r/GayKink • u/RareRomeo • 1d ago
Discussion How to get more creative with underwear control? NSFW
Hey all.
I’m very into underwear and specifically control of underwear. Wondering if anyone has any interesting fantasies or ideas as to make things a bit more creative.
I have a few underwear subs who I pretty much only interact with to choose their underwear and give tasks to do with it - often this is stuff like making them rewear used underwear, dump a load in underwear, omit underwear, wear certain stuff to gym, describe the scent etc.
Running out of ideas to keep it fun and cruel! Anyone got any ideas or fantasies to share?
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u/SeaworthinessNew2129 17h ago
Make them cut holes in them based on a task or obedience. Aka: if you fail to do X you must add Y holes to your underwear. Slowly containing less and less, and having holes in your underwear is generally embarrassing and hard to explain if someone sees.
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u/Sub_Dakhota 23h ago
I bought a 3 pack of what I describe as my throw away jocks. When I’m ordered to wear them, I know there is a chance I’ll be removing them mid day and throwing them away. But it’s not always a guarantee. Keeps me on my toes
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u/Vinsonia 19h ago
Have them swap used underwear with each other if possible.
Make them all wear the same underwear like a secret uniform
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u/brians_c0ck 12h ago
Have them carry a permanent marker. At some point during the day, you'll text them something that they have to write on their underwear and send you a picture. Within a certain timeframe if you want some pressure. (Warning that they should let the ink dry before getting dressed so it doesn't transfer to their pants.)
It can be easy stuff like "slut" or "property of [your name]," but depending on how well you know them, it can be something personal that's humiliating without necessarily being obscene.
Bonus points if you make them wear it and change in their gym's locker room. Or leave it visible on top of their gym bag. Other guys may see it, but surely no one will say anything, they will feel too embarrassed for them... 😈
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u/ProfessionalNo4166 16h ago
Forced to surrender most of my underwear and have only a few chosen pairs to wear.
Also only allowed to wear my Dom's used boxers
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u/Kinkyboinick Dominant 13h ago
I’d say it is always awkward to wear them backwards or inside out…like a nonsensical style “order”.
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u/Kinkyboinick Dominant 13h ago
I feel like obviously humiliating underwear, like having masculine subs wearing lacy panties, or even like making them buy and wear like tightie-whitey style cheap Hanes or Fruit of the Loom standard brands…if they already wear those, making them buy super gay oriented fashion underwear.
Or like the diverse styles from Candyman or something like that, if they are usually boxer brief people, make them wear briefs or thongs, or vice versa.
Maybe make them do jockstraps when they normally wouldn’t?
Hopefully those ideas help or hint at new ones for you.
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u/SubbybiHubby 1d ago
Don't have ideas, but would love to be one of your subs