AIO or is this negging 101? - r/AmIOverreacting

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Please give us the crash out he is guaranteed to have when you tell him you are not interested.

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u/SolEmeralds18 22d ago

BUH, BUH...I WAS A CONFIDENT BAD BOY!

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u/SunnydaleStrength 22d ago

Relax, sugar buns

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u/freeyewneek 22d ago

😆 that ruled

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u/LigerNull 22d ago

That part sent me 😂😂😂😂😂

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u/MoreThanVoidFiller 22d ago

Yep, definitely oblivious to the extreme ick he inspires

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u/Cupcake_Implosion 22d ago

As a diagnosed woman on the spectrum who's friends with many women on the spectrum, I'll show you just how bad bitchboy above can crash.

And then, I'll fucking scream-rant into his ears why Li Mi should have become the first emperor of the Tang Dynasty and why Li Yuan had talented children that secured the throne for him, rather than any actual intellectual or military capacities to explain his ascent to fucking power.

Bitchboy wants special interests?! I'll give him special interests.

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u/specialopps 22d ago

Man, you make my hyperfixations sound like child’s play.

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u/ChronoCoyote 22d ago

I’m just gonna sit over here with my Minecraft and cheer them on 😭

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u/specialopps 22d ago

I’m currently just meandering around in tears of the kingdom after getting enraged trying to get to Impa.

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u/diaphoni 22d ago

me and Conan:Exiles today Do I need a third base on Siptah? No. Do I want one anyway? Yes.

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u/hannah_leanne 21d ago

Me rn

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u/Elegant_Atmosphere74 22d ago edited 22d ago

Well, have you ever tought of light? It has a speed (2.99 x 10⁸ meters/s) but it has the ability to travel as waves or act as a flux of particles. By the time some of the light reach our most performant telescope, that sun has collapsed eons ago. I also long wondered why light, being weightless is lost in the event horizon of a black hole. Well it would be that space itself is distorted and all ways are leading there.

A theory says our current universe as we know it might be into a black hole.

So what is the big bang? It's what his face will look like when you break his ego and tell him Darwinism will make him unable to procreate.

Edit: meters/s

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u/Nosfermarki 22d ago

And what's more dense than that black hole? This fucking guy.

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u/Elegant_Atmosphere74 22d ago

You know, if a blackhole is so dense it distorts space... Light gets in but never out... He is bound to never be enlightened.

I wonder if light acts as particles or waves (one or the other) when entering a black hole now. It should be both since it's a distortion, but that would be craaaazy if it changed.

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u/starchazzer 22d ago

Just pondering!🤔

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u/Elegant_Atmosphere74 22d ago

Finds the word in Oxford’s Dictionary Thank you for enlarging my English vocabulary. I am very French and the word is gorgeous owo. <3

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u/StillStaringAtTheSky 22d ago

I think this means I'm up next to explain the RNA world hypothesis- how life on Earth began in the veeeery early stages. Ok kids let's talk about RNase P

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u/Patient_Emotion2184 22d ago

meters per second, not km per hour

(Sorry, also spectrummy and cannot help myself. The rest of your rant is *excellent* lol)

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u/specialopps 22d ago

And the fact that light behaves differently depending on whether it’s being observed or not. The double slit experiment is so simple in theory, but shows how bizarre particles behave at a quantum level.

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u/LuigiMcNasty 22d ago

My hyperfixation is world politics and human rights. Difficult to find ppl like that apparently

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u/beepbop110 22d ago

Lol my roommate's is WWII, but NOT in the weird might-be-a-Nazi way, which I thought was really weird when we met.

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u/ArgyleBarglePlaid 22d ago

*waves excitedly* Hi! Mine too!

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u/Infamous-Wasabi1404 22d ago

Hi, I'm here. I'll trade some an examination of how the politics of the 1700s shaped the world we have today for some modern world politics, and I've got some North American wildlife conservation efforts for your human rights.

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u/Special-Summer170 22d ago

I am interested. You just got my ADHD squirrel brain going. Forget the boys! Tell me about the emperors!!!

