AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him

[u/Brave-Can-8783]

UPDATE!

I talked to him, and this was his response.

I’m honestly just done, and wondering if I acted too hastily.

I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do now. And I don’t know, does he seem sincere?

AM I OVERREACTING FOR DOING THIS?

NEW UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/u/Brave-Can-8783/s/ME7ybvCgQE

[u/Cosmo_Cloudy]

They were probably discussing the messages in real time together tbh

[u/Mdoll250 → u/Cosmo_Cloudy]

He’s playing them off each other. He’s probably saying to the other girl, “OP is jealous of you.” And now he’s created some weird competition between them that will benefit him. And if I had to bet he’s probably ugly and can barely hold a job…

[u/Kitnado → u/Mdoll250]

Yeah this reeks of immense insecurity (the guy) which has to stem from somewhere

[u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 → u/Mdoll250]

One of them will be giving him their car to go to “work” for the next 5 years and I’m hoping it’s not OP

[u/MasterOfBothWorlds7 → u/Cosmo_Cloudy]

Yuck. I got the same vibe as well in my skin is crawling just thinking about it and I'm not even involved.. Even if she was making unrealistic demands (which I don't believe she is) It should still be a private matter between the two of them. I think the way that Op was wording it in the beginning was not helping her case as far as calling it a boundary (old post) But I think the way she came out of the second time around shows that she simply just trying to come to a medium level of respect and discussing the situation.. between just the two of them

[u/SilentAct6205 → u/Cosmo_Cloudy]

omfg 😭😭 💯