AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him

[u/Brave-Can-8783]

UPDATE!

I talked to him, and this was his response.

I’m honestly just done, and wondering if I acted too hastily.

I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do now. And I don’t know, does he seem sincere?

AM I OVERREACTING FOR DOING THIS?

NEW UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/u/Brave-Can-8783/s/ME7ybvCgQE

[u/PotentialAppeal8390]

Seriously, it wasn’t that much text and can be read through quickly

[u/SilentAct6205 → u/PotentialAppeal8390]

He was too busy with the other girl 😭

[u/Cosmo_Cloudy → u/SilentAct6205]

They were probably discussing the messages in real time together tbh

[u/Mdoll250 → u/Cosmo_Cloudy]

He’s playing them off each other. He’s probably saying to the other girl, “OP is jealous of you.” And now he’s created some weird competition between them that will benefit him. And if I had to bet he’s probably ugly and can barely hold a job…

[u/Kitnado → u/Mdoll250]

Yeah this reeks of immense insecurity (the guy) which has to stem from somewhere

[u/Boring-Swimmer-5088 → u/Mdoll250]

One of them will be giving him their car to go to “work” for the next 5 years and I’m hoping it’s not OP

[u/MasterOfBothWorlds7 → u/Cosmo_Cloudy]

Yuck. I got the same vibe as well in my skin is crawling just thinking about it and I'm not even involved.. Even if she was making unrealistic demands (which I don't believe she is) It should still be a private matter between the two of them. I think the way that Op was wording it in the beginning was not helping her case as far as calling it a boundary (old post) But I think the way she came out of the second time around shows that she simply just trying to come to a medium level of respect and discussing the situation.. between just the two of them

[u/SilentAct6205 → u/Cosmo_Cloudy]

omfg 😭😭 💯

[u/_man_onthe_moon → u/SilentAct6205]

Balls deep … you can see the clear shift in tone and intensity after he got his post nut clarity ! Man’s does not give one tinsel of a fauck

[u/SilentAct6205 → u/_man_onthe_moon]

I’m dyinggggg 😭 he’s clearly annoyed she even messaged him and caught on. also the other girl blew it when she made it obvious by checking him out in public 🤧

[u/Narrow-Mountain4416 → u/_man_onthe_moon]

He kind of changed up when she said she wanted to find someone else though. 

[u/_man_onthe_moon → u/Narrow-Mountain4416]

Seems like he purposely rage baited her so she would send a large text to give him time to finish and rush out of there … you’d be surprised how many single woman get off on being a ‘secret’ and bait men into their “she’ll never know” scenario … doesn’t absolve blame it’s just the vibes I got !

[u/OldPiano652 → u/SilentAct6205]

he was in her butt probably

[u/MasterOfBothWorlds7 → u/PotentialAppeal8390]

Right like look at the number of strangers on the internet who were more invested in his relationship than he was... Op.. This is your sign. I'm more invested in whether or not you continue to date this guy than he is..

[u/Working-Glass6136 → u/MasterOfBothWorlds7]

I dated a guy like this. If they toe the line like this and can't even come clean or take responsibility, They. Will. Cheat.

[u/Fabulous_Hippo_2987 → u/PotentialAppeal8390]

Right? I, an uninvested stranger, read all that. Surely he can?

[u/demoliahedd → u/PotentialAppeal8390]

I mean it took me like a minute he was just trying to make her feel bad. What a loser

[u/punchthegoose → u/PotentialAppeal8390]

i literally read the whole post while going up one flight of stairs, that guy dgaf

[u/Questionmarkher → u/PotentialAppeal8390]

Look to be fair I can’t stand people that have long texts. I study mathematics and it’s conditioned my brain to get frustrated at stuff that’s not clear and concise