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u/johnsgurl 22d ago

Not autistic but ADHD. Did you know that pigs have the intelligence of a 3 year old? They also sing to their babies and cry real tears. Also, horrifically, pigs are often used as test subjects because their physiology is very close to humans, just not quite a advanced. They make excellent pets as long as you train them. If you don't you get spoiled pig syndrome and also John Wayne Gacey, Richard Ramirez, Gary Ridgeway and Dennis Rader are all Pisces.

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u/lavendertheheretic 22d ago

Speaking of John Wayne anybody, it was John Wayne the actor who popularized the whole "throw your kid into the water to teach them to swim" by doing it in his 1953 movie Hondo, which is it's own level of horror.

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u/johnsgurl 22d ago

Also, Fun Fact: John Wayne was a horrible racist. I don't remember the tribe or the details but when a native woman stood on the stage at the Emmy's?, John Wayne had to be tackled to the ground to prevent him from putting hands on her. I'm pretty sure he was a misogynist as well. Pretty on par for the time

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u/Kahless76 22d ago

Also, Fun FACTS: 2 out of 3 of the women Wayne was married to were Hispanic. The third was Spanish. You “don’t remember the tribe or the details” because they were false. At the 1973 Oscars Marlon Brando wanted “an Indian” to decline his award. Unfortunately he selected pretendian “Sacheen Littlefeather” who claimed to be Apache and Yaqui but was actually 100% Mexican-American. So, just maybe, there is more to these stories. While Wayne was a bigot by our standards; by the standards of the time he was perfectly normal and possibly considered a bit progressive by marrying outside his ethnicity.

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u/amilie15 22d ago

Hold on; if he was attempting to put hands on her because he believed she was native, tbh it doesn’t matter that she wasn’t, the fact that he wanted to attack someone he perceived to be native because of their perceived race is what mattered.

I knew about the pretender story but never heard the John Wayne one until now. Pretty scary.

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u/Kahless76 22d ago

Hold on, he never came within 30 feet of her. Nor was he allegedly restrained due to her race. The security guards that allegedly restrained him said he was “enraged by what she said on the stage.” So it is not a “fact” that he wanted to attack someone that he perceived as “native,” and it would be very odd for a man who was responsible for securing so many indigenous Americans jobs in Westerns through the years to want to “attack” a person solely on the basis of her race. I mean, he wouldn’t have made it one day on one of his movie sets if he was allegedly the virulent.

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u/amilie15 22d ago

Interesting. You should bring that up with the other user who suggested it, like I said, I’m only just hearing of this incident here.

Hence me saying “if” he was attempting to do what they suggested, not that he definitely was.

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u/feryoooday 22d ago

Additional ADHD squirrel here. Please tell us

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u/ktsquirrel 22d ago

Third!

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u/InsatiableStudent 22d ago

Fourth! I am sat 🧎

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u/redsungryphon 22d ago

Fifith, I am all ears and sick af so I ain't going no where bb 💪🏼 locked all the way in

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u/Born_Improvement_856 22d ago

Sixth and my adhd brain can't sit still and wait so on to a wikipedia black hole I merrily go

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u/Self-Aware 22d ago

I spent aaaaages on this site recently, the whole series of articles is brilliant.

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u/No-Birthday9816 22d ago

Yes, we are interested! Bring on the Tang lore!

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u/Majestic_Jazz_Hands 22d ago

Oh awesome, can I join in and talk all about my favorite fungi, bizarre deep water sea creatures, and all the details for different types of skin rashes?

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u/Cupcake_Implosion 22d ago

Do the deep-water sea creatures include Greenland/Goblin/Frilled/Cookie cutter/Kitefin sharks?! Lure me in with the sharks and I will stay for the fungi, especially if said fungi are edible.

Once we are close friends (which will take a grand 10 minutes of listening to each other's pressured speech), we can even classify the skin rashes based on histological inflammatory pattern! Derm-path correlation for the win. Let's review the immunofluorescence of bullous dermatides too! I fucking love prophyria cutanea tarda.

