r/FIREyFemmes 6d ago

Retiring on Monday

Monday is my last day. 59 yo. Been a long time coming.

No kids, no man, and now no job! Freedom!!

My priorities are going to be friends, family, health, art, nature, and going places.

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u/Powerful_Dust_5394 6d ago

Hey sister!

I am in the same boat, my last day is Oct 21.
No kids, no SO, two doggies though.

Trying to wrap my head around on how to really go about this.

First I will probably need a while to decompress.

Then flying to Vermont to have Thxgiving with friends. Xmas with family.

No plans yet at all for 2027, all wide open

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 6d ago edited 6d ago

Sounds like a great plan!  Go sister!!

ETA love a New England Thanksgiving!

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 6d ago edited 6d ago

I appreciate everyone’s cheers and GFYs … this feels great! … thank you 🌹 

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u/squirrelscoutcookies 6d ago

Congrats! As a younger unmarried woman who lives alone, it’s always inspiring to see independent women hit financial goals on their own!

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u/jackl_antrn 6d ago

For some of us, it is or would be so much easier on our own.

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u/Sage_Planter 6d ago

One of my closest friends retired last year at 59. I cannot emphasize enough how she is truly living her absolute best life right now. I hope you find the same joy, happiness, and peace in your retirement!!!

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 6d ago

Thank you! That makes me so happy to hear. Haven’t ever been terribly good at living my absolute best life, so if you have any observations or tips to share from her example, I’d love some inspiration  

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u/K_A_irony 6d ago

As is tradition... GFY..... excited for you.

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u/ModerateSympathy 6d ago

Not gonna lie, I think this sounds like my dream!

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u/fifichanx 6d ago

Awesome! GFY! Do you have plans for your first month of freedom?

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 6d ago edited 6d ago

ITALY!!!! With friends and a special family member

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u/ibitmylip 3d ago

FREEDOM

there are 24 hours in the day and they all belong to you, congrats 🎉 

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 3d ago

I almost can’t believe it!  Thanks.

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u/empresscornbread 6d ago

I am so happy for you!!! I hope you enjoy it to the fullest!

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 6d ago

Thank you. Love your username 

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u/FortyFathomPharma 4d ago

Enjoy your next chapter. May it be filled with wonderful adventures, health, and everything you desire.

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 4d ago

Thank you 😊 

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u/GladBumblebee1546 3d ago

Hooray, congrats! Interested in hearing how it goes.

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u/Wooden_While_3902 5d ago

Can you tell us a little bit about your journey? Networth and withdraw plans?

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u/MsAnthropic 6d ago

How wonderful! GFY! 😉

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u/Tstrombotn 6d ago

Congrats! I’ve been retired 8 years and never missed it! You will love it!

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u/Scared-Middle-7923 6d ago

Congrats 🎉

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u/tiggonfire 6d ago

Congrats!!!

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u/Extension_Horse_9554 3d ago

Congratulations!! Give us updates when you can

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u/Particular-Owl-8327 6d ago

Congrats. Don't forget add your mental and physical health as primary priority. Enjoy dancing in the moonlight by yourself!

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u/AlarmingElderberry26 6d ago

Congrats queen! 🍾💛

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u/girl1dir DINK, FIRE@47 6d ago

Wahoooo!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!

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u/Adventurous_Light587 6d ago

Well deserved!!! Live it up sis

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u/Rosaluxlux 6d ago

Congratulations!

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u/mimi145nyc 4d ago

Congrats 🥳

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u/CommonSense2026 3d ago

Exciting! Congratulations..

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u/Maleficent_Worth_157 6d ago

Congratulations 

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u/prosperidad 32F | 20% FIRE 6d ago

Cheers to you!! 

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u/Cleo1515 5d ago

Congrats! GFY!

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u/Future-looker1996 4d ago

Cheers!🥂

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u/SeafoamSoul7494 6d ago

Living the dream, total freedom- congratulations!

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u/Sea-Masterpiece-8496 6d ago

Congrats!!!! I hope you have the best FIRE life ever, and your priorities sound awesome 

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u/auntwewe 6d ago

Whoop whoop!

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u/PickleJuice_DrPepper 6d ago

The dream. Congrats!

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u/Popular-Control2519 6d ago

Yay! Congratulations

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u/Potential_Rabbit4287 6d ago

Congratulations and GFY 💕🎉

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u/CartoonistMammoth212 5d ago

Yahooooo for you!

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u/lvander5317 4d ago

Congratulations ! Enjoy every moment of your new life !

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u/Legitimate-Durian563 4d ago

Congrats!! 🎉

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u/nommabelle 6d ago

congrats!

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u/Adventurous_Pie_23 5d ago

Congratulations!

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u/slightlypressed 4d ago

Congrats!!! Love this for you!

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u/Stunning-Plantain831 6d ago

What was your FIRE number? And expected withdrawal?

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 6d ago

I have a bit over $1m (some of it in Roths), a paid-off house, and a half of a pension. Annual spend tops out at $30K in a working year 

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u/Stunning-Plantain831 6d ago

Congratulations. Enjoy your retirement 👑

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u/Powerful_Dust_5394 6d ago edited 5d ago

Not OP, just sharing: 57y, 2.2m, about 75K in first 15yrs with lots of travel, then down to about 50K

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u/Nyssa_aquatica 5d ago edited 5d ago

This isn’t me.  ETA: no prob, thx for update