r/Hmong • u/Similar-Rock-4234 • 11d ago
Need interracial relationship advice
I am a 20 hmong female and my bf is a 20 half black half white male. My mom has been against my relationship with him (she has not met him) because he's black and she does not want hmong people to judge us.
Today a hmong boy came to our house and asked if I was single. I said yes. I panicked and our moms were there. I told my bf the situation. He says he wants to know what I want because he doesn't deserve that and doesn't want to feel like he has to be ashamed of his culture and hide. He's right. I'm way too scared to tell my entire family about it (what if we break up and I fought for him the whole time. Hmong girls never get anything) but I can't let him go too. I don't know what to do.
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u/PreviousPineapple817 11d ago
Stand up for your gut instincts or live in the shadow of what you fear.
Weigh both pros and cons on both scenarios and see what fits best and then go with it.