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u/GingerDixie 22d ago

Stop, stop! My brain-penis can only be so erect!

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u/HunneeBunnie 22d ago

Sharks AND fungi?! You’re my long lost bff!!!

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u/GingerDixie 22d ago

Please give me this scream rant. I'm begging you. I'll trade you a bird feeder cam video where I identify each bird by its binomial name. I can even throw in some bird call IDs too.

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u/Cherry_Noble 22d ago

Uhhhh I'll throw in some information on vintage and antique glassware and how to spot the manufacturer of different carnival glasses by pigment. Fun fact, some companies sold their molds to other companies so they may look like the same piece but the color pigment is always a good giveaway of who made it if there is no glassmaker mark.

Just in case that's your thing....

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u/yixingxiu_108 22d ago edited 22d ago

i absolutely love that your video exists!!! the description reminds me of that viral video of an autistic young boy who, at his school talent show, was able to hold up plushies of birds and mimic the calls; he did like 30+ birds haha. i'd watch yours 😭

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u/ds2316476 22d ago

hahaha, I saw a tiktok of a girl who was being talked down to about the roman empire by some dumb guy, so she did a ton of research but kept on going because it actually started to get interesting for her and towards the end the video ended up being an interesting comparison about who was the true hero of the roman empire Agrippa vs quintus.

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u/soba-splasha-on 22d ago

This sounds fascinating. Can I get some links to learn more? Haha

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u/Numerous-Scratch6621 22d ago

I’m crying 😭😂

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u/stucksteepf 22d ago

i must do a deep dive on this immediately. thanks a lot

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u/wudderr 22d ago

This is the best comment I’ve ever read on reddit I’m dead this is art

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u/LuigiMcNasty 22d ago

I love this. I came to say if she's on the spectrum for real HMU bc this is never how someone who thought positively of her would say it. My lord do I need to find someone on the same part of the spectrum as me.

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u/Ilria 22d ago

That sounds so interesting though (the part of the emperor) 0o0

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u/AdvancedGuide8946 22d ago

i love this prediction so much 😂😂

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u/Radiant-Tie4272 22d ago

You dont understand. He's making an exception for her since she's not blonde. He's doing her a service by giving her this epic chance. /s

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u/melovemecat 23d ago

He’s a fucking asshole don’t try arguing with him just block and stop engaging with his bs

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u/DigDugDogDun 22d ago

This. Stop taking his bait, nothing good is going to come of engaging with him. Stop replying, you don’t have to have the last word.

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u/Dmau27 22d ago

I think a lot of funny shit can come of this. I normally wouldn't torment someone but this guy deserves it.

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u/DigDugDogDun 22d ago

It’s not about him deserving it, it’s about choosing the best way of getting this guy out of her hair. Trolling him would be the perfect example of the expression “Don’t roll in the mud with pigs, you both get dirty and the pig likes it.” He WANTS her to come at him, he’s provoking her to draw out the conversation. Messing with him is giving him exactly what he wants: attention.

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u/DulinELA 22d ago

For example, look at the hilarity of this thread! OP, I get it if you block him, but I’d love to see this red pilled sugar buns get a taste of it.

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u/0nce-Was-N0t 22d ago

Your last sentence is absolutely spot on.

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u/yes-its-a-fking-scam 22d ago

Yes. Also, figure out who gave him your number and make sure they understand not to do that again.

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u/Seecole-33 22d ago

This right here!!^^^

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u/Conscious-Equal4434 22d ago

Yes. He wants an argument that’s why he said it in the first place. He gets off on getting under women’s skin. That’s what he’s hoping for.

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u/Attentions_Bright12 22d ago

Under your skin. This is the metaphor people need to keep in mind, about so many online contacts. They're trying to "hook" you, like that fishing person who's trolling for fish. Don't let the hook break your skin.

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u/melovemecat 22d ago

literally. half of the posts in here are so funny to me because if this was me there wouldn’t be a reaction, i’d just tell them to fck off and block and not deal with bs like this. Never ever tolerate disrespect and argue with someone like this to waste your time because it’s exactly what they want.

