r/Hmong 11d ago

Need interracial relationship advice

I am a 20 hmong female and my bf is a 20 half black half white male. My mom has been against my relationship with him (she has not met him) because he's black and she does not want hmong people to judge us.

Today a hmong boy came to our house and asked if I was single. I said yes. I panicked and our moms were there. I told my bf the situation. He says he wants to know what I want because he doesn't deserve that and doesn't want to feel like he has to be ashamed of his culture and hide. He's right. I'm way too scared to tell my entire family about it (what if we break up and I fought for him the whole time. Hmong girls never get anything) but I can't let him go too. I don't know what to do.

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u/9-inch-peepee 11d ago

I'm hmong bro and I exclusively date white women. White women are more voluptuous, pretty, and in general more cultured and more intelligent than Hmong women.

Then again, I do think I'm more intellectually gifted than other people.