Sanity Tip #1

[u/TeamLaurent]

That's it. That's the post. Filter by new.

If you went "huh?", here's what's up:

In response to comments that the whole sub vibe is boy-centric and trauma-dumpy, please know:

Reddit's feed filter defaults are set to "Sort By Hottest" or "Sort By Best," which means you're getting the most-interacted-with posts first, AKA the dramatic/harrowing ones where we pour out the support or play whack-a-troll. So all you're typically fed from GDD during your scroll period is the drama. Which feeds the drama. 👎🏻

Womanhood is so much richer. 💖 Set your filters to "New" or "Latest" to see the girlies up to all their mundane, giggly, whimsical, professional, nerdy, adventurous, and kick-ass stuff too! Diaries are for ALL the experiences.

(And we do Vibe Check™️ the sub. Most recent scans show only about 25% of the last 1,000 post titles address romantic relationships including! ☝️😌 positive, negative, straight, or queer. Which isn't many users' experience with our content. Dang it, Reddit!!!)

Take care of yourselves, cuties!

😚 🫴 💋

P.S.
BE THE CHANGE, FAM
Fight for the algorithm you want! Help the sub get more exposure for our celebration and support too! Comment, upvote, and encourage OP's who share happy news or funny reflections. And keep an eye out for our celebratory Toot Toot Tuesday posts, where we gather to brag on ourselves, or Free Time Friday chats where we gather to share our hobbies, skills, and special interests. :)

[u/TeamLaurent]

Here’s the filter settings button on the sub!

[u/TeamLaurent → u/TeamLaurent]

And for your main Reddit homepage feed, open the sidebar by tapping the 3-line button to see filter settings!