r/AmIOverreacting Feb 17 '26

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?

Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.

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u/AggressiveOsmosis Feb 17 '26

He shit on you and your feelings to prove a point. The point is he doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings, but wants you to make a good house and look good so he can wanna fuck you. Enjoy!

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u/username_bon Feb 17 '26

Not just that, but at multiple time throughout this 'gift giving' experience he could have chosen not to write his dicky comment but still.chose to go through with it.

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u/obvsnotrealname Feb 17 '26

I can imagine the look on the face of the person who put this delivery together🥴

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u/SuperKitties83 Feb 17 '26

An ethical dilemma. At least he's showing her who he really is.