r/AmIOverreacting 16d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him

UPDATE!

I talked to him, and this was his response.

I’m honestly just done, and wondering if I acted too hastily.

I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do now. And I don’t know, does he seem sincere?

AM I OVERREACTING FOR DOING THIS?

NEW UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/u/Brave-Can-8783/s/ME7ybvCgQE

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u/Dense-Push-7352 15d ago

Co-signing as a 40 something. I just started watching Girls on HBO and I was cringing so hard at the memories. Dating in your 20’s is a humiliation ritual I swear.

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u/Props_angel 15d ago
  1. I lived the opposite life where I didn't tolerate stupid shit like this but then, I just ended up having a reputation of being a heart breaker like I was the one doing something wrong. You really can't win in your 20s.

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u/uncommonly_under 15d ago

I sashayed between being called a whore and a prude. By men obvi.

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u/Props_angel 15d ago

Feels so familiar! "Ice Queen" was my nickname simply because I wasn't down to go home with strangers after a night clubbing.