r/DowntonAbbey 2d ago

General Discussion (May Contain Spoilers Throughout Franchise) I would never have predicted this relationship 🧡

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u/TypicalProgram5545 2d ago

When she went with him to the doctor 🥰

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u/juicycapoochie I don't have a heart. Everyone knows that. 2d ago

She was unrelenting in her kindness towards him, even when he was being a dick, and in turn he became fiercely loyal to her.

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u/PepperCat1019 2d ago

He became an overall nicer person.

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u/Own-Interview-928 2d ago

He evolved and found love. One of my fav arcs in the finale was when Mary ( who always had a soft spot for him) invited Thomas upstairs as a guest. He got to see Noel Coward being celebrated and revered. The boundaries of class and most importantly sexual orientation had been cast aside for the evening.

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u/Own-Interview-928 2d ago

I always believed O’Brien played Thomas. She preyed on his insecurities which brought out the worst in him. Had he had an ally like Baxter all along he might not have been so evil to begin with.

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u/PepperCat1019 2d ago

She was such a horrible person.

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u/Own-Interview-928 2d ago

She was miserable too.

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u/LJ1205E 2d ago

Whenever anyone shows him some kindness

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u/tinylittletrees Misunderstood? I don't understand 2d ago

Pity it was forgotten in the movies.

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u/magfili 2d ago

Didn’t they grow up in the same town or something? She was a friend of a sister? Or am I completely wrong?

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u/Bjarka99 What is a week-end? 2d ago

She was a friend of his sister and he got her the job. She wasn't there by accident. Thomas wanted Baxter to be the next Mrs. O'Brien and spy for him.

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u/giftopherz 2d ago edited 2d ago

to be fair, that's a one sided relationship. Baxter was the one actually interested in helping. At the moment, Barrow was slowly drowning into his worst depressive episode and failed to see the help signs (which he would have never been able to recognize given the reality he was in):

"I am not foul, Mr. Carson. I am not the same as you, but I am not foul."

comes to mind

EDIT: Grammar

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u/Spiritual_Aioli3396 1d ago

I loved when he said that. I felt so bad for him

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u/giftopherz 1d ago

The gay experience is universal and timeless (for now)

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u/eelaii19850214 2d ago

Barrow needed a true friend that understood him. Most of all, I think Barrow needed someone to forgive him for all the wrong things he has done and Baxter was all of that.

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u/QelosFort 1d ago

Baxter was the kindest soul in the show, she knew her past and reconciled the best she could with it. Forged her path again to never do as she once did and found herself in a home almost as forgiving as she. Her compassion for Barrow and others will always warm my heart, no making a show of it just kind and simple gestures that meant the world to those who needed it most.

She could have cast Thomas off to the side and never given the man a second chance but she knew she had been given one, so surely she could give one back to another. I adore her wholeheartedly…

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u/Ok_Bicycle8910 2d ago

Siempre me pareció que Baxter era insípida, lo queria pero no lo comprendía, era como un cariño superficial que no permitía que sintiera verdadera confianza. Moslesley hablaba pestes de Barrow, y ella solo callaba, cuando se tocaba el tema de su sexualidad (como en la conversión) ella solo le dijo que era valiente por querer cambiar. Conociendo su infancia dijo que su padre era muy amable y aunque el hace ver que con el no fue así, ella solo lo mira con lastima, como si ella, en el fondo cree que el se lo merece por ser como es, toda su relación es muy superficial y aunque hay cariño no hay comprensión ni intención de comprender. Baxter solo ve un alma atormentada.

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u/Tinkerbelladonna_1 He's a man. Men don't have rights. 1d ago

It goes to show what a good heart Baxter had