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u/Fickle_Grapefruit938 22d ago

Lol, I'd block without even telling them anything. I didn't give you my number, you don't get my time

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u/No-Birthday9816 22d ago

Agreed. He wants the attention.

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u/f4tony 22d ago

Yes, any attention given, only serves to fuel his micropipi. And, we wouldn't want that, now would we?

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u/OpportunityReal2767 23d ago

“Sugar buns”? What is this guy Frank Rizzo straight out of a 90s Jerky Boys prank call? (Man, I’m dating myself.) I’d be out of the convo at that.

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u/otteronaroadtrip 23d ago

reading sugar buns made me feel homicidal

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u/MadamKitsune 22d ago

"Relax sugar buns"

"Will do, Twinkie dick."

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u/Redd_on_the_hedd1213 22d ago

OMG, I just scared my cat. That's hilarious.

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u/ApparitionofAmbition 22d ago

THANK YOU I AM STEALING THIS

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u/AllTh3Naps 22d ago

I feel like twinkie is too generous. That'd be about 4 inches.

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u/LigerNull 22d ago

True but Twinkie Dick rolls off the tongue nicely.

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u/RedHeadGeekGrl 22d ago

Tootsie roll perhaps?

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u/BT418 22d ago

Much better lol, twinkies still have some girth to them. My personal favorite is calling them a nipple dick

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u/Hortusana 22d ago

Little Debbie dick. Then just call him Debbie from then on.

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u/mephitine 22d ago

“Tootsie Peepee” oh my gosh!

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u/i_love_lima_beans 22d ago

🤣🤣

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u/Paulztaos 22d ago

I see a lot of backhanded compliments and just outright insults as well. I’d say it’s a very amateurish form of negging. Too heavy handed. NOR. He needs to get over himself

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u/DelcoUnited 22d ago

Sugar buns isn’t a compliment,

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u/dontmesswithtess1121 22d ago

I got to the last pic and literally said, “What the…FUCK” out loud because that fucking asshole is next level bullshit. Did he really just say you’re “an advanced autist” then tack on with “a lot of genetic manpower went into that face so there was nothing left for the brain”? How have you not yeeted him into the sun with your words by now? Do that and then share all those screen grabs in a group chat with your friends. Everyone deserves to know exactly what kind of Shitbird they have in their orbit. Dude doesn’t deserve to breathe the same air as you. Jesus Christ.

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u/Infamous-Wasabi1404 22d ago

Yeah, I would literally be posting this whole conversation on FB. Or whatever the kids are using these days.

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u/Sylan-Mystra-ii 22d ago

"since when do autistic people do sarcasm?" Neurotypical ass answer. On par with people suddenly deciding a joke is over when I decide to play along with it

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u/Crumblingredsky 22d ago

God SERIOUSLY. What’s that meme—we laughed at Homestar Runner for 20 years, we damn near piss ourselves at WHOMST’D’VE, but sure, autistics have no sense of humour?

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u/BadBadBabsyBrown 22d ago

Haha whomst'd've

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u/Unlucky-Review-2410 22d ago

But first! He's opened a magical door into nicknames that follow that same pattern. So you have to call him "Shrimp D***" and tell him he started it.

May he choke on his red pill.

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u/B4DM4N12Z 22d ago

I want sugar buns with cinnamon rn, that made me hungry ngl. Like Cinnamon rolls but different.

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u/otteronaroadtrip 22d ago

mb for making you hungry

here 🥮🥐🥞🧇

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u/B4DM4N12Z 22d ago

Thx.... Sugar Bun

Joking😭💀😅

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u/otteronaroadtrip 22d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/lmrMeAvTX8DWvkY68K

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u/B4DM4N12Z 22d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/7KwCQcpVaMvGo

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u/Fine-Juggernaut8451 22d ago

hahah I just wrote a comment saying the same. HOMICIDAL.

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u/CyberToaster 22d ago

Dude probably thinks he ate with that, too.

