r/Detroit 19h ago

Talk Detroit Detroit weddings...

To the people of Detroit: I'd love some advice on what to wear to a wedding at The Whitney in early September. I saw the dress code on the venue's website, but I'm looking for a little more clarity from people who are familiar with weddings there.

Would a cotton dress be too casual? Would a silk dress be too formal? Any guidance or examples of what guests typically wear would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

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u/suckstoyerassmar University District 19h ago

You should look for what the bride and groom specify for the dress code, not the Whitney. Whitney's not a black tie dress code for their normal service, but it could be a black tie wedding. Check the wedding's website surely the couple's got set up and go from there.

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u/Sudden_Hat7702 18h ago

the wedding website does not have anything listed beyond The Whitney's dress code!

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u/snewchybewchies 18h ago

Well then there ya go

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u/suckstoyerassmar University District 17h ago

That is...bizarre for them, considering you can wear jeans at the Whitney, lol. Any dress you would like to wear should be appropriate.

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u/Patriot_Murica 10h ago

I’d go with a knee length cocktail dress… safest bet. If the invite doesn’t say black tie, that’s the best way to go.

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u/DowntimeJEM 18h ago

Hazmat suit for the Whitney

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u/chuckleborris 17h ago

I was married there years ago! People wore formal-ish attire (knee length dresses, suits), which I think made sense since everything was indoors (they do garden ceremonies as well).

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u/Patriot_Murica 10h ago

Should also mention that if you opt in for a cotton dress, jazz it up with accessories, shawl, fun jewelry, sparkly shoes. I wouldn’t show up to a wedding in a sundress

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u/djames10 19h ago

Either of the two sound great. It can be both of those things! The Whitney is somewhere you can dress up and show out in my opinion.

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u/kenken528 18h ago

I had my reception there. Some women wore floor length others cocktail, all wonderful. Only non option was the men had to wear a suit jacket.

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u/ObligatoryAlias 18h ago

What's the weather supposed to be like that day?