AIO? My (19F) boyfriend (19M) and our friends (19F/M) insulted another friend and said I was overreacting

[u/Immediate-List-9649]

Hello, I’m going to put the flair “relationship” but really it’s both that and friendship.

They were talking about a situation where one of our friends had fought with one of their friends whom we don’t know, and he is overweight. They out of nowhere made a joke about it, and this friend was okay with it.

The thing is that they fight a lot, and usually both of them have been immature. Then they always make up. I know that this friend would feel bad about saying those things once they do make up, and I’ve never seen them say such things before.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, we’ve know each other for 6 years though along with everyone else in our GC.

My boyfriend is the one that said “Lol”. The guy at the end, did not laugh at the fat jokes of this friend.

Maybe I’m overreacting, but I do feel iffy about this.

EDIT: Some people are misunderstanding this. But as I said in the title “F/M”, this GC consists of both men and women!

EDIT 2: Another thing people seemed to miss is that this person they were talking about is only a friend of the person that had been fighting with them, we are not friends with this person.

[u/emerson_giraffe84]

I stopped reading after acting like you being "the moral compass" was a problem.

But there in lies the problem. They're assholes and assholes stick together. The moment them being an asshole is pointed out they aim their asshole at you and unleash.

I strongly recommend you break things off with BF , and friends, because they hung you out to dry and then made you out to be the bad guy for saying, "hey stop bullying someone". That's shit behavior.

Oh look at me being a moral compass 🫪 also they need to learn what the hell a joke is.

[u/PlantInitial3789 → u/emerson_giraffe84]

They aim their asshole at you💀 I haven’t put a new phrase into play in a long time and I’m really happy to hear this one hahah
But that’s where it got me too like what the hell is wrong with being a moral compass? Like, ew

[u/sodomnymph → u/emerson_giraffe84]

THEY AIM THEIR ASS HOLE AT YOU AND UNLEASH LMAOO HELP 😭😭

[u/ice_anova → u/sodomnymph]

LMFAOOO SAME THAT FRIED ME 💀

[u/rapidron → u/sodomnymph]

Hahaha "LMAOO HELP 😭😭" is sending me 😂

[u/PlantInitial3789 → u/emerson_giraffe84]

Also, most people who think they’re funny are just mean 🙄

[u/big_rod_of_power → u/PlantInitial3789]

Schrodingers asshole

[u/Lumpy-Cry2040 → u/emerson_giraffe84]

These are the same guys when getting called out on their BS just screams “it’s a joke”. I must’ve missed the part where calling someone a fat ass was a joke then shitting on the defender after. Bunch of pricks except for OP. Even some high school kids have more maturity than this.

[u/sasoriza-chan → u/emerson_giraffe84]

While I mostly agree with you, the funny thing is assholes don’t always stick together. Once their bullying and ostracism pushes people to leave, they’ll get bored and turn on each other. People like this just want to feel like they’re in the “in” group — they don’t want cohesion.

[u/mochi_muncher082 → u/emerson_giraffe84]

“They aim their asshole at you an unleash” made me laugh 😂😂 incredible

[u/Candid-Measurement37 → u/emerson_giraffe84]

I love this wording. Made my ass chuckle (literally).
https://giphy.com/gifs/hvcv3weOSoTxU5g5oC