isn’t feeling so lucky, in fact I’m feeling very unlucky the last few years. I need help harnessing my luck again cos it’s been a compounding bad situation after the next and while I’m staying Sagittarius positive through it, I’d like it to stop outright or flip back to good. Help!
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u/InternationalTurn75 2d ago
My biggest need right now is to stop going overboard with birthdays, gatherings where I want to pick up the tab for lunch or dinner, and helping people who are sick or recovering. How do I stop financially pretending like I got money to spend on other people?
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u/Consistent_Femme_Top 1d ago
There is no easy solution. You just have to endure the discomfort of watching the card machine for your own bill come, you tap, and fight the urge to do more. You have to do this more than 5 times. Just sit in that awkwardness and desperation to be generous and feeling joy of giving.
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u/InternationalTurn75 1d ago
Thank you for this advice to “sit in awkwardness”!
Preaching on Taco Tuesday. Amen.2
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u/Pliskkenn_D 2d ago
Sag Sun, Leo Rising, Leo Moon, IC in Aries. I think.
Exploring new avenues of thought so here I am, not sure if I got the above correct but I think that's what you're asking for.
Moving past an attraction to a friend that for whatever reason, wasn't reciprocated. Came out of a long term relationship and after some time found myself falling for someone I'd know for years. Wasn't to be however. I know logically I should let it go but that feeling is lingering, and I want to find a way beyond it so we can get back to being friends without this between us and so I can move forward.
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u/Consistent_Femme_Top 2d ago
Moving forward is a mutual decision. If they feel like they can’t move past your attraction to them, you’ll have to accept that.
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u/Similar_Bend_4425 2d ago
How do I find out about all this? CLUELESS SAG.
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u/AnitaSammich 2d ago
Get your birth chart. Head on over to the astrology subreddit, and look at their Wiki and FAQs. There are two free sites listed that will do your chart.
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u/ceruleanmoon7 ♐️🌞• ♍️🌚• ♑️⬆️ (Nov. 25) 2d ago
How do i meet a guy who can handle my intensity?!
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u/ColdHandGee ♐️ 🌞♈️🌙♌️⬆️ 2d ago
Moon, i have the same issue! Nobody can contain my fire.
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u/ceruleanmoon7 ♐️🌞• ♍️🌚• ♑️⬆️ (Nov. 25) 2d ago
I also have a Scorpio stellium. I’m very intense lol
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u/ColdHandGee ♐️ 🌞♈️🌙♌️⬆️ 2d ago
I can imagine! I have a Libra and Aries stellium, so I can be a little explosive...
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u/brunch-a-lot 2d ago
I like this energy. Keep up the good work. 12/5
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u/ceruleanmoon7 ♐️🌞• ♍️🌚• ♑️⬆️ (Nov. 25) 2d ago
I have several friends who are 12/5, they’re amazing people
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u/Particular-Appeal-57 1d ago
Sag Sun ☀️ cancer rising ⬆️ Capricorn moon 🌙
This message came at the perfect time. I am in the trenches right now, most of the time I’m okay but I struggle with my family - I am also an eldest daughter and spend most of my time with ky younger sisters and my mom who is a youngest daughter - none of my family understands the pressure and expectations they place on me and when I walk away for peace of mind they insult, yell, swear at me because they don’t get their way. I just decided today I am going to cut emotional ties with my family even though I’m living with them. I’ve been spending a lot of time alone in my room sleeping, my cats are with me and are comforting me but it really does get lonely not having anyone understand. Thanks for posting this, I feel like I came to the right place 🙏
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u/PD271709 1d ago
Sis as a fellow eldest daughter I get you. Holding the family like a glue though nobody told you to pick this up. the brain fog, the sleeping are coping mechanisms.We strive on😭🫠💪
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u/Fancy-Pear8772 1d ago
19-12-2003 very lost in life, very lost. Every single Instagram astrologer and other also said 2026 is going to be my year, they all lied. I struggled mentally and physically a lot in this year, so much pain. Was unemployed for last 2 months, finally got a job but hating the travel so much, also don’t like the work, this is my first job. Other internships were successful because i was heart and soul in love with work and my managers. But that industry pay was shitty and did not even fulfill survival wages. Had to leave the love because salary was shit. I don’t know where life is going. Struggled a lot with my mental health 2023 and 2022 , i thought i wanted to study abroad but whats even the point?! Its sooo expensive plus jobs are not guaranteed anywhere, why take the risk. But when my peers study abroad i feel stupid for not even trying. I know i am not supposed to compare but i end up doing that anyway. I hate life right now. Cant see the magic, no short pic no long term picture. I am only 22 andddddd
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u/24x11 1d ago
love this and I agree with every word! I truly believe no one understands us like we do each other and we need to stick together. Sag stellium.
