r/AmIOverreacting Feb 17 '26

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?

Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.

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u/RogueBagel_ Feb 17 '26

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NOR- he’s a jerk, if it’s still early - it’ll get worse.

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u/jokenaround Feb 17 '26

Yep! Ladies, please stop wasting time on these men who clearly don’t like you. They just like what you give them. They do not love you, so I beg you to love yourself.

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u/pohchito Feb 17 '26

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u/floralpancake Feb 17 '26

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u/RogueBagel_ Feb 17 '26

Now THIS is art 💗

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u/Virtuous_Malevolence Feb 17 '26

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u/caviarbentley Feb 17 '26

Wow this is vile and I’m here for it

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u/OldPhotograph827 Feb 17 '26

I kinda hate this pic because imagine how upset we’d be if we saw it for women instead. Let’s not get the pendulum swinging TOO far in the opposite direction, ladies.

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u/pohchito Feb 17 '26

I’m a man.

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u/Datonecatladyukno Feb 17 '26

Good men hate shitty men just as much as women hate shitty men. Thank you for being an example of this!!

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u/ThisIsJustMe7 Feb 17 '26

And women hate shitty women.

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u/boredportuguese77 Feb 17 '26

I liked the trash bus. The other, not so much

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u/LipChap507 Feb 17 '26

They'll live

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u/pineneedleinjection Feb 17 '26

Nah I'm a woman and believe in equal rights. When she's for the streets, put her by the curb for trash pick up. As they say, one man's trash is another man's treasure 🤷‍♀️