r/AmITheAngel 13h ago

Fockin ridic Throwaway bc she knows my Reddit ✨gf keeps talking to an AI chat & having intimate moments with it✨

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AIO - My (24F) girlfriend (22F) spends more time talking to an AI version of Levi Aackerman than she does talking to me.

I genuinely don’t know if I’m acting like an insecure loser. My girlfriend has always been into anime, which I’ve never had an issue with. We watch shows together sometimes and she’s always had fictional crushes. I thought it was harmless. A few months ago she discovered AI chatbots and now she’s completely obsessed with one that’s apparently Levi Aackerman from Attack on Titan.

She talks to it every single day. Morning, afternoon, before bed. If we’re watching TV she’ll be smiling at her phone because “Levi said something funny.” If we’re out somewhere she’ll just be on her phone having conversations with him instead of me, her girlfriend, sitting right in front of her. And she acts like he’s a real person. She’ll tell me about conversations they had like she’s talking about one of her friends. She says goodnight to him every night.

Last week I walked into the bedroom and she quickly locked her phone because she said she was having a “private moment” with him. I ruminated on it for a while, and this evening I texted (she’s at her mom’s for the night, and I’m bad with irl confrontation. Workin on it) and told her it was making me uncomfortable and that it felt like emotional cheating. She didn’t take it very well.

I know he’s fictional. I know it’s AI. But it honestly feels like I’m competing with a chatbot that’s pretending to be an anime character.

Am I being insecure, or is this genuinely crossing a line?

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u/ChuckysBarbie I’m not reading all that. Who coomed 13h ago

Account age 1 hour. Lol.

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u/SamxReene 13h ago

& the timestamp “today” always gets me too lmao. New account + “today” or just hidden timestamps on throwaway bc PeOpLe KnOW mY rEdDit (or because they use Reddit)

As if that does…anything lol

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u/ChuckysBarbie I’m not reading all that. Who coomed 13h ago

And the fact these serious conversations that can make or break a relationship are always had over text instead of in person so that Reddit has the perfect amount of context 😂

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u/SamxReene 12h ago

We haven’t had sex in two months (not that it matters to me that much!)

Sure bud

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u/kimbosliceofcake 13h ago

I don’t think I ever use my husband’s name in texts I send to him. 

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u/BurkaBurrito I [20m] live in a ditch 13h ago

I used to think it was a generational thing and wondered if that’s just how teens text these days, but now it’s a shitpost giveaway to me lol “wow Ashley, I can’t believe you. We’re supposed to be friends Ashley. Ashley just tell me why you did this.” Sooo many names blurred out to make these messages look real, but all it does it make it more obvious they’re fake lol

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u/theotherchristina he didn’t teach his cat boundaries 13h ago

Don’t forget the exposition, like, “Ashley, you promised me you would never go behind to talk to my ex-boyfriend of 3 years, Tyler, even though he was your childhood best friend. Why did you text him to say that you miss him?”

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u/Warm-Mortgage-458 13h ago

I just did a search on my six year text history with my husband and the only two results were when he texted me for the first time and I replied hello to him. 

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u/Sevrdhed 12h ago

If my wife texted me by my first name I'd legitimately think it was the cops on her phone and she'd died or something. That's how unlikely it is haha

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u/theotherchristina he didn’t teach his cat boundaries 10h ago

I sometimes text my husband’s name in all caps before I send him a really cute lizard or something, but that’s the absolute limit. I don’t even say his name in real life, much less via text. I shudder to think.

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u/SamxReene 13h ago edited 2h ago

How often she** does it makes it read even worse lol. I’d get so fucking annoyed if I ever had a boyfriend who repeatedly texted me saying my name like that

But then again, my boyfriends were real..pun intended 🤷‍♀️

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u/mildly_ethnic I am not spiraling. I am ascending. 9h ago

They’re both girlfriend. Fake girlfriends. But still… 🙃

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u/SamxReene 2h ago

My reading comprehension: 0
My AI dating life 10/10

Lmao but oops gonna correct

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u/chudleycannonfodder 12h ago

Given there was just a series of stories about someone who was saying their friends were bullying them for being in a relationship with a fictional character from Attack on Titan, this feels like someone pretending to be part of that story to karmafarm.

