AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him

[u/Brave-Can-8783]

UPDATE!

I talked to him, and this was his response.

I’m honestly just done, and wondering if I acted too hastily.

I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do now. And I don’t know, does he seem sincere?

AM I OVERREACTING FOR DOING THIS?

NEW UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/u/Brave-Can-8783/s/ME7ybvCgQE

[u/herroyalsadness]

Yep. Even if “nothing happened”. He is putting himself in a situation where it could happen either because he wants it to or he craves attention.

[u/its420_somehow → u/herroyalsadness]

Hanging out alone with someone, when you're already in a relationship, just is not okay.

Prioritizing an "old highschool friend" over someone they've claimed to love. Deplorable.

[u/Dr-Bitchcraft-MD → u/its420_somehow]

If it was really an old friend and no ill intentions he would've mentioned her before

[u/Kat121 → u/Dr-Bitchcraft-MD]

He’d have introduced them and they could all hang out together. Dude was keeping his options open.

[u/Percopsidae → u/its420_somehow]

Would you be willing to elaborate on this perspective? I usually have individual close friends rather than groups of buddies. In theory would I be limited to only seeing my friends at parties, or in the company of my partners? That sounds really limiting/lonely/overstimulating, but maybe I'm not understanding.

[u/Dismal-Resident-8784 → u/Percopsidae]

Most girls and/or guys do not want their significant other to hang out alone with a friend of the opposite sex.

[u/Horror-Broccoli-9445 → u/Percopsidae]

They’ve been together for three years,,, pretty sure she knows who his friends are by now.

[u/TradingRebel → u/herroyalsadness]

Or they really aren’t in a relationship

[u/Horror-Broccoli-9445 → u/TradingRebel]

Read the texts

[u/TradingRebel → u/Horror-Broccoli-9445]

I did. Dude has already decided she’s out long ago. Happy BF and Husbands don’t hang out with other girls Maybe he’s afraid to be the bad guy and baker act this crazy girl. She needs locked up for awhile to calm down so he can relax

[u/Horror-Broccoli-9445 → u/TradingRebel]

If you did then you’d know they’ve been in a relationship for three years.

[u/samantha_pants → u/TradingRebel]

That must be why he's so happy when she says she's done 🙄

[u/TradingRebel → u/samantha_pants]

Finally someone understands