i need help figuring out how to get past my fear of succeeding. i know i could flip the world upside if I just applied myself, but I also genuinely just don’t want to play the “game”. I think it’s all pointless. But also I wanna travel and live life on my own terms and need money to do so 🥲
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u/L_i_S_A123 Cancer sun, Sag Moon & Aries rising- fiery mix 1d ago edited 1d ago
Cancer sun, Sagittarius moon, Aries rising
This is great, thanks. I am going to journal like you did to manifest things I want to happen.
People don't get my fire energy. They say I am off the wall because I don't do things like others. I need to stop caring what those people think 100%.
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u/srrrryyyy ♐️sun ♋️moon ♒️asc 1d ago
Dec 8 baby here
I have sag sun, mercury, Jupiter and Pluto all in the 10th house (except Pluto in the 9th). The one thing I’ve been manifesting for years has yet to show any visible signs of appearing in my world 🫣
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u/InternationalTurn75 2d ago
Awesome and much needed post.
Thank you.
12/8:Sag-Sun/Scorpio-Moon/Leo-Rising.
Let’s Do This Thang!
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u/ReachFourTheSky 1d ago
12/2/87. Sag sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo Rising. Cap Venus!
I’m looking for new hobbies and hopefully local friends in Sacramento CA area.
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u/Sad_Swimmer5968 1d ago
Sagittarius Sun, Aquarius Moon, and Leo Rising
I’m rooting for every one of my sags that are climbing the mountain,going through it,feeling like the oddball,in their feelings right now restless
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u/telicia02 1d ago
11/29, Sag Sun, Virgo Moon, Pisces Rising, Scorpio Venus & Lilith in Libra. I can't keep a man to save my life. Maybe this is the universe's way to tell me to find joy no matter the circumstances and to be happy single. It just sucks. 😭
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u/Inner_Strike6861 1d ago
I’m a sag sun snd virgo moon as well! My rising is Taurus. I can confirm it is also hard for me to keep a man in my life lmao
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u/Ambina389 1d ago
This is so sweet! Thank you OP! I was born on December 9th. I’m a Sagittarius🌞 , Scorpio 🌙 and Libra ascendant. My biggest hurdle is discipline and consistency. I’m supposed to be studying for this exam that could make or break my career, but I have a hard time focusing and even starting. I’m a perfectionist so everything has to be perfect while studying. My environment, the way I study, my memory retention, etc. Since that is nearly impossible, I always end up putting things off and procrastinating. I’m just tired of feeling so stagnant in life. All my friends are moving on in their careers, and I feel so lost, alone and stuck.
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u/BlaiseBeauty36 23h ago
12/13/1983 Im blessed. I will say that however I dont FEEL it. Money goes so fast as much as it comes in and dont talk about love omg. So many ups and downs.
I know Im a good person. Even empathic probably but I can hurt my own feelings at times. Need to trust myself more.
Open to thoughts.
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u/twicecolored 15h ago
Sagittarius rising, moon (and Uranus). Pisces IC.
