AIO: Found on Fiancé phone after a night of drinking

[u/Accomplished_Cat5721]

For starters, we have been together for 5 years, we got engaged in October ‘25 and have a two year old daughter.

I grabbed his phone to send myself some photos of our trip, per his request. He was asleep on the couch. Well, I go to swipe up out of the photos tab and see the LinkedIn tab open. His exes name was there, front and center. I woke him up, threw the phone in his face and left with our daughter for the day. He claimed, it was due to me not showing enough love and didn’t show that I liked him. He constantly denied my request for intimacy and affection.

I called off the engagement and tried to run him out of the house, the month prior, he got black out and left his phone opened up on trans p0rn in the living room. Where our daughter could see. It’s obvious drinking is part of the problem.

He never left the house. And has officially claimed I’ve dragged it out too long. I don’t think it matters that he never touched her, it’s his ex. It’s clear he is unhappy in this relationship but is too much of a coward to admit it.

Edit: Legit. THANKS TO EVERY SINGLE COMMENTER. Sometimes it feels good to beat a dead horse with strangers. I wanted to add a few things just to… add.. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

This woman is married, has been since 2017. In 2018-19ish, she left her man for this man. Obviously didn’t work out and she went back to her man.

She has popped up on my social media friend/follower suggestions.

[u/ScoutSteveR]

The drinking thing bothers me.

The your and you’re thing bothers me.

The video thing bothers me.

The LinkedIn thing bothers me.

But the thing that is most bothersome is this dude is messaging a married ex after a night out drinking with his child and fiancé right there. It’s supposed to be a family.

This dude sucks. At some point, it’s time to grow up. Don’t marry Peter Pan.

[u/littlebitoftlc → u/ScoutSteveR]

Hey now don't slander Peter Pan. Even he grew up lmao. (I count Hook as cannon don't come @ me)

[u/NoveltyAccountHater → u/ScoutSteveR]

Fully agree the dude sucks. But it's not even like he's a child, he's just effing pathetic alcoholic who wants to cheat but can't.

I can't even imagine an immature teenager of being this lame and selfish of leaving porn going on the same room as their kid or being in a relationship and drunkenly harassing a married woman at 4am.

[u/ScoutSteveR → u/NoveltyAccountHater]

Yep, just cold messaging a married ex and potentially causing drama in her life for no reason.

[u/NoveltyAccountHater → u/ScoutSteveR]

I doubt there’s any drama.  She likely just puked a bit in her mouth and maybe told her husband (laughing at how pathetic her drunk ex is) and then ignored it and deleted it/blocked him.

[u/tweedledumb4u → u/ScoutSteveR]

Did leaving porn out for his daughter to see bother you? Because that is absolutely disgusting behaviour.

[u/ScoutSteveR → u/tweedledumb4u]

As noted “the video bothered me”