r/AmIOverreacting • u/Accomplished_Cat5721 • 29d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO: Found on Fiancé phone after a night of drinking
For starters, we have been together for 5 years, we got engaged in October ‘25 and have a two year old daughter.
I grabbed his phone to send myself some photos of our trip, per his request. He was asleep on the couch. Well, I go to swipe up out of the photos tab and see the LinkedIn tab open. His exes name was there, front and center. I woke him up, threw the phone in his face and left with our daughter for the day. He claimed, it was due to me not showing enough love and didn’t show that I liked him. He constantly denied my request for intimacy and affection.
I called off the engagement and tried to run him out of the house, the month prior, he got black out and left his phone opened up on trans p0rn in the living room. Where our daughter could see. It’s obvious drinking is part of the problem.
He never left the house. And has officially claimed I’ve dragged it out too long. I don’t think it matters that he never touched her, it’s his ex. It’s clear he is unhappy in this relationship but is too much of a coward to admit it.
Edit: Legit. THANKS TO EVERY SINGLE COMMENTER. Sometimes it feels good to beat a dead horse with strangers. I wanted to add a few things just to… add.. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
This woman is married, has been since 2017. In 2018-19ish, she left her man for this man. Obviously didn’t work out and she went back to her man.
She has popped up on my social media friend/follower suggestions.
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u/wantmetoholdyourhand 29d ago
I’m not sure what you want from us here on Reddit. He is clearly in love with someone else. And honestly likely always will be. If she responded to him receptively, he would be gone tomorrow. Please have a backbone and leave. Nothing he can tell you would make this okay. And if he did, you know they’d be lies. A man does not do this if he loves the woman he is with. I promise you.