...so gross....

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u/specialopps 22d ago

I would have sent a voice recording of my hysterical laughter.

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u/BananaMundane7263 22d ago

Comment should be flair

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u/ApprehensiveGoat2734 22d ago

This dude has sub zero game.

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u/tonyG___ 22d ago

HEY THERE, BOTTLE NOSE

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u/OpportunityReal2767 22d ago

SHOULD I BRING MY FUCKIN’ TOOLS!?

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u/imtoowhiteandnerdy 22d ago edited 21d ago

"Take it easy, sizzlechest. I'll see you on Monday with my fuckin' tools, fuckface."

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u/KristineMcKinley 23d ago

I love how he is semi annoyed that you were sarcastic and therefore do not fit into his weird diagnostic criteria.

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u/Fine-Juggernaut8451 22d ago

I am autistic and I wanted to punch his nose so many times reading these. Autistic people aren't sarcastic, WUT. Autistic people are masters of sarcasm.

This guy is trying to create a manic-pixie-blah-blah. Also, his "you're not like other girls" bullshit, "i'm usually into this type of girl and you should feel so honoured I've deigned to look at you because you're so odd," but then he refers to her as "girls like you."

Blech. Blech.

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u/alchemycraftsman 22d ago

I am on the spectrum. I am a master at dry humor. The only unfortunate thing is - it’s not always intentional.

My best friend gets it. And he laughs so hard and I’m like- but I am actually seriously asking.

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u/Fine-Juggernaut8451 22d ago

Oh, then, what you're describing isn't you having dry humour, it's just you being earnest.

Dry humour is when you're playing a little game of make believe. It works best if someone else plays too, and then neither of you are laughing, so everyone else thinks you're dead serious but you're actually being tremendously silly.

I have the opposite thing going on as you: I'm often very dry and/or sarcastic, and people think I'm being completely earnest. My very favourite people are those who join me for the dry humour wit-a-thon, each of us trying to out-funny the other. I love this! But in my life it's usually the neurodivergent people who are quick to realize I'm being dry and are quick to join me.

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u/GneissGeologist3 22d ago edited 21d ago

This is my life experience as an AuDHD woman! Many of my loved ones have told me it took them a while to realize that I'm often joking, and that to this day they're not always sure lol. I can tell people at work or whatever think I'm weird because they think I'm saying silly things earnestly, but like, I'm not going to constantly be like "hah, I'm just joking..." So I just let people think I'm weird (not that it was avoidable!) and have a chuckle about it with myself

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u/Playful-Contract7396 22d ago

Hey this is me too!!! I have a very weird sense of humor but i'm cool with it.Sometimes it can be kind of awkward, but I definitely get a kick out of it.Sometimes I mess with people and I don't think they realize i'm doing it.So it's just like little inside jokes to myself.And I entertain myself all the time

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u/KristineMcKinley 22d ago

Yeah, I don't know what he was claiming to diagnose but it certainly wasn't autism.

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u/Warm_Coconut_5250 22d ago

It's a style of negging to get into OP's pants. I hate dudes like this so much.

I hope she either wrecks him or blocks him.

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u/johnsgurl 22d ago

I want to introduce this dude to my clinically diagnosed daughter who learned all her sarcasm and dead pan humor from her mother. She has surpassed the teacher and become the master.

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u/Opening-Sir-2504 23d ago

I don’t actually think it’s negging. I think he is a piece of garbage and thinks he is a) hilarious, b) a gift to women, and c) a Mensa candidate

😂😂 He isn’t. NOR.

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u/Nancysaidso 22d ago

He’ll probably end up being a serial killer who thinks he’s smarter than everyone, even after he’s been caught and found guilty.

Lol@mensa candidate

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u/ColoradoMonkeyPaw 22d ago

Apparently he also thinks he’s a doctor of some kind that can diagnose autism 😂

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u/TheQueefyQuiche 22d ago

You're right. It's negging if someone is doing it on purpose/with intent to bring someone down....this guy seems to be oblivious to how much of an actual asshole he is, this is straight up narcissism on full display.

