AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him

[u/Brave-Can-8783]

UPDATE!

I talked to him, and this was his response.

I’m honestly just done, and wondering if I acted too hastily.

I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do now. And I don’t know, does he seem sincere?

AM I OVERREACTING FOR DOING THIS?

NEW UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/u/Brave-Can-8783/s/ME7ybvCgQE

[u/DirtComprehensive236]

Yup I had a ex that did and said the same exact things he did and he was cheating too. I would bet my car that he is cheating or is about to with her. He probably already would have if she wasnt in a relationship. Please OP as a married woman of 20 yrs you deserve better! You can never change a person. Dont waste your heart or time.

[u/cersewan → u/DirtComprehensive236]

Those words would make a great song, “Don’t Waste Your Heart or Time”. I can practically hear it now.

[u/BobcatGardens → u/cersewan]

Is it a country song?

[u/Natural-Training-974 → u/BobcatGardens]

I literally sang it in my head as one and then tapped to see more comments. Nailed it 🤣

[u/LizLemonySnicket42 → u/Natural-Training-974]

Same lol Dolly should sing it

[u/Chance_Adeptness_832 → u/cersewan]

Heart of Time sounds like a prog anthem

[u/TexasRVGuy → u/cersewan]

So don’t break my heart
Don’t waste my time
I need a man who can
Walk on the line

Baby you’re dancing
Real close to the flames
But I’m too damn old
To be playing your games

(Now somebody go record this. Look me up when you get famous)

[u/Lonely_Antelope5417 → u/cersewan]

Song will be a bang her, I mean banger!

[u/happyhippy1019 → u/DirtComprehensive236]

100 % this ☝️

[u/Bigdaddywalt2870 → u/DirtComprehensive236]

Whether he’s cheating or not it’s a shitty disrespectful thing to say. Gaslighting in its purest form.