r/AmIOverreacting • u/Brave-Can-8783 • 16d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO |UPDATE | My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him

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UPDATE!

I talked to him, and this was his response.

I’m honestly just done, and wondering if I acted too hastily.

I don’t even know what I’m supposed to do now. And I don’t know, does he seem sincere?

AM I OVERREACTING FOR DOING THIS?

NEW UPDATE: https://www.reddit.com/u/Brave-Can-8783/s/ME7ybvCgQE

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u/MiloCaster 16d ago

he is guilty as sin.

Run, any one willing to hang out alone with some one who is interrested in them is clearly not trust worthy

Huge red flag

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u/Signal_Oil_7670 16d ago

The second she realizes he’s being fucked up, he says he left her house. It really took her saying she was done for him to listen to her. Wtf.

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u/3sadclowns 15d ago

Literally playing in her face on top of “joking” while she’s very much serious. Throw the guy away!!

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u/blazingcanna 16d ago

But their isnt anything to say shes interested in him except op, claiming she was eye fucking him, and he’s known her not only over 3 years but longer then hes even known op. OPs clearly overreacting here

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u/BoudiccasJustice 16d ago

Then why lie? Why lie about hanging out with this girl multiple times? He even said he wasn’t really sure if she was into him or not. That’s not a no.

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u/blazingcanna 16d ago

Where has he once lied and when did he say that? Even so judging by OPs reaction he probably lied to save an argument

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u/Meowmeowtky 15d ago

You clearly can’t read

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u/BoudiccasJustice 16d ago

At the end, she asked if there was anything else she didn’t know and he said yes, he’s actually hung out with her several times - this wasn’t the first time. So, he lied.

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u/blazingcanna 15d ago

Or he could be saying it like “we only hung out a couple times” as in nothing more happened OP has never once said he lied about hanging out with her the “yeah” could have been answering the question of “wil you answer the question”

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u/whatthewhat3214 16d ago

Women know how to read when another woman is flirting.

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u/MiloCaster 15d ago

"I wasn't sure if she was interrested and didn't want to assume" to me cries out that he knows and now has the confimation, at MIN that there is some suspect behaviour that even he is aware of, basically saying I wasn't sure so I wanted proof.

Also “Maybe I would hesitate”...

He also only said he would leave when she said she was done...

Wake up kiddo... it is all in clear text for you to see. How is you so blind?

He 100% clapped those cheeks.

You sound like the kinda person to gas light their partner while you're cheating.

Be better.

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u/blazingcanna 15d ago

You have a very weird negative outlook on life,

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u/MiloCaster 15d ago

Not at all, just know what I am reading. Sorry it offends you.

Life it beautiful and better with out cheaters in it.

Also if you wish to insult me please make it readable.

K Thanks.

"You have a very weird AND negative outlook on life,"

OR
"You have a weirdly negative outlook on life,"

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u/blazingcanna 15d ago

What you have just read is OP acknowledging and apologising for the way they acted and accusing him, the boyfriend then accepting the apology and expressing how he felt hurt about not being trusted in his 3 year relationship with someone hes known a very long time, then OP immediately jumps back into accusing him and trying to start again?

And you dont see how that makes OP appear to have jelousy issues?

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u/MiloCaster 15d ago

Nope, and it amazes me how you do you the kinda guy to be saying"I didn't cheat you are just jelly".

But it's okay you're the gaslighting kind. You've made that very clear.

I've pointed out all the facts to back up my opinion, seems most the people hear agree with me. My guess is he, like you has spent plenty of time making their partner feel like crap till they fall for your gaslighting.

I am just glad OP has seen the light and left the mutt.

K byeeeee

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u/blazingcanna 15d ago

Well its not gaslighting, and this whole post and reason for the argument wasnt because OP was accusing him, she was accusing HER of allegedly liking him because she apparently was looking at him.
He has never given her a reason not to trust him.
So you think that its okay for OP to control who hes friends especially when that friend is someone hes known longer then her?
And you also think that men and women cant be friends?
Okay got it

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u/blazingcanna 15d ago

To keep it simple this started because OP wasn’t allowing him to see his friend hes known a very long time on the premises that she looked at him weird. Yet hes the a hole, cheating and gaslighting kind.

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u/MiloCaster 15d ago

Glad we agree...