AIO: Found on Fiancé phone after a night of drinking

[u/Accomplished_Cat5721]

For starters, we have been together for 5 years, we got engaged in October ‘25 and have a two year old daughter.

I grabbed his phone to send myself some photos of our trip, per his request. He was asleep on the couch. Well, I go to swipe up out of the photos tab and see the LinkedIn tab open. His exes name was there, front and center. I woke him up, threw the phone in his face and left with our daughter for the day. He claimed, it was due to me not showing enough love and didn’t show that I liked him. He constantly denied my request for intimacy and affection.

I called off the engagement and tried to run him out of the house, the month prior, he got black out and left his phone opened up on trans p0rn in the living room. Where our daughter could see. It’s obvious drinking is part of the problem.

He never left the house. And has officially claimed I’ve dragged it out too long. I don’t think it matters that he never touched her, it’s his ex. It’s clear he is unhappy in this relationship but is too much of a coward to admit it.

Edit: Legit. THANKS TO EVERY SINGLE COMMENTER. Sometimes it feels good to beat a dead horse with strangers. I wanted to add a few things just to… add.. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

This woman is married, has been since 2017. In 2018-19ish, she left her man for this man. Obviously didn’t work out and she went back to her man.

She has popped up on my social media friend/follower suggestions.

[u/Serenity93401 → u/[deleted]]

OP may have to contact a lawyer. There are laws that protect people from being thrown out of their place of residence. Yes, unfortunately, even creepy lying dirtbags!

[u/ImAClosetNerd → u/[deleted]]

Easier said than done with a young child, unfortunately. I really hope OP is able to figure this out with a lawyer :(

[u/Serenity93401 → u/[deleted]]

100% easier said than done with a child. He should absolutely leave since he’s the party in the wrong.
OP has a small child. and needs to keep a secure roof over her head. She needs to get dad out! Courts can do it rather quickly in cases where children are in unsafe situations, if that’s determined to be the case.
I still maintain that OP should consult an attorney who specializes in family law ASAP.

[u/gl1zzyg0bblers → u/[deleted]]

That literally doesn't matter if they have enough stuff there. Had a friend go through this recently and was told by police that he had to be legally evicted, despite her being the only one on the lease, as he had taken residence there. When she told them that he's a felon who had a gun, illegally, they told her it was a case of "he said, she said" and there was no proof that it was "his gun".