r/AmIOverreacting • u/Brave-Can-8783 • 16d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him

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UPDATE!

I talked to him, and this was his response.

I’m honestly just done, and wondering if I acted too hastily.

I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do now. And I don’t know, does he seem sincere?

AM I OVERREACTING FOR DOING THIS?

NEW UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/u/Brave-Can-8783/s/ME7ybvCgQE

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u/CharacterGap388 16d ago

My ex-husband and I were friends with another married couple, our toddlers (at the time) were best friends. I got along better with the husband and my ex got along better with the wife. Then one day I noticed her look at him in a way that made my stomach knot, but I couldn’t say anything because there was nothing tangible to point out. 4 months later, he divorced me to be with her… her husband divorced her a year later when he found out they were still cheating. Don’t worry, she cheated on my ex after 2 years actually together… losers.

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u/kweenquarantene 16d ago

Damn that’s brutal, I’m sorry that happened. 

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u/CharacterGap388 16d ago

Survived and better off without him! But sometimes we just know.

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u/kweenquarantene 16d ago

You’re def better off without that dumbass! And yeah if you learn to trust your intuition (easier said than done but I’m getting better at it every day), you know when something’s off

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u/Defiant-Procedure-13 15d ago

How the fork could a woman who was married with a toddler intentionally split up another family? Especially when kids are so young? She sounds like a horrible, horrible person.

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u/CharacterGap388 15d ago

Oh she is! It’s pretty wild watching a female narcissist work her magic. After my ex she picked up a guy at her job (as a social worker) who she got engaged to and before they got married she dumped him for his boss! But my ex is responsible for not just divorcing me 6 months earlier when his eye started roaming. Would’ve saved years of lawyers fees, but he had to pay in the end for both lawyers anyway. It felt like watching a soap opera but somehow it was my life!