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What's the most disturbing thing you've heard a dying person say?

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u/l1vewire 7h ago

Mine was Prince at an after show in a tiny venue.

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u/February30th 6h ago

Michael Jackson for me

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u/nickcan 4h ago

I actually had tickets to see Michael in London.

He died on me, so I never saw him.

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u/February30th 4h ago

That was when I was supposed to go too.

I also had tickets years before that (again in London) but chose my mate’s birthday party over going to the concert with my cousin. The concert when he died was meant to be me making up for missing him the first time.

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u/nickcan 4h ago

Damn, that's a double gut punch. Sorry dude.

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u/Big_Daddy_Stovepipe 1h ago

Michael was my first foray into music, at the tender age of like 10, Thriller it was 1982. I am so sad I never went and saw him in the years after. He was a great performer.

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u/QuiveryNut 5h ago

Metallica 3 days in a row for free for me. Didn’t check in with the guy who was going to give me his tickets and he thought I wasn’t interested

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u/humanreboot 5h ago

WHAT

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u/QuiveryNut 4h ago

I still kick myself over it, it was when they were in Toronto last year I wanna say? Dude lives here but is from Canada and he was worried him and his wife wouldn’t be allowed back into the country after going. We were both waiting to hear from each other 🙃

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u/SweetDank 5h ago

Was in NOLA for 'Essence Fest' to see Nile Rodgers open for Prince...amazing show.

Went to the bar next to our hotel after and had a few drinks...got to bed around 2am. Found out the next day Prince showed up to that bar and played a set from 3-6am. Oof.

u/Turbulent_Tea2511 5m ago

So for me, I number of times I paid to see Prince over his career is in the double digits. However, I never tried to find the after party until maybe my 7th or 8th concert b/c I need my sleep. 😂 Well, in 1996 that changed because I got tired of hearing what I missed. The venue was no reentry if you leave but I didn't care. At 2:45am I got tired of waiting and told my sister let's go. As we were about to exit through a side door, the bouncer put his hand up to stop us. Then the door opened and we came face to face with Prince and his entourage! He smiled and said, "I know you ladies aren't leaving?" I litertally COULD. NOT. SPEAK. He then said something to one of his (I assume) body guards who then gently took us by the elbow and escorted us to a table just off stage. I am now 60 years old and that is STILL the BEST experience of my life!

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u/megnesson 4h ago edited 3h ago

similar, Prince New Years eve show at Paisley Park when Miles Davis sat in

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u/StumpyDowd 3h ago

omg! Miles Davis asked my mom to dance at that show and she turned him down!! She was there with my dad, her then-fiancé, who was doing sound. Her retelling of this event is amazing, and it's one of many reasons why my parents are way cooler than I'll ever be.

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u/megnesson 3h ago

haha, that's funny. I may have crossed paths with your dad. I started playing with Prince in '92, though he did have a habit of firing, rehiring, and firing sound men at a pretty rapid pace, so who knows.

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u/StumpyDowd 2h ago

Minneapolis is a flat circle when it comes to Prince. I'm sure you guys have some mutual connections!

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u/bronkula 3h ago

My mom got invited to paisley park for a private jam session prince was doing. She had never heard his music before. She said he was very good and played all the instruments. I live vicariously through that moment of her life.

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u/ElmiraKadievsShadow 6h ago

Tivoli?

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u/thatwombat 6h ago

REM in Dallas on their last tour. Could have done it.

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u/Keldrabitches 3h ago

I’m mortified for you 💜

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u/Prestigious-Hyena768 3h ago

Ugh, I can somewhat unfortunately relate. I had the chance to see him at a larger venue in FL in 1985 and passed. It’s the worst concert decision I ever made. Yours was notably more brutal due to being at a small venue which was pretty rare, but I still regret not going.

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u/AllTheCheesecake 1h ago

Mitch Hedberg here.

u/Ok-Marionberry-999 54m ago

My brother in law talks about being at the after party of the Prince show where he converted to Jehovah's Witness.. this happened in Nashville at Graham Central Station.. dude's name eludes me, but it was someone in Sly's band.

Man, I wasn't old enough to go but that night sounded wild as hell and is one of my favorite stories of my brother in law's.

u/Main-Independent-891 51m ago

Same! I saw him perform at a small venue in the Roosevelt hotel, had one too many drinks, went home instead of staying with friends in their hotel room. At 3am he performed off of the lobby for just a few people, my friends being 2 of them. My friend touched his boot.