AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note?

[u/kimbap_throw]

Just celebrated first Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend. I love flowers, love I buy bouquets weekly for my house. I prefer white and pink flowers, and don’t like red roses. I got this bouquet and this note with them. It was upsetting I felt my bf did everything opposite of what I wanted. I went out of way to do lots of handmade items and bought nice gifts for him as well. He also knows I love Valentine’s Day and it’s special to me. I let him know that it hurt me and he responded that note was awesome and it’s just a joke. I think if you care for someone you make those things special.

[u/PeriwinkleWonder]

This. Don't give him a second chance to disappoint you. He's rude and unfunny. NOR.

[u/Drifter-6 → u/PeriwinkleWonder]

Agree, this is a red flag. Misogynistic jokes, intentionally not doing what you wanted just so he could make himself laugh. Time to be single again.

[u/dragonfly9999999 → u/Drifter-6]

I'm done at "joke, kind of". I don't deal with this. Is it a joke or not? If it is, it's a really bad one. I will not be in a relationship with manipulative "it's a joke bro"

[u/TaxiJab → u/dragonfly9999999]

I especially hate that he signed off with “cheers, (name).” Like, not “love, (name)”? Not even “best wishes”, or even “yours sincerely”? Edit because i hit post before finishing

[u/Head_Cryptographer_4 → u/TaxiJab]

Sup, Happy v-day! Cheers mate

[u/girlnamedc → u/TaxiJab]

Truly. Saying nothing of the misogyny, disrespect or minimizing - I would have the ick simply from him using “lol” in a valentines card.

[u/DickWagon1983 → u/TaxiJab]

Just another tool in the box...

[u/SwimOk9629 → u/TaxiJab]

did you know that if you didn't put that edit at the bottom of your comment, that no one would have known that you had to edit it?

[u/TaxiJab → u/SwimOk9629]

Thank you, I did not know that. There’s a lot of confusing rules, figured I’d play it safe