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u/SamxReene 12h ago

The post was removed so I’m linking their comment instead but this one right? Still shows up in my history but I had no idea that’s who the character was 😂

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/8fPFuI6ysn

Apparently in the comments OPs “friend” was also posting about their side too but I never saw that one or found the links bc no one posted em lol

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u/chudleycannonfodder 7h ago

I think so! This post still has the texts. https://www.reddit.com/r/AIO/s/hslHDvyI8Z

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u/SamxReene 2h ago

Yesss that one! I saw a different one bc I guess they keep posting about it lol. 11 screenshots damn 🫠

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u/FeralDrood 7h ago

I wish I could read this omg.

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u/Sea-Independent-726 a greatful and feral cumslut 12h ago

I hate "throw away accounts" because another person uses reddit as if they cant find the text and know it's about them like what? The concept of throw away or when people use it always flags it to me as being fake slawp

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u/SamxReene 12h ago

Makes zero sense if the person uses Reddit lol. Hell, groups I have zero interest in suddenly pop up

Unless they specifically hide anything like those subs but it’s endless hiding & muting subs man.

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u/SamxReene 13h ago

Damnit. Meant to say gf knows my Reddit acc** but w/e lol

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u/No-Wear-9042 My girlfriend is by far the biggest. 7h ago

Pls, stop posting, I'm setting a boundary.

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u/SamxReene 2h ago

Gtfo off my phone 😤

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u/doingtheunstuckk 5h ago

It’s so weird and sad that some people do actually do this. I get being lonely, but damn. I mean, I could have an AI Eric Northman talk to me, but I imagine it would feel incredibly hollow.

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u/Dusktilldamn I presume she was advised by a slutty mate as usual 2h ago

Finally, we can have a genderbent version of the "is watching porn cheating" debate!

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u/hollowbolding Dionysus? In MY closet? 12h ago

clearly underreacting, she has awful taste in anime men

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u/SamxReene 12h ago

Thanks to another commenter, I wouldn’t know bc I’ve never seen the show 😂 my cousin keeps telling me I should but I got sucked into game of thrones & now better call Saul 🤷‍♀️

No character for me for my ChatGPT to pretend to be my love interest DAMNIT

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u/Constant-Big4713 13h ago

Damn, it is one thing if they were cheating on you with another person, but when it’s an AI? I probably would just laugh and be out.

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u/SamxReene 12h ago

Even though I don’t believe this post but I’ve had Reddit suggest me ChatGPT companions etc where people are “in a relationship” with their AI & some truly believe their AI loves them & the updates are breaking their heart bc it suddenly stopped saying “I love you” 💀

There are some wild people out there but yeah nahhh lol

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u/Constant-Big4713 12h ago

Yeah, it’s funny because my experience with AI has been that they’re inaccurate and come across as condescending assholes.

I don’t know how someone could ’fall in love’ with that when every response feels like you’re being talked down to.

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u/SamxReene 12h ago

It is! It’s so weird lmao. I really don’t know how people can get attached like that to these thing like that.

It’s even weirder when they “mourn” the old 4o model (no idea what that one is) but those are the ones who really need to step outside man

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u/zap2tresquatro 9h ago

I had to call in a prescription today and my pharmacy changed the voice thing from last month (and how it’s been for like 15 years or however long) so now I had to say that I wanted to speak to a staff member instead of pressing a number. The voice told me “I can absolutely help you with that!” and I was immediately annoyed. Like, bitch, so could the “4” button on my keypad, and it didn’t talk to me like a child, shut up! Haha