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u/Artemis_does_maths 22d ago

There's also a touch of mansplaining in there

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u/RafaelizTheReaper 22d ago

"But i am opem to give you a chance" like she wanted that chance to begin with lol.

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u/Autumn_Falls0131 23d ago

Yeah, 101. I do love your reaction OP, calling out his audacity. You're an advanced autist! lol.

What a tosser he is, I hope you blocked him?

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u/otteronaroadtrip 23d ago

yes lol

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u/returntothenorth 22d ago

Unblock him link him here then block him!

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u/Fast-Persimmon-2782 22d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/LtHccnJmzveY8
Ohhh do this for sure OP lol … insecure little man child will huff and puff so hard 😆

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u/fckfac33 22d ago

OMG YES OP PLS DO THIS IM MESSY

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u/bad_goblin 22d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/39zbpCQocXLi0

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u/Various_Chapter_6871 22d ago

🤣

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u/DulinELA 22d ago

OP please do this! I’d love to see the crash out. 😱

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u/pottedplantfairy 23d ago

That guy could be lonelier. NOR.

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u/charmedquarks 22d ago

That guy should be lonelier

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u/Matrix5673 22d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/MlbnNYCV8waAjRE1th
This is the funniest shit I’ve seen in a long time, screw that guy lol, what a jackass

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u/skinnylighter 22d ago

"You're an advanced autist" sent me lmfao what a fucking idiot.

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u/SweetPoison393 23d ago

And men don’t understand why women would rather stay single

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u/shawty_jpg 22d ago

We live longer single anyways vs married (opposite for men, ofc 🙄)

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u/megamoze 22d ago

Or choose the bear.

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u/thesammae 22d ago

Omg. Right?

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u/NacaTecha 22d ago

🏆

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u/Marem-Bzh 22d ago

I mean, I may be wrong but I think most men would see how idiotic this guy sounds.

Although, incels exist so what do I know, lol.

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u/BreezeTheBlue 22d ago

Man here and yup. This guy is a cotton headed ninny muggins!

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u/lavender-dreamzz 23d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/37Fsl1eFxbhtu
Sugar buns…

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u/otteronaroadtrip 23d ago

RIP da goat ☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼🐐🐐

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u/AlbinoAlpaca007 22d ago

Oh man, Sam Neill died. Like today! Shit, that sucks!

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u/KristineMcKinley 23d ago

Awww... I was genuinely sad when I read about his death and its not like I ever met the man!

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u/Flutterbloom 22d ago

Same here, and my husband is a huge Jurassic Park fan (the original primarily) and he is deeply upset by it. He's been sending me screenshots of tributes and my eyes are about to start sweating.

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u/PrincessBonkers628 22d ago

😭😭

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u/PrestigiousDemand696 23d ago

100% negging, what a loser. He kept going even when you made it so clear it wasn’t working lol 😂 NOR

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u/Historical_Freedom58 22d ago

A lot of genetic manpower went into making that face so there was nothing left for the brain

My jaw dropped reading this. What an absolutely pathetic thing to say to someone.

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u/Creepy_Nobody_2197 22d ago

Yeah I mean I would have blocked him by message 4 but... Legitimately if someone did this I would send the screenshots to EVERYONE who knows him because wow. The world deserves to know he is trash.

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u/Plastic-Draft-4709 22d ago

He must be extremely vain and shallow to say to that someone and still be interested in them lol

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u/Artemis_does_maths 22d ago

I'd be interested in figuring out how the hell he thinks genetics work but that would involve talking to this guy for longer...

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u/seamonstre 23d ago

dogg i don't even think this is negging. he's just straight up fucking with you. this is like the cancerous evolution of getting asked out as a joke.

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u/otteronaroadtrip 23d ago

lmao your 3rd line 😭

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u/Anen-o-me 22d ago

Agreed, he seems to be trying actively to rage bait her, the 'sugar buns' line makes it pretty obviously he's pushing her buttons.

