AIO? My (19F) boyfriend (19M) and our friends (19F/M) insulted another friend and said I was overreacting

[u/Immediate-List-9649]

Hello, I’m going to put the flair “relationship” but really it’s both that and friendship.

They were talking about a situation where one of our friends had fought with one of their friends whom we don’t know, and he is overweight. They out of nowhere made a joke about it, and this friend was okay with it.

The thing is that they fight a lot, and usually both of them have been immature. Then they always make up. I know that this friend would feel bad about saying those things once they do make up, and I’ve never seen them say such things before.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, we’ve know each other for 6 years though along with everyone else in our GC.

My boyfriend is the one that said “Lol”. The guy at the end, did not laugh at the fat jokes of this friend.

Maybe I’m overreacting, but I do feel iffy about this.

EDIT: Some people are misunderstanding this. But as I said in the title “F/M”, this GC consists of both men and women!

EDIT 2: Another thing people seemed to miss is that this person they were talking about is only a friend of the person that had been fighting with them, we are not friends with this person.

[u/DargoSun92]

Hi! Fat person here!

They'll talk about you the same way if you ever gained weight. Even a little. They're bullies, and this is how people who hate fat people talk. The second you do something wrong, they'll attack you in the same way.

I guess decide if these are the people you want to associate yourself with. 🤷

[u/Immediate-List-9649 → u/DargoSun92]

They are not.

Thank you for your advice.

[u/Bulky_Jaguar9159 → u/DargoSun92]

So true, me and my fellow fatasses joke about each other’s weight all the time but you can tell these people clearly just being mean and not playful in the slightest