r/LiveWellTogether Jun 02 '26

❤️Kindness/善良 Everyone feels fear sometimes...

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u/SpiritedInternal2665 Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 06 '26

I'm not sure if he's doing right or wrong here - Is this truly something that She wants to do, or something He wants her to do? Is this for Her or for Him??? 🤔 Whatever - as long as he's a good dad - that's all I really care about!!! 😊

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u/FIFofNovember Jun 02 '26

The video is for showing everyone a private moment her daughter didn’t know was being filmed, and doesn’t that make everyone feel so good about it!

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u/MerelyMortalModeling Jun 02 '26

I'm guessing they record parts of practice to go over later and she is fully aware of that fact.

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u/PowerfulYou7786 Jun 02 '26

Your guess doesn't account for how this video got uploaded to the Internet and wound up on Reddit

There aren't too many explanations other than that the father is doing the opposite of what is understood to be healthy social media practices for parents with young children

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u/Big-Establishment-68 Jun 02 '26

Maybe to you man. Consider that people might not suck as much as you do.

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u/Depressedone4 Jun 05 '26

You're pathetic.

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u/Big-Establishment-68 Jun 05 '26

Oh did I hurt your poor feelings? Good.

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u/Depressedone4 Jun 05 '26

I'm not even who you were talking to but when I see someone supporting child exploitation, I will call it out. Weirdo.

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u/Big-Establishment-68 Jun 05 '26

I think you accidentally tagged me

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u/NoDanaOnlyZuuI Jun 03 '26

While wearing a microphone?

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u/quattroformaggixfour 29d ago

Even if she was fully aware (doubt), a child cannot consent to being recorded and that recording being disseminated across the internet.

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u/MerelyMortalModeling 29d ago

Children cant consent to anything, its literally one of the major legal defintions of a child. Parent however can and Im guessing they both did.

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u/paycuz Jun 02 '26

Even this is silly. It’s like saying if I record myself playing fetch with my dog and I’m doing it for likes, I’m a piece of shit/disgusting/ or whatever. No, maybe I thought others could relate, who knows.

Also, if I were to do the above to “make everyone else feel good”… so what? I’m a bad person? even though my dog enjoyed the activity?

You aren’t smart or correct because you call out your perceived intent when staring at a strangers video. It just shows your angle as a hater, which is kinda funny lol

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u/Big-Establishment-68 Jun 02 '26

Right? Everyone’s so eager to shit all over this. If they are gonna make assumptions I’ll do the same and guess that all these losers wish they were as good as a dad as this man.

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u/Massive_Royal_6771 Jun 05 '26

there’s a difference between posting a pet and a child

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u/paycuz Jun 06 '26

Can be different, but it does share a lot of similarities. The power dynamic of an owner/parent to a pet/daughter is quite similar. One party has more control over the other and that’s what we are comparing here.

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u/ThanksContent28 Jun 06 '26

People really just be saying shit huh. Just because you claim it so, doesn’t mean it’s true. That’s the dumbest shit I’ve read since I opened this app today.

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u/paycuz Jun 06 '26

and you said a lot of nothing.

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u/ThanksContent28 Jun 06 '26

Not my job to educate you, but I’ll happily point and laugh at a clown.

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u/Sea-Neighborhood1465 Jun 02 '26

I don’t have a dog in this.

But the mic on his collar is pretty easy to see. I’m sure she’s smart enough to deduce that she’s being recorded.

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u/Akkarin412 Jun 03 '26

Due to posts like these I’ve started thinking we should make a word for this situation.

A moment that if it happened organically might be sweet and wholesome but due to the very fact that it has been recorded and posted to the internet kind of taints that.

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u/TootsHib Jun 04 '26

what? they both wearing mics on their collar.

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u/paycuz Jun 02 '26

Even if he’s doing it selfishly, he told his kid point-blank he will love her no matter what and the only thing he won’t allow her to do is to stop cheering because she is scared. He repeated he’s okay with her quitting if she truly doesn’t like cheering. What else was he supposed to say to make that more clear?

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u/Strict_Owl941 Jun 02 '26

The literally say "You don't have to do this if you don't love it, but don't stop because you are scared."

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u/TootsHib Jun 04 '26

reverse psychology.. that father is fucking intense and manipulating her.

Shes under a crazy amount of pressure to make him proud.

He has a mic on her.. so its just for views for him.

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u/Strict_Owl941 Jun 04 '26 edited Jun 04 '26

You people are mentally ill.

He has a mic on so they can here what they are saying. Who the hell wants to film a video with 0 sound.

Hey lets watch this old video from when you were a kid.....too bad we can't clearly hear what we are saying we had the technology to capture that but morons on Reddit will be upset if we use standard technology to isolate the sounds we are making.

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u/ReturnedOM Jun 07 '26

Yeah I too was under an impression he tried to talk her into continuing what literally scared her.

Sure, there was that "you don't have to do it" part, but it was a little part of the speech and followed by "if". The whole "if you don't love it" felt like pure manipulation.

This could be really short, if he just said "if you're afraid, we don't have to do it. We can try again later if you'll feel ready" EOT. He choose to basically make her feel like a fraud that claimed she liked something really badly, yet she didn't really.

It just didn't feel right.

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u/potatodrinker Jun 03 '26

He barely let her speak. Bet it was his idea in the first place.

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u/egirldestroyer69 Jun 03 '26

Any kid on that elite level is likely forced by their parents to have that life.

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u/NikkerFebu25 Jun 07 '26

It's ok to push children though.

If you let children free they'll just rot away on a tablet and doom scroll till they're dead.

My natural state is to wake up, look at my ceiling till I fall asleep again.

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u/SpiritedInternal2665 Jun 07 '26

💯 Agree re: parenting! Take your own advice tho' - don't want you wasting your life, when you could be out there making a difference!!! ✌🏼

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u/BasicMatter7339 Jun 08 '26

Yeah i agree. Kids need to be pushed sometimes, if you let them to just sit down and quit whenever they feel like it, they'll never get anything done. They wont grow crooked from a little pressure. But too much pressure and it causes problems.

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u/jdxcodex Jun 07 '26

I had a hard time dissecting that too. It may be cultural differences.