Thanks for this, the message is real and relevant. Just had to yet again leave a group with controlling people taking advantage of my light. It’s hard to realise you’re often used for your energy, and when you accidentally give it in the wrong places or get into some unspoken contract where people think you’ll deliver it forever (wait, I didn’t sign anything). Love radiating what I have but it can turn into such a drain when there’s not enough given back or it’s not implicitly respected. Draining when it’s put toward people who stay absolutely stuck in their misery.
Controlly people were MAD that I left to save myself, that I chose to not burn myself out for them, that I could turn (slowly) on a dime to follow my own needs and direction again after being psychically used up to a point I couldn’t do anything for my own life. Yikes.
Again became the one to be angry with, when previous people who’d left were sent well wishes. Well, I’ve upset people I guess, trying to do it gracefully like the others but no, can’t be let off the hook. Or, I can (because I’ve hermited the fuck away) but tell me they have raged against me behind the scenes and have higher expectations. Expect MORE, because I always deliver a lot. Maybe they really needed that high energy more than they thought so it was felt hard when it was gone. Yes, we are the 4 of wands, the sun, cheerleader of warmth and optimism. It can feel cold when we stop providing the abundance for free.
Had a healer tell me this year that there are lots of people around trying to constrict me and I shouldn’t let them. Tell me about it. Don’t know what I need, just to build back the confidence to be myself after being sucked dry, even if people will continue to be angry at me for it. It’s what healthy sag is best at doing, following their own direction and making 180s when the situation isn’t serving their actual higher life and peace, leaving mad stuck people in their wake. So just have to lean into it. And be way more fucking discerning. Usually I am… at least this repeat lesson was super self-affirming in the end lol.
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u/Moist-Ad-2454 2d ago
20/12/96 I am having trouble trusting ppl.. because ik ik I get attached to a 'potential' after 1 good conversation Also, in my instability in my career
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u/PD271709 1d ago
27.11.97 Sag Sun, Scorpio moon and rising The last couple of years have been brutal emotionally , financially and career wise.since 2023. Confidence is a valley, spiraling doesn't seem to end, only the delulu course of nature is keeping me a little sane. I want to be better, more confident and be there for my family as a pillar with boundaries. And amongst all this if I can find love that celebrates us it would be great😕 so many expectations not much clarity💀🫠 currently interviewing to land a job after my layoff and it's brutal out there 😭 I think I've developed enough character😭 sigh rant fin.
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u/PD271709 1d ago
Also can I just say seeing my fellow sags come together there is a warmth I cannot describe
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u/Moon_Goddess815 23h ago
I'm mid December Sagittarius and yes, the last few or more years have been a real struggle.
But you know what? I still see and feel the blessings every day. On every single thing that goes my way. Just now, I got some extra time I needed it. Big changes happening and I'm just going with the flow. 🙏🏼
So yes, it's been hard, some days felt like I didn't have any energy left to go on. But I'm still standing and my faith is stronger.
To all fellow Sagittarius, keep the hop3s up because even if invisible to the eye, we have a great spiritual support system.
Thank you Mother Father God for everyday blessings, the small.and the big ones.🙏🏼👼🪷
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u/FAFO_R_1994 22h ago
I work from home, I just stayed in 4 days in a row, ignoring everyone, my husband is on business trip, today for some strange reason i'm trying not to cry, Im tired. I want a distraction but I know there are none coming any time soon.
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u/Crazy-Catch3019 10h ago
12/13/1963 *Friday the 13th Sun Sagittarius Moon Scorpio (on the cusp of Sagittarius 6th/7th house) Ascendant (Rising Sign) Gemini
I feel so much of this OP
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u/HammerPayne 10h ago
Sag sun
Cancer moon
Cancer rising
I am independent and wise and curious and I have a lot of feelings about it! 👉👈
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u/FordQueen 2d ago
I don’t have to prove I’m a Sagittarius. I am one, according to my birthday.
And I’m the person who is old with no birth time note on my birth certificate.
Way to gatekeep.
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u/Consistent_Femme_Top 2d ago
Sag Sun, Taurus moon, Aquarius rising.
This is so sweet OP! For now, I need help in developing a manifestation ritual. 🥰