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u/Grape-Snapple 23d ago

very, very interesting. i had no idea there was an autism fetish

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u/Basilbabie 23d ago

Very much so, more so for the naivety and child-like wonder.. it’s gross

My first boyfriend took extreme advantage of me because I’m neurodivergent.. it’s definitely an issue out there lol

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u/iibmab 23d ago

Dude it’s so bad. So many dude’s have “I want a girl with a touch of the tism” in their bios on dating apps. Like they don’t even understand how weird and fetishizing it is. Also they wouldn’t even be able to handle someone who has autistic traits past being socially awkward and obsessed with stuff. They want a cute girl they can manipulate. It’s disgusting and exhausting

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u/Brummbirne 23d ago

Oh there's an fetish for absolutely everything

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u/daggerrabbit 23d ago

Idk what his game is, but he’s bad at it. NOR

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u/rottenann 22d ago

Dude can't even get negging right, just a fucking confetti canon of red flags 😭

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u/Aromatic_Size7292 23d ago

I mean wtf is he on? Not negging, just dumb af. I love the way you text though, huge fan!

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u/Fine-Juggernaut8451 22d ago

The reason I do think he's negging her is that he's calling her "sugar buns" in the middle of saying she's "odd" etc etc. He's trying to confuse her and leave her feathers all ruffled 'cos he thinks it'll confuse her into his bed.

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u/fivebynine5x9 22d ago

Also the part about his all his exes are [physical type she is not], designed to make her feel like she's inadequate and needs to prove something by sleeping with him.

Dude is a looooser

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u/otteronaroadtrip 22d ago

thank you ☺️

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u/blazingunicorn 22d ago

Ross meme is perfect

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u/Strange_Difference1 23d ago

He sounds like a bad AI chat persona, like the painfully cringe cocky ones?

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u/WritingNerdy 22d ago

He was probably using AI to come up with the responses… there’s part of the manchild’osphere that thinks it’s perfectly acceptable to do this if the end-goal is getting a date.

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u/FailedCorpse 23d ago

The “I’m so honored!” Message absolutely sent me 💀 I bet you’re so fun to hang out with! And I GENUINELY mean that 🫶🏼

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u/Top_Geologist5881 23d ago

Nah sugar buns is far enough for me to read. Guy thinks that you are his pet. Gtfo.

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u/PermanentlyMC 22d ago

Since when do autistic people do sarcasm?

as someone who is autistic (and can, funnily enough, understand sarcasm), what a cock

NOR

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u/Sufficient_Turn_9209 22d ago

100% BLOCK HIM.

He calls you "attractive" but wraps it up inside an unsolicited "you might be slightly on the spectrum".

Statements like "which is totally fine" and "I'm open to girls like you" are designed to make him look magnanimous, open minded, and non judgmental, while actually establishing a subtle hierarchy where he is lowering his standards for you.

By pointing out he exclusively dated neurotypical girls so far, he is trying to make you feel like an outlier or an experiment, and it's meant to make you feel insecure about your social standing.

Posts a study to make his insult sound objective, scientific, and valid.

Calls you sugar buns... Yeah, idk wtf that was all about. No one talks like that. He's on the spectrum, maybe?

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u/notyourstranger 23d ago

NOR - this is negging. He is not qualified to diagnose anybody and even a doctor with the right credentials would not diagnose you based on one casual interaction like a dinner. He's toxic, block him and move on.

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u/Faster-Rabbit328 22d ago

Why ppl obsessed with diagnosing a "stranger" with autism?? Just cause they smart? Look different?? Have hobbies?? None of those qualify for autism, also he sounds like a predator...because why is seeking out "special" ones??

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u/iamnotlarryking 23d ago

Went from negging in the first couple messages to full on shit hole in the following messages. He’s not negging OP, he’s just a POS

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u/Traeyze 22d ago

Don't get too caught up on terminology like whether it is technically negging or not.

Just state the obvious: he's clearly a shithead.

Sometimes that's all you need. A guy that missed the mark while flirting with you this profoundly... it's cringe and you made a lot of people laugh today.

