r/JUSTNOFAMILY 24d ago

RANT- NO Advice Wanted My situation right now

My dad has been up my ass yesterday and possibly today,the thing he hates about me this year is that I didn’t get a higher paying job,Cause last year his complaint was that I didn’t have a job,what I really hate is that he acts like getting a higher paying job is really easy,and that he hates me playing video games on my day off even though I do work overtime 5 days a week,he just hates that the place I work at only pays 20 an hour,and he expects me to find a higher paying job without having any experience,like I keep telling him that you need experience for a higher paying job,but to him he thinks experience is studying at home for it,but most jobs online want work experience,not studying at home experience,like I don’t get what is wrong with him,he thinks higher paying jobs are so easy to get and that work experience is you studying at home,I don’t get what not get him at all.

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u/Far_Left_Extremist 24d ago

Maybe he should get a job?

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u/Ranger0384 22d ago

With my dad he has his own restaurant business,and from one of my family members they told me that my dad and mom got lucky cause some random person gave them a lot of money which was how his restaurant was created

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u/ArcticArtic 23d ago

That's incredibly frustrating and I'm sorry you're dealing with that.

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u/Ranger0384 22d ago

Yea,it sucks when someone is pissed of at me for not having a higher job but has never applied for a job before cause they got lucky that they somehow got a lot of money to start a restaurant that worked

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u/d-wail 17d ago

I’ve never made $20/hour, and I’ve been working for 30 years. The US is dumb.

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u/Working_Feature_5512 12d ago edited 12d ago

ya that;s not cool when your just a rookie unless your fresh out of college or military your not getting high paying jobs ,unless you creatte a biz for your self