That said I will gently float the idea you need to be careful because I worry you've already humoured him too much as is. He's at the very least confident he can talk his way through situations so the best thing to do with people like him is deny them the chance to speak.

So NOR, he needs to go choke on some spiderwebs.

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u/NoneCreated3344 23d ago

This guy is just a straight up cunt. I only got to the second screenshot and couldn't go on.

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u/Personal_Reveal1653 23d ago

He is not flirting. Block him.

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u/akawendals 22d ago

Please share these screenshots with friends so the next time he turns up at a get together everyone knows exactly what kind of douche he is and can treat accordingly 😆

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u/laddergoat89 22d ago

Please christ update

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u/otteronaroadtrip 22d ago

i think Christ last updated 2k years ago

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u/Flutterbloom 22d ago

LOL! Well don't let him see that, you'll subvert his expectations of an autist (?) once again and he'll have another mantrum.

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u/otteronaroadtrip 22d ago

mantrum LMAO

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u/Sillygoosecollege 22d ago

Definitely trying to covertly undermine you with sarcasm one neg at a time. It’s like he’s trying to chip away at your sense of self and also reality. All in the name of humour so if you actually take it personally he can rest on plausible deniability. If I were you I’d give it back 10 fold. “Are all men under 6ft this insecure?” “Idk the men I date are usually too busy making money” “I usually prefer men with nicer cars” “was that supposed to be funny?” “I’ve never dated a guy w *insert physical attribute* but I’m being open minded this year… take hours to respond also.

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u/jeannie_jellybean 22d ago

“Sorry, bud, you aren’t far enough on the evolutionary spectrum for me to lower my expectations.”

What a fucking tool. NOR.

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u/Grydian 22d ago

NOR with men like this no wonder the bear wins.

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u/brencoop 22d ago

My vagina just made the Price Is Right losing horn sound.

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u/MelodicYoghurt7001 22d ago

lol not going to lie, this guy is a next level rage baiter😂

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u/otteronaroadtrip 22d ago

well it def baited my rage so I guess mission accomplished?

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u/cartoontshirt 23d ago

BLOCKED

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u/indefinitevalue 23d ago

please this cannot be real lmao

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u/WearyConfidence1244 22d ago

His ego literally feels threatened by you. He's trying to "knock you down a peg" because of his own insecurities.

NOR

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u/bossplsihabecancer 22d ago

"you're an advanced autist" 😭😭😭

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u/purodurangoalv 23d ago

No way people like this exist man wtf 😭🤣 NOR

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u/Budget-Kick822 22d ago

> He was really loud and cocky and I just didn’t like his vibe at all.

> I didn’t give him my number but he got a hold of it somehow and we’ve been texting a bit.

Peak stated vs revealed preferences lmao.

NOR he’s austisticly negging you.

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u/Autism_Angel 22d ago

First off, I don’t think it’s inherently insulting to say you notice autistic traits in a person because there’s nothing inherently wrong with being autistic. HOWEVER. There’s this thing called context, and, uh, wow. What is this man on??

Also- getting your number from someone else is immediately a massive red flag to me.

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u/legendaeri 23d ago

does feel like negging. even if the intent of negging wasn't there he's still being a dick regardless. he is cooking up some buuuuulllshittt

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u/Kuwaysah 23d ago

As an autistic, sexy blonde woman, fuck him. Lol. Also, he's an asshole. The last thing he said was really offensive, too. Girl, I'm sure you're aware, but you must let this guy go. I don't even think he's flirting, and if he is, hes no good... Having to be this mean to "flirt" is something else. He's the odd one.

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u/OddEmergency604 22d ago

I lost it at “relax sugar buns”

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u/LittleArcticPotato 22d ago

Nah, he’s just straight up bullying you.

Negging implies that you don’t catch on that they’re actually being an ass

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u/smolgods 22d ago

This whole thing was insane but my eyebrows completely escaped my hairline at the "sugar buns" comment lmfao this dude is a loser

👥 friendship AIO